Bisexual Men: Who's better?

Queen_Vicki

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OK, everyone this question is for the bisexual guys. who's better at sex, or who do you get more pleasure from? Men or Women? and if so why?

I am asking this question because a guy that I am seeing recently just admitted that he had male partners in the past. Now, although I enjoy gay porn, and watching bisexual videos, I am kind of confused if I should take this guy seriously both sexually and emotionally in a relationship. To be honest about it, I don't I want to take this guy seriously.
 
OK, everyone this question is for the bisexual guys. who's better at sex, or who do you get more pleasure from? Men or Women? and if so why?

I am asking this question because a guy that I am seeing recently just admitted that he had male partners in the past. Now, although I enjoy gay porn, and watching bisexual videos, I am kind of confused if I should take this guy seriously both sexually and emotionally in a relationship. To be honest about it, I don't I want to take this guy seriously.

For what it is worth..men are more nasty in bed.
 
OK, everyone this question is for the bisexual guys. who's better at sex, or who do you get more pleasure from? Men or Women? and if so why?

I am asking this question because a guy that I am seeing recently just admitted that he had male partners in the past. Now, although I enjoy gay porn, and watching bisexual videos, I am kind of confused if I should take this guy seriously both sexually and emotionally in a relationship. To be honest about it, I don't I want to take this guy seriously.

I am a bisexual man, its good your friend was honest with you up front. I enjoy playing around with guys naked in bed sometimes because guys are usually very good at sucking cock and they like to play more with the male body, nipple sucking, ass licking etc plus I love rubbing my cock against another guys. I prefer women better because I love womens bodies especially a nice juicy female ass, I can spend hours licking a womans asshole. For me I dont want relationships with men only some playtime every now and than, you have to decide if a bisexual boyfriend is right for you.
 
For what it is worth..men are more nasty in bed.

I don't know about all that... Like the nasty factor, the "better sex with who" factor depends on what each person is into and how much their partner enjoys what they do. It's just like the difference between women. Some do what I like, some don't. Same goes for men.

Now if you are asking if bisexual men tend to prefer cock over pussy, and vice versa... Then you can only get that answer from him. We're not all the same when it comes to that preference either. Just. Ask. If he likes receiving anal sex, consider wearing a strap on for him. If not... Just proceed as usual.
 
Nasty

I don't know about all that... Like the nasty factor, the "better sex with who" factor depends on what each person is into and how much their partner enjoys what they do. It's just like the difference between women. Some do what I like, some don't. Same goes for men.

Now if you are asking if bisexual men tend to prefer cock over pussy, and vice versa... Then you can only get that answer from him. We're not all the same when it comes to that preference either. Just. Ask. If he likes receiving anal sex, consider wearing a strap on for him. If not... Just proceed as usual.

Men are often quicker to get it on, and to try new things in bed. Women, not all of course, need some coaxing in the nasty department
 
I think men appreciate it more, when I was on my way to suck my first cock my knees were shaking and cock throbbing in excitement, I wanted to choke on that fat piece of fuck meat and I did.
 
You're asking the wrong people, QueenVicky.

You should be asking the guy you're seeing. Only he can answer for himself, none of these dudes can answer for him.
 
Stella is right. You're asking a very personal question, so you will get very personal answers. You really need to ask him. Maybe it would be worth your time to ask him what it is that he likes about being with men, and the same for women.
 
Stella you are right, though I came here to ask some bi guys, and get their insight on what goes on in a bisexual man's head. I will admit I am not very experience when it comes to sex,and I was wondering that he might turn gay, or run off be with a man once I actually do have sex with him.It's nerve racking knowing that I am not that knowledgeable on how to please a man,especially a bi man.
 
interesting line

Queen, this was the last line in your original post

To be honest about it, I don't I want to take this guy seriously.

Kind of begs the question, is it because he is bi, or is it him in particular?
 
Awww... I do understand that. Unfortunately, these guys still can't answer that question-- There are as many different ways of being bi as there are people who are bi. And as far as running off after he's gotten what he wanted-- a straight guy can be an asshole just as easily as a bisexual. Some guys just think that's okay. Luckily, lots of guys don't do that.

Please have safe sex with him when you do have sex, okay?
 
Awww... I do understand that. Unfortunately, these guys still can't answer that question-- There are as many different ways of being bi as there are people who are bi. And as far as running off after he's gotten what he wanted-- a straight guy can be an asshole just as easily as a bisexual. Some guys just think that's okay. Luckily, lots of guys don't do that.

Please have safe sex with him when you do have sex, okay?

I could not agree more with Stella here. I think what's the difference whether he was with men, women, both. There will always be a sexual history for us all. Competeing with memories is impossible so don't do that. Also, don't make excuse's about not being experienced enough. i. e., when I do some sex act, it is all about pleasure for us both. I truly love giving pleasure and will go to great distances to do just that. That also means I make every effort possible to be the best I can in giving said pleasure. If that's the attitude you have you cannot lose.
Good luck
 
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That also means I make every effort possiblt to be the best I can in giving said pleasure. If that's the attitude you have you cannot lose.
Good luck
Also-- receiving pleasure. If he wants to top you (give you pleasure) enjoy the fuck out of it. Give him some direction if changing up will make it better for you, and just do not worry about being selfish. You can give him a chance to be selfish too, later.

That's actually a tough one for a lot of women to learn.
 
Also-- receiving pleasure. If he wants to top you (give you pleasure) enjoy the fuck out of it. Give him some direction if changing up will make it better for you, and just do not worry about being selfish. You can give him a chance to be selfish too, later.

That's actually a tough one for a lot of women to learn.

Thanks Stella, I knew I was leaving something out (chuckles)
 
Awww... I do understand that. Unfortunately, these guys still can't answer that question-- There are as many different ways of being bi as there are people who are bi. And as far as running off after he's gotten what he wanted-- a straight guy can be an asshole just as easily as a bisexual. Some guys just think that's okay. Luckily, lots of guys don't do that.

Please have safe sex with him when you do have sex, okay?

Thanks Stella. I will take your advice to heart.
 
Thanks Stella. I will take your advice to heart.

I think stella is right on here.

But, why do you have to take this guy seriously? You can enjoy it regardless. Sex is supposed to be fun! Just be smart and safe about it.
 
OK, everyone this question is for the bisexual guys. who's better at sex, or who do you get more pleasure from? Men or Women? and if so why?

I am asking this question because a guy that I am seeing recently just admitted that he had male partners in the past. Now, although I enjoy gay porn, and watching bisexual videos, I am kind of confused if I should take this guy seriously both sexually and emotionally in a relationship. To be honest about it, I don't I want to take this guy seriously.

Best BJ I ever got was from a tranny
 
I am a bisexual man, its good your friend was honest with you up front. I enjoy playing around with guys naked in bed sometimes because guys are usually very good at sucking cock and they like to play more with the male body, nipple sucking, ass licking etc plus I love rubbing my cock against another guys. I prefer women better because I love womens bodies especially a nice juicy female ass, I can spend hours licking a womans asshole. For me I dont want relationships with men only some playtime every now and than, you have to decide if a bisexual boyfriend is right for you.

Just want to say this is so well put. Precisely describes how I feel sexually. Women are prettier to me and I am not sure if I could have ever had a relationship with a man.
I'm married to a woman so as long as that continues to work out I will never know if I was able to have the same kind of feelings for a man as I can her.
 
Just want to say this is so well put. Precisely describes how I feel sexually. Women are prettier to me and I am not sure if I could have ever had a relationship with a man.
I'm married to a woman so as long as that continues to work out I will never know if I was able to have the same kind of feelings for a man as I can her.

Thanks.
 
Personally, I am so into women right now, men don't have any interest for me at all.

i would give one of the less good BJ's if i tried it right now. I just don't care much about dick. :eek:

Pussy though... ;)
 
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