spanking and slapping at family gathering

[richdaw76]

We were at a family gathering and she(my other half) was bent over picking up some bags. I went over while the extended family were in the other room and pushed to the side where there are side doors and spanked her ass and slapped her face (hard) 2 times.

Her face was quite red, nobody heard as we had music playing. But its the sort of sudden edge play she likes. It was quite nerve racking knowing people could jump in on what had happened.

Her cousin asked why her face was red, she said she had a reaction to her make up.

I was buzzing after that! and so was she!

Do you do anything like this? please share experiences.

 

[Stella_Omega]

IMO, this is the single most important sentence in your post;

But its the sort of sudden edge play she likes.

Awesome, that you two are tuned in to each other.

I can't imagine slapping a face in that situation, it would have nasty after affects if you were witnessed. Spanking a butt can be be passed off as play, faces-- society isn't so comfortable with that.

I have some play partners that would totally love this. One lady likes to flash me that she's not wearing panties-- usually while she's driving and I'm the passenger, and I've groped her in public. but now you've given me some ideas!

 

[desertslave]

We've had a few moments while visiting my Mom where Master has given me a smack on the ass. I squealed (and laughed) one time and Mom scolded him about 'hurting her baby' but she was laughing, too. She's also told him that I need a short leash. I thought he'd have a stroke trying NOT to laugh!

ETA because I was told to. LOL That short leash moment...Mom was looking at me, and Master was standing behind her. I'm getting the Mom-look and the Master-look at the same time! OMG, let the earth open up and swallow me, please.

 

[catalina_francisco]

We have our moments.

Catalina

 

[richdaw76]

IMO, this is the single most important sentence in your post; Awesome, that you two are tuned in to each other.

I can't imagine slapping a face in that situation, it would have nasty after affects if you were witnessed. Spanking a butt can be be passed off as play, faces-- society isn't so comfortable with that.

I have some play partners that would totally love this. One lady likes to flash me that she's not wearing panties-- usually while she's driving and I'm the passenger, and I've groped her in public. but now you've given me some ideas!

Yeah exactly.. She has shared a different side to relationships. Vanilla is just so boring now!

The way I pushed and slapped her, it was sooo sexually charged, she was looking at me with the "sorry master" eyes. It had to be quick and she had to 'recover' quick also because people walking in few mins after.

I was texting her at the dinner table while the others were eating etc, i said if she didn't finished what was on her plate, id squeeze her neck and choke her for a few seconds when nobody was looking! She started to blush! I knew it was turning her on. Ironically she left some food on her plate! wonder why?

I dont know if you call this 'edge' play? Because its soooo easy to get caught.

 

[Cattypuss]

Yeah exactly.. She has shared a different side to relationships. Vanilla is just so boring now!

The way I pushed and slapped her, it was sooo sexually charged, she was looking at me with the "sorry master" eyes. It had to be quick and she had to 'recover' quick also because people walking in few mins after.

I was texting her at the dinner table while the others were eating etc, i said if she didn't finished what was on her plate, id squeeze her neck and choke her for a few seconds when nobody was looking! She started to blush! I knew it was turning her on. Ironically she left some food on her plate! wonder why?

I dont know if you call this 'edge' play? Because its soooo easy to get caught.

Ha ha I must be seriously fucked up... the only thing in this that I find at all unusual/shocking is the fact that people were using phones at the dinner table.

 

[richdaw76]

Ha ha I must be seriously fucked up... the only thing in this that I find at all unusual/shocking is the fact that people were using phones at the dinner table.

Blackberry for work, alot of people were just talking in there own groups..

 

[Stella_Omega]

I define edge play as something that has serious consequences if it gets fucked up. Death, a visit to ER, and yes-- negative social ramifications.

So, yeah. it's pretty edgy. Know what the risks are.

 

[missgiter]

Haven't done it - sounds like great fun. Thanks for the idea!

 

[Redkate]

Sounds like fun

I don't like humiliation though so the thought of my family witnessing a similar event would make me upset. But the risk of the game would be fun and I have taken similar risks before.

 

[Netzach]

Know your risk, yes. Also what's your strategy if it goes shitty?

I do risk stuff. HOWEVS -

if you are the top, it is YOUR job to have the contingency.

Can you afford the bail if your person is busted on indecent, or can they?

Can you talk the freaked out sister DOWN from the abuse scandal IF someone sees something they should not? Do you really want that level of bullshit, or are you dealing with people who will listen to reason?

If you have not considered these things, and have no contingency capabilities you have no business following your boner or hot panties. Having the power is about being capable of cleaning up your mess.

I say this having fucked up and realized once that I had no plan, was not in control and we were being two infants fucking with society in ways that happily ended well but might not have. Priceless fun, but a reminder to be a damn adult.

 

[Vixen96]

Hi all - I am new here and decided to stop lurking and get more involved in the forums. I love this thread and the original post. That is a great (and hot) idea! It seems to me it's not even just the physical act of getting caught, but the 'secret shared' afterwards - like the innocuous looking belt worn out to dinner with friends and so on...

It seems like the texting was part of that and the dreaded 'do people know I'm blushing?' moment, where you have to mentally shake your fist at your body trying to give you away

 

[bhndblueyes88]

sounds like you two had fun Just be careful! What Netzach and others have said should make youat least consider the "what if we're caught" for next time

 

[richdaw76]

Know your risk, yes. Also what's your strategy if it goes shitty?

I do risk stuff. HOWEVS -

if you are the top, it is YOUR job to have the contingency.

Can you afford the bail if your person is busted on indecent, or can they?

Can you talk the freaked out sister DOWN from the abuse scandal IF someone sees something they should not? Do you really want that level of bullshit, or are you dealing with people who will listen to reason?

If you have not considered these things, and have no contingency capabilities you have no business following your boner or hot panties. Having the power is about being capable of cleaning up your mess.

I say this having fucked up and realized once that I had no plan, was not in control and we were being two infants fucking with society in ways that happily ended well but might not have. Priceless fun, but a reminder to be a damn adult.

I understand what you saying, but we never play when its "too risky"... But we've always said that if someone caught us we'd laugh it off (pretending to play play fight after).

Its quite nerve racking but its soooo dam fun. Its NOT abuse if the other person has consented and likes this sort of play.

Im thinking about buying her this: http://www.lingerie.co.uk/Bracli-Your-Night-Lingerie--Pearl-Thong.aspx

or something similar... what do you ladies think?

x

 

[Netzach]

Its quite nerve racking but its soooo dam fun. Its NOT abuse if the other person has consented and likes this sort of play.

I know that. You know that. The Law don't know that. Her uptight fam might not know that. Her fam might not be that uptight and might get it, they might not- YOU are the one who has to make that call, and frankly, it's YOUR ass on the line.

My point is simply - you are the one in control of the situation, her job is to get all excited and dopey and oooo master and enjoy it. That's what we do for people, because it gets us off to be in charge, right? Play fighting is a good strategy if it's believable about the two of you, and it's good that you've developed a plan together.

Enjoy your boner but don't let it blind you to the exact shape of what you're taking on.

 

[Netzach]

Nobody thinks they will get pulled over while making their partner ride along without any pants on. Until the day the flashing lights invade your car late one night from behind. Really. If you don't want to be one of those small parenthetical asides in the news, it pays to plan before you're aroused.

 

[KlaytonFrost]

I've not heard much about edge play before, but the situation you describe is pretty damn hot. Slapping her in the face as well... very dangerous, but that's all part of the turn-on. Love it.

 

[Redkate]

A slap to the face is very hot for me! I have very fair skin that marks and reddens very easily so I don't know if that's go down well at a family gathering... Maybe he'd have to do both sides do it looks like I'm just flushed!