Audible Arousal

[VanessaVixen]

I've realised that one of my several fetishes is the sound of my partner's arousal. Be that moans, groans, grunts, exquisite dirty talk or just heavy breathing, being able to hear how turned on s/he is gets me going every time. Facial expressions can be hot, and actions are arguably the point of the whole thing, but if the sound of your voice tells me that you're barely holding on, I'm so much more turned on than I would be otherwise.

Anyone else share my aural fixation? And does your arousal/orgasm tend to be quiet or audible?

 

[PleasePeesMe]

I've realised that one of my several fetishes is the sound of my partner's arousal. Be that moans, groans, grunts, exquisite dirty talk or just heavy breathing, being able to hear how turned on s/he is gets me going every time. Facial expressions can be hot, and actions are arguably the point of the whole thing, but if the sound of your voice tells me that you're barely holding on, I'm so much more turned on than I would be otherwise.

Anyone else share my aural fixation?

Yes. I think it's a clear indication that I'm doing the right things and that's very good (and arousing) to know.

 

[RunningJib]

Of course we do

I've realised that one of my several fetishes is the sound of my partner's arousal. Be that moans, groans, grunts, exquisite dirty talk or just heavy breathing, being able to hear how turned on s/he is gets me going every time. Facial expressions can be hot, and actions are arguably the point of the whole thing, but if the sound of your voice tells me that you're barely holding on, I'm so much more turned on than I would be otherwise.

Anyone else share my aural fixation?

Thats why phone sex is so good

 

[Wickedglinda]

I am right there with you, the voice, I could listen all day.

 

[PhxPlay4n6]

Absolutely, that's the best thing about sex, how we all verbalize it.

 

[aness]

Yes. I think it's a clear indication that I'm doing the right things and that's very good (and arousing) to know.

agreed.. no sound means you're doing it wrong.. got to take another action
but it works best on me when he put the sound right into my ear...you can catch even the smallest gasp...

 

[Flybigirlsea]

I've realised that one of my several fetishes is the sound of my partner's arousal. Be that moans, groans, grunts, exquisite dirty talk or just heavy breathing, being able to hear how turned on s/he is gets me going every time. Facial expressions can be hot, and actions are arguably the point of the whole thing, but if the sound of your voice tells me that you're barely holding on, I'm so much more turned on than I would be otherwise.

Anyone else share my aural fixation?

Yes...very erotic to me.

 

[basic_desires]

God yes. The breathing, the little moans, getting louder and more anxious and excited the closer the climax draws...gets me every time.

 

[VanessaVixen]

Yes. I think it's a clear indication that I'm doing the right things and that's very good (and arousing) to know.

God yes. The breathing, the little moans, getting louder and more anxious and excited the closer the climax draws...gets me every time.

I love it.

So much so that I'm a bit surprised that it's not universal.

I had a boy once who was completely silent the whole time. It was a weird experience for me, especially when I couldn't see his face to gauge his reactions. A noisy confirmation of my partner's enjoyment is much preferred.

I may be a little biased, though, since I've never been very good at being quiet. Perhaps I've always just wanted to normalise my own vocal-ness. I don't think I'd find it so unbelievably arousing in others if that's all it was, though.

 

[Hispanicman28]

It is impossible for me to be quiet. I will make sure that my partner is not quiet. I love to close my eyes and hear a woman moan, suck, grunt, squeel, and gasp as we are having sex.

I also love to hear a woman on the other end of a phoe doing the same. Its a big turn on.

 

[badbirl]

I've realised that one of my several fetishes is the sound of my partner's arousal. Be that moans, groans, grunts, exquisite dirty talk or just heavy breathing, being able to hear how turned on s/he is gets me going every time. Facial expressions can be hot, and actions are arguably the point of the whole thing, but if the sound of your voice tells me that you're barely holding on, I'm so much more turned on than I would be otherwise.

Anyone else share my aural fixation? And does your arousal/orgasm tend to be quiet or audible?

i want to hear them moan, so i know they are enjoying it

 

[haurni]

Yes. I think it's a clear indication that I'm doing the right things and that's very good (and arousing) to know.

This, for me. Being quiet would be impossible, frankly.

I'm sure there are cultural norms about how we are 'supposed' to make sexual noises and what is 'appropriate' and what isn't - I'm thinking specifically of japanese porn where the girls go 'ee ee ee ee'. I strongly doubt that's a biological thing.

 

[Alanija]

agreed.. no sound means you're doing it wrong.. got to take another action
but it works best on me when he put the sound right into my ear...you can catch even the smallest gasp...

Not necessarily. I'm one of the quet ones - moaning, screaming and all that just doesn't come naturally for me. That's normal, people differ. My boyfriends haven't really complained, somehow they still see I like it. No (loud enough) sound doesn't mean there is no response at all, maybe you just have to pay much more attention to his breathing patterns and the like. I like your idea of having the mouth close to the ear

 

[secretlover1]

Not necessarily. I'm one of the quet ones - moaning, screaming and all that just doesn't come naturally for me. That's normal, people differ. My boyfriends haven't really complained, somehow they still see I like it. No (loud enough) sound doesn't mean there is no response at all, maybe you just have to pay much more attention to his breathing patterns and the like. I like your idea of having the mouth close to the ear

I totally agree with this. Even though my fetish/kink is the sounds of sex I don't naturally make any noise at all and that does not mean I'm not enjoying myself, I just hold my breath and make little noises.

 

[prettiprinces76]

I get instantly aroused by the sound of a man or a woman sighing or moaning from their arousal. It's a primal thing with me. Not only do I know I'm doing a good job, I know that my partner is as into the feeling as I am. The small gasps of surprise from an unexpected act, the deep throated moan of encouragement, the increase in ragged breathing when s/he is on the edge, the full throated yells/screams when climax is reached........I'm aroused just by thinking about it

I spent 11 years married to a man that made hardly any noise at all when we had sex. If I could get him to change his breathing pattern, I considered my actions a success. But I am such a noise maker, it is all I can do to keep the volume low enough to prevent a neighbor from calling the cops Absolutely NO sex in my bedroom when the windows are open!

 

[basic_desires]

I get instantly aroused by the sound of a man or a woman sighing or moaning from their arousal. It's a primal thing with me. Not only do I know I'm doing a good job, I know that my partner is as into the feeling as I am. The small gasps of surprise from an unexpected act, the deep throated moan of encouragement, the increase in ragged breathing when s/he is on the edge, the full throated yells/screams when climax is reached........I'm aroused just by thinking about it

I spent 11 years married to a man that made hardly any noise at all when we had sex. If I could get him to change his breathing pattern, I considered my actions a success. But I am such a noise maker, it is all I can do to keep the volume low enough to prevent a neighbor from calling the cops Absolutely NO sex in my bedroom when the windows are open!

That's a shame, I'd love to stand outside and just listen...

 

[Leslie22]

Yep, hearing my partner moan/breathe heavily turns me on so much since I know he's loving what I'm doing.

 

[Bbwforyou]

It's damn near impossible to keep me quiet. Whether its from that extra hard thrust or just a super sensual kiss. If I'm aroused you're damn well gonna know about it

 

[BuckyDuckman]

Back in my early 20's, me and my buddies would joke about finding "a screamer." As luck would have it, in the midst of all that joking around, I stumbled across one. Our first night together of passion was in a hotel room and I was NOT prepared for a true screamer. She shrieked with pleasure through-out our loving-making. So much so, I genuinely felt bad for anyone in the rooms next to us, below, above, or across from us. The third time the night manager interrupted us with a plea for us to tone it down, I answered the door naked. She was laying on the bed, moaning softly in need, and I told the guy, "Dude, have you seen her?" He looked past me, smile at her, and said, "Lucky fucker," before leaving.

 

[shanier]

This is certainly one of my favorite things when it comes to sex...I love to hear my partner's responses.

However, when I'm really aroused, I tend to get quieter and quieter. The breathing and moaning are still present but I absolutely lose the ability to make words. It makes me rather bad at dirty talk and/or phone sex.

Always bothered me.

 

[talldad1]

I've realised that one of my several fetishes is the sound of my partner's arousal. Be that moans, groans, grunts, exquisite dirty talk or just heavy breathing, being able to hear how turned on s/he is gets me going every time. Facial expressions can be hot, and actions are arguably the point of the whole thing, but if the sound of your voice tells me that you're barely holding on, I'm so much more turned on than I would be otherwise.

Anyone else share my aural fixation? And does your arousal/orgasm tend to be quiet or audible?

My wife is not that loud, I wish she were more intense in that way. I have had phone sex partners who were quite loud and I love that. Myself, I tend to be quite loud, I love thinking about the neighbors hearing my climax.

 

[VanessaVixen]

This is certainly one of my favorite things when it comes to sex...I love to hear my partner's responses.

However, when I'm really aroused, I tend to get quieter and quieter. The breathing and moaning are still present but I absolutely lose the ability to make words. It makes me rather bad at dirty talk and/or phone sex.

Always bothered me.

Just the fact that you're quieting and your breathing's changing can be hot if your partner knows what that means, though. I was with a girl who would moan while working up to her orgasm, and then when she actually came it was a lot of silence and then a gasp. That was hot to hear, although if it had been much quieter it wouldn't have been possible to hear.

 

[talldad1]

Just the fact that you're quieting and your breathing's changing can be hot if your partner knows what that means, though. I was with a girl who would moan while working up to her orgasm, and then when she actually came it was a lot of silence and then a gasp. That was hot to hear, although if it had been much quieter it wouldn't have been possible to hear.

Yes, totally. I love having a normal conversation with someone on the phone, and then I hear the breathing start to change a little bit and I know that she's getting turned on, and the slow transition into talking about sexual things. So it does not necessarily need to be loud, just detectable.

 

[talldad1]

This is certainly one of my favorite things when it comes to sex...I love to hear my partner's responses.

However, when I'm really aroused, I tend to get quieter and quieter. The breathing and moaning are still present but I absolutely lose the ability to make words. It makes me rather bad at dirty talk and/or phone sex.

Always bothered me.

That should not make you bad at phone sex, the best phone sex I have had had been without words at all. Just the erotic connection. Sometimes subtlety is everything. And the intensity of the breathing gives the imagination plenty of idea of the state of your arousal. And that's hot.

 

[shanier]

Well, then, maybe it makes me awkward at it.