The search for the caring caveman.

[Riles]

Something primal. Hard. Strictly about the cock, the cunt and the need for a fierce fucking that will leave me sore in the most delightful of ways.

I love rough play! I seem to be addicted to it, I seek it out and when I can’t find it, I attempt to manifest it by trying to provoke the response I want - you know, tweaking the lion’s tail to so speak. Yet it’s nearly impossible to find the right combination of aggressiveness and control so I can give this desire free rein without the threat of actual injury.

I’m not talking bdsm. At least I don’t think I am. How do I get the “D” without having to be the “s”? No, what I crave is to be manhandled and overpowered, manipulated and used…but I still fully expect my “O’s”!

Am I alone in this? It would be nice to know if that perfect mix has been found by someone.

 

[Pervy_Sage]

Something primal. Hard. Strictly about the cock, the cunt and the need for a fierce fucking that will leave me sore in the most delightful of ways.

I love rough play! I seem to be addicted to it, I seek it out and when I can’t find it, I attempt to manifest it by trying to provoke the response I want - you know, tweaking the lion’s tail to so speak. Yet it’s nearly impossible to find the right combination of aggressiveness and control so I can give this desire free rein without the threat of actual injury.

I’m not talking bdsm. At least I don’t think I am. How do I get the “D” without having to be the “s”? No, what I crave is to be manhandled and overpowered, manipulated and used…but I still fully expect my “O’s”!

Am I alone in this? It would be nice to know if that perfect mix has been found by someone.

Well stated, Riles. As usual.

 

[NeonKnickers]

I make a lousy "s", too, but I crave the same thing. Maybe a tender little swat with the club (not a euphemism) afterwards - a neanderthal's version of a high-five - or even a noogie.

I know what you mean!

 

[Riles]

Happy to know I'm not alone. Though I should have given the title more thought.

"considerate caveman"?

Whatever. I just want him to wait long enough so that I come to. I've ended up with what I thought would be great fucks, from highly aggressive men, but it usually ended in the most 'ing kind of way - me all sticky and annoyed.

He's GOT to be out there somewhere! I'll find him, and so will you, miss colourful britches.

 

[Pervy_Sage]

Happy to know I'm not alone. Though I should have given the title more thought.

"considerate caveman"?

Whatever. I just want him to wait long enough so that I come to. I've ended up with what I thought would be great fucks, from highly aggressive men, but it usually ended in the most 'ing kind of way - me all sticky and annoyed.

He's GOT to be out there somewhere! I'll find him, and so will you, miss colourful britches.

The "Caring Caveman" might shed a tear while he bashes you over the head. "Considerate Caveman" might be more apt. I've often wondered about this as well. I'm somewhat of a closet caveman, depending on my partner. To me, there is nothing like a woman willing to go to blow, per say, during the act, and not worry about anything but the pursuit of pleasure on both ends. Knickers and Riles, on behalf of cavemen everywhere, I salute you!

 

[sweet_secrets4u]

First of all, the title grabbed my attention. Good one

and secondly ...

Something primal. Hard. Strictly about the cock, the cunt and the need for a fierce fucking that will leave me sore in the most delightful of ways.

no explanation needed why my nipples ached or why I got so wet reading this.

 

[talldad1]

First of all, the title grabbed my attention. Good one

and secondly ...



no explanation needed why my nipples ached or why I got so wet reading this.

Nice.

Even with a man with the right personality, it's a tough order for many guys to be able to pull this off. First you have the problem of finishing too soon, and if you don't have that then you have the problem of being hard, rough, slamming, forceful for a long enough time. It requires quite a bit of staying power and stamina. I think it also requires an emotional intensity which drives the whole thing. That's probably the main key to it. Note that I'm not claiming to be one of these sort of men.

 

[sweet_secrets4u]

Nice.

Even with a man with the right personality, it's a tough order for many guys to be able to pull this off. First you have the problem of finishing too soon, and if you don't have that then you have the problem of being hard, rough, slamming, forceful for a long enough time. It requires quite a bit of staying power and stamina. I think it also requires an emotional intensity which drives the whole thing. That's probably the main key to it. Note that I'm not claiming to be one of these sort of men.

Well you seem to know a hell of alot about it Talldad!! Are you still cumming over to my cave tonight??

 

[talldad1]

Well you seem to know a hell of alot about it Talldad!! Are you still cumming over to my cave tonight??

That's an offer that is difficult to resist.

 

[Riles]

Nice.

Even with a man with the right personality, it's a tough order for many guys to be able to pull this off. First you have the problem of finishing too soon, and if you don't have that then you have the problem of being hard, rough, slamming, forceful for a long enough time. It requires quite a bit of staying power and stamina. I think it also requires an emotional intensity which drives the whole thing. That's probably the main key to it. Note that I'm not claiming to be one of these sort of men.

While I see your point from the male perspective, I should say that "my caveman" would not be hindered by these issues. Why? Because he would know and want his possession of me to be by every means possible.

....he would know that holding me, pinning me down and devouring the super sensitive skin of my back would mark me as HIS just as well as him bashing my cervix with his cock.

He would know these things. He would USE them against and for me, and he would allow and relish my protests, but it wouldnt change his plan one little bit!

 

[Pervy_Sage]

Nice.

Even with a man with the right personality, it's a tough order for many guys to be able to pull this off. First you have the problem of finishing too soon, and if you don't have that then you have the problem of being hard, rough, slamming, forceful for a long enough time. It requires quite a bit of staying power and stamina. I think it also requires an emotional intensity which drives the whole thing. That's probably the main key to it. Note that I'm not claiming to be one of these sort of men.

I see your points, bro. I can see all of those being very real issues, but then again, I think Riles is thinking more along the lines of someone who already knows what she wants and is fully capable of even pushing past all of those issues you mentioned to bash her fucking cervix in. Pardon my French. Lol. It does take a certain man, but that man comes in many different forms. Some overt and some covert.

I think the key is wanting to take possession by any means necessary. That is a caveman. Primal, intense, and merciless. Then again, I may be wrong. Lol

 

[Pervy_Sage]

While I see your point from the male perspective, I should say that "my caveman" would not be hindered by these issues. Why? Because he would know and want his possession of me to be by every means possible.

....he would know that holding me, pinning me down and devouring the super sensitive skin of my back would mark me as HIS just as well as him bashing my cervix with his cock.

He would know these things. He would USE them against and for me, and he would allow and relish my protests, but it wouldnt change his plan one little bit!

I should have read all the way to the end before I posted. Well said.

 

[Riles]

I should have read all the way to the end before I posted. Well said.

No, I quite enjoyed YOUR description also.

And yes, I should expect that my caveman has logged enough hours thumping headboards that he has overcome performance issues. He knows what he's about, and he's sure enough that he can deliver on all my wants and then some.

I came close to having this once. A man I dated for too short a time really. He had this quality....this cocky swagger that begged me to test if it was warranted. It was.

You know, the sort of man who seemed to just KNOW all my buttons - physical and psychological, and knew how and for how long to push them. Of course that pissed me off....I like thinking I am unique. But he embraced my attack of pissy female ego, first by provoking it to a rage, and then by soothing it through multipul "O's".

....its hard to stay mad after being tongue fucked in every orifice available...and even if I was, he'd already secured himself against my nails by strapping my hands to the towel rack with his belt.

 

[Pervy_Sage]

No, I quite enjoyed YOUR description also.

And yes, I should expect that my caveman has logged enough hours thumping headboards that he has overcome performance issues. He knows what he's about, and he's sure enough that he can deliver on all my wants and then some.

I came close to having this once. A man I dated for too short a time really. He had this quality....this cocky swagger that begged me to test if it was warranted. It was.

You know, the sort of man who seemed to just KNOW all my buttons - physical and psychological, and knew how and for how long to push them. Of course that pissed me off....I like thinking I am unique. But he embraced my attack of pissy female ego, first by provoking it to a rage, and then by soothing it through multipul "O's".

....its hard to stay mad after being tongue fucked in every orifice available...and even if I was, he'd already secured himself against my nails by strapping my hands to the towel rack with his belt.

Lol. And you've presented another key aspect to finding a caveman. A woman who is just sweet and pg pornish with me during sex, will mostly get the same. But a woman who fights back and refuses to make even a bite or a pinch easy, ....she incensed me, makes me feral. And breaking down an ego is the caveman equivalent of slaying a fucking t rex with a spear. It's a high like you'd never believe, and it makes the soreness and wells all worth it in the end...Damnit Riles!!

 

[warl0ck1]

Something primal. Hard. Strictly about the cock, the cunt and the need for a fierce fucking that will leave me sore in the most delightful of ways.

I love rough play! I seem to be addicted to it, I seek it out and when I can’t find it, I attempt to manifest it by trying to provoke the response I want - you know, tweaking the lion’s tail to so speak. Yet it’s nearly impossible to find the right combination of aggressiveness and control so I can give this desire free rein without the threat of actual injury.

I’m not talking bdsm. At least I don’t think I am. How do I get the “D” without having to be the “s”? No, what I crave is to be manhandled and overpowered, manipulated and used…but I still fully expect my “O’s”!

Am I alone in this? It would be nice to know if that perfect mix has been found by someone.

you appear to be my wifes twin in every aspect but age. there is a balance to be had when taking her that works well there is nothing I like better then slamming her until she screams for more then giving her that also. whether it is pinning her to the bed from behind while trying to break the bed. my hands on her shoulders or around her neck. and as she screams her orgasm increase the pace or if it is taking her from behind with my arms around her chest biting her neck like a perverted vampire it is these times that her orgasms are the most intense.

 

[talldad1]

While I see your point from the male perspective, I should say that "my caveman" would not be hindered by these issues. Why? Because he would know and want his possession of me to be by every means possible.

....he would know that holding me, pinning me down and devouring the super sensitive skin of my back would mark me as HIS just as well as him bashing my cervix with his cock.

He would know these things. He would USE them against and for me, and he would allow and relish my protests, but it wouldnt change his plan one little bit!

Thank you for clarifying this. I think I was too narrowly focused about this. You are right, here it's all an attitude and a way of being withing the relationship. The "caveman" knows he has this permission, and him fact his "caveman" like behaviour is required. It's similar to a BDSM relationship where this wants to be agreed to up front. So it's just a matter of finding a man who would agree to this. I know I certainly would, but I think my wife has other ideas.

 

[Riles]

Lol. And you've presented another key aspect to finding a caveman. A woman who is just sweet and pg pornish with me during sex, will mostly get the same. But a woman who fights back and refuses to make even a bite or a pinch easy, ....she incensed me, makes me feral. And breaking down an ego is the caveman equivalent of slaying a fucking t rex with a spear. It's a high like you'd never believe, and it makes the soreness and wells all worth it in the end...Damnit Riles!!

Oh, I can be quite sweet and pg at times...shy even. But that's the point. I want the man that embraces ALL aspects of my personality - including the one that's going to want to take a swing at him now and again.

you appear to be my wifes twin in every aspect but age. there is a balance to be had when taking her that works well there is nothing I like better then slamming her until she screams for more then giving her that also. whether it is pinning her to the bed from behind while trying to break the bed. my hands on her shoulders or around her neck. and as she screams her orgasm increase the pace or if it is taking her from behind with my arms around her chest biting her neck like a perverted vampire it is these times that her orgasms are the most intense.

It's good to know these matches DO get made - too often we hear how ill suited our partners ended up being. Thanks for sharing this.

And yummmm on the "vampire bites".

Thank you for clarifying this. I think I was too narrowly focused about this. You are right, here it's all an attitude and a way of being withing the relationship. The "caveman" knows he has this permission, and him fact his "caveman" like behaviour is required. It's similar to a BDSM relationship where this wants to be agreed to up front. So it's just a matter of finding a man who would agree to this. I know I certainly would, but I think my wife has other ideas.

smiles


Maybe your wife would like for this to be brought to the surface without having to suffer the awkward conversation beforehand?

For me, this has really been an aspect of my personality that I tried to bury for some time. It needed more time to evolve, and is only just now coming to the surface of my sexual explorations.

 

[Pervy_Sage]

I can appreciate a good punch. Lol. I'm sure yours hurt deliciously good.

 

[Riles]

I can appreciate a good punch. Lol. I'm sure yours hurt deliciously good.

lol

I meant a slap. I'm still a woman after all.

 

[Prince Albert]

lol

I meant a slap. I'm still a woman after all.

Riles I think there are men like that out there. I'd like to think iamone of them, & married. It involves a lot of give & take, talking listening, paying attention & being sincere.

 

[Riles]

Riles I think there are men like that out there. I'd like to think iamone of them, & married. It involves a lot of give & take, talking listening, paying attention & being sincere.

Naturally. As does any decent relationship.

...but this isn't about developing that kind of relationship. This is about SEX! In it's basest form. It's about MAN taking woman, and woman having the freedom to protest as she will because it's what gets her off, and not having to fear being hurt by that man.

 

[Pervy_Sage]

lol

I meant a slap. I'm still a woman after all.

Lol. Please. Like you said...punch! I know you're a hardcore chick! lmao

 

[warl0ck1]

Talking is for dinner and after sex during it is about the moans of course there is talking during sex its just more like yes harder. I can tell what she wants by how she responds. I know the night was really good when I can feel the scratches on my back.

 

[Riles]

Lol. Please. Like you said...punch! I know you're a hardcore chick! lmao

This makes me laugh. Sure, I've got grit, but that's mostly because of what I do. But really I'm more about playing games, as my size lends me a quick get away after I've slipped a cheeky remark and want to spark a game of "catch me if you can!"

I'm all of 5'2 and tip the scales at somewhere around 125lbs...I hold no delusions about me being able to physically compete with a man. And in fact, I relish the size difference, given that my ultimate goal is to be overpowered.

Will I put up a struggle? Hell yes! Will I win? Not a chance.

 

[Pervy_Sage]

This makes me laugh. Sure, I've got grit, but that's mostly because of what I do. But really I'm more about playing games, as my size lends me a quick get away after I've slipped a cheeky remark and want to spark a game of "catch me if you can!"

I'm all of 5'2 and tip the scales at somewhere around 125lbs...I hold no delusions about me being able to physically compete with a man. And in fact, I relish the size difference, given that my ultimate goal is to be overpowered.

Will I put up a struggle? Hell yes! Will I win? Not a chance.

Lol. Cheeky remarks, catch me if you can, putting up a struggle...add some cuffs, a night stick, and some water for hydration and you've got an awesome night! Game on?