Cyber sex or phone sex?

love both but

to be honest i love both but there are differences (from a personal perspective)

cyber: can take longer, lots of teasing, flirting, take your time kind of way. on those lines, you can think about things a little more (instead of having an awkward silence on the phone.) because of that a detalied, involved rp is better on the net

Phone: there is nothing better than hearing the other person, breathing, moaning, shouting in some cases. It really gices me an insight into how horny/ turned on the other person is, but I can never last as long. (That does not mean i have not had a long phone session- can still remember an all night session with a sensual lady who was half way around the world- of course it was during the day for her while the sun was coming out as i was jut getting to sleep- although i had been in bed all night)

I think both do have the taboo part (but safer than banging a random person.

So a combination of the two - best case scenario?
 
to be honest i love both but there are differences (from a personal perspective)

cyber: can take longer, lots of teasing, flirting, take your time kind of way. on those lines, you can think about things a little more (instead of having an awkward silence on the phone.) because of that a detalied, involved rp is better on the net

Phone: there is nothing better than hearing the other person, breathing, moaning, shouting in some cases. It really gices me an insight into how horny/ turned on the other person is, but I can never last as long. (That does not mean i have not had a long phone session- can still remember an all night session with a sensual lady who was half way around the world- of course it was during the day for her while the sun was coming out as i was jut getting to sleep- although i had been in bed all night)

I think both do have the taboo part (but safer than banging a random person.

So a combination of the two - best case scenario?

I agree with you Mrk, i enjoy rp on the net better sometimes
 
I enjoy phone more than cyber - listening to her breathe is very erotic
 
The debate rages

The most important thing (as in all sex) is compatibility. Do your styles and kinks match up? If that is true then game on!

I like cyber. But that leads to a few problems. Mainly, people just blinking out etc. Also, especially if they met online, how truthful they are about their gender. Which, sadly, is a big problem. One thing I always say is, there is NO hot 18 year old model who loves blow jobs just waiting to cyber. You can be sure that's a dude.

Cyber can be great.

Phone, if done right, is always better. But it presents a mess of headaches. Privacy and discretion are, of course, the most important. Then timing. Etc. But if you find someone who you click with, it's fantastic. I think it's hard to do well. Some people are amazing at it. Most terrible. I've had a few that I almost wondered if they understood the concept at even its most base level!

And in a very weird way, I've discovered (kinda like in real sex) the girls who are the best at it, are usually the ones who are a little off or even difficult at times. We can all be that way. But I guess that it's a shame the girls you most enjoy make it so hard sometimes.

Cyber many times leads to phone. And I've noticed that sometimes the talent for one does not translate to the other. Always disappointing.

Despite the obstacle course, it takes to discover good partners, the ones you do find are totally worth all the trouble.
 
I wouldn't mind hearing you say, "Giddy up, Honeygirl" :D

LOL

How did I miss this? C'mere honey, if you're half as sweet as your name implies, I will never go thirsty again. ;)

But honestly....though I would dearly LOVE to be a hit at phonesex, I am actually only able to do this if I'm NOT playing along with my partner. My mind goes blank once my fingers start to roam. Phone play with me once we're in the good stuff is really just going to be a series of sighs, moans and other nonesense from my end. :(
 
LOL

How did I miss this? C'mere honey, if you're half as sweet as your name implies, I will never go thirsty again. ;)

But honestly....though I would dearly LOVE to be a hit at phonesex, I am actually only able to do this if I'm NOT playing along with my partner. My mind goes blank once my fingers start to roam. Phone play with me once we're in the good stuff is really just going to be a series of sighs, moans and other nonesense from my end. :(

I just came.
 
He meant to say "quietly.":D

Oh HELL no! I can't have the man being quiet!

...I mean, how would that go? Preliminary chitchat followed by 20 mins of silence and then gushing about how good it was?

Dear lord, save me from quiet comers!
 
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