Responding

[Pervy_Sage]

Nope. You shine too bright. Sorry!

Welp, my day has gone into the crapper. Back to exile for mahself!

 

[Farrah]

Welp, my day has gone into the crapper. Back to exile for mahself!

Not an option. I'll hunt you down. I'm learning all about stalking today.

 

[Pervy_Sage]

Not an option. I'll hunt you down. I'm learning all about stalking today.

Huh? people stalk people? Where? Surely not here, on a cyber site.

 

[Farrah]

Huh? people stalk people? Where? Surely not here, on a cyber site.

I don't appreciate your snark.

 

[Pervy_Sage]

I don't appreciate your shark.

Hmm..never referred to it as shark before!

 

[GracefullyYours]

This is fucking hilarious....you hear that sound? That's his shit hitting the fan.... He's up to VAGirl's post now

 

[jake34]

I mistakenly thought that if I sat back and kept quiet, Jake would run out of steam. Obviously, that's not going to happen.

Jake, I don't remember your initial PMs. I'm sorry that I hurt your feelings by not responding.

That's the last time I'll apologize.

'Cause you know what I do remember? I remember you following up whatever your original intent may have been with messages calling me a whore. I remember you threatening to "out" me to people in my real life. I remember you sending equally disturbing PMs to one of my male friends here at Lit. I remember that you asked him for details on what it felt like to make me cum. I found that little gem to be especially ridiculous, considering that he is my friend, and if I choose to, I can flirt with him all over the boards and not have it mean anything more.

And now you appear on the GB, after leading me to believe that enough time had passed and you wouldn't be reappearing with your creepy rants and bullshit talk about "respect and consideration."


But here's the thing. I once was scared of you, but not any longer. I'm happy here, and you're not going to fuck that up.

Hi!

Here is the thing.

I think there is A LOT of confusion going on here.

But I also TOTALLY understand where it may be coming from.

I am totally MORE than okay with YOU.

First off, I had you confused with someone else when I said that you had not ever replied back. Her name was really similair to yours. I was going to tell you that in a PM but promised to not bother you again. If you are honest, you will admit that I have not messaged you nor followed you on the boards even.

Second, you messaged me back. You made it clear you did not want to talk and I was and am MORE than cool with that. No one should have to talk with someone they wish not to talk with. I never tried to suggest that. You need not apologize in any form. I am the one who should be apologizing to you. If anything I mean. Because my last intent was or is to SCARE you. As to your friend and as to my going too far, I have already tried to apologize to both you and him about this and cannot make you or force either of you to accept it. I do feel that people should only talk to/be with one person at a time. It is simply an OPINION. I feel that I have always been attacked for not thinking that it is okay to flirt like crazy but have no right or reason to judge anyone else. I was just trying to mess around and not really trying to threaten you. But you felt threatened and that is all that matters. Not what my intent was. So please again let me say that I am truly sorry.

Third, I started this as just a general opinion/rant and not as an indirect attack on you. The whole point of this is that people should be honest and open and up front much more and not play deceptive and silly games with one another. In fact, the woman I even had in mind when I started this is NOT you. I figured out she did not want to talk to me when she stopped sending me messages and continued to flirt/talk on the boards. I am cool with her not wanting to talk and have been for weeks. My question has to do with why can't people just respond to a PM even if to say nothing other than 'not interested' or 'no longer interested'. I just wanted to see what others feelings were. Not to call you or anyone else out.

Your 'friends' who are attacking me should ask/know before they assume, but I will leave it at that. That is the reason for all of this now today.

Hopefully this helps a little.

 

[Farrah]

This is fucking hilarious....you hear that sound? That's his shit hitting the fan.... He's up to VAGirl's post now

*Bracing for the onslaught of crazy.

 

[Wings27]

Whoa. This guy has REALLY gone off the deep end. Are we sure he's not related to NNH?

I'm picturing him at his computer, red faced and furiously typing while trying not to give himself a stroke. Trying to think up new ways to insult as many women a he can, talking out one side of his mouth and then the other. Forgetting what he picked on us for as he does the same.

I pity him.

I hope his mom makes him extra grilled cheese for dinner.

 

[Lorilei]

I'm picturing him at his computer, red faced and furiously typing while trying not to give himself a stroke. Trying to think up new ways to insult as many women a he can, talking out one side of his mouth and then the other. Forgetting what he p led on us for as he does the same.

I pity him.

I hope his mom makes him extra grilled cheese for dinner.

With tomato soup. *nods*

 

[Farrah]

Hi!

Here is the thing.

I think there is A LOT of confusion going on here.

But I also TOTALLY understand where it may be coming from.

I am totally MORE than okay with YOU.

First off, I had you confused with someone else when I said that you had not ever replied back. Her name was really similair to yours. I was going to tell you that in a PM but promised to not bother you again. If you are honest, you will admit that I have not messaged you nor followed you on the boards even.

Second, you messaged me back. You made it clear you did not want to talk and I was and am MORE than cool with that. No one should have to talk with someone they wish not to talk with. I never tried to suggest that. You need not apologize in any form. I am the one who should be apologizing to you. If anything I mean. Because my last intent was or is to SCARE you. As to your friend and as to my going too far, I have already tried to apologize to both you and him about this and cannot make you or force either of you to accept it. I do feel that people should only talk to/be with one person at a time. I was just trying to mess around and not really trying to threaten you. But you felt threatened and that is all that matters. Not what my intent was. So please again let me say that I am truly sorry.

Third, I started this as just a general opinion/rant and not as an indirect attack on you. The whole point of this is that people should be honest and open and up front much more and not play deceptive and silly games with one another. In fact, the woman I even had in mind when I started this is NOT you. I figured out she did not want to talk to me when she stopped sending me messages and continued to flirt/talk on the boards. I am cool with her not wanting to talk and have been for weeks. My question has to do with why can't people just respond to a PM even if to say nothing other than 'not interested' or 'no longer interested'. I just wanted to see what others feelings were. Not to call you or anyone else out.

Your 'friends' who are attacking me should ask/know before they assume, but I will leave it at that. That is the reason for all of this now today.

Hopefully this helps a little.

If this is true, if your OP in no way was a reference to me, why bring it here to the GB where I've become comfortable? Why message another GB'er to say this rant isn't about me before anyone else even uttered my name? And why does the scenario with this other woman sound so familiar? Instead of questioning whether women are being impolite by not responding to you via PM, maybe you should take a serious look at the content of your messages and even consider how your public posts read.

 

[jake34]

Okay folks, place your bets!

• "God, you're hawt"
• "This is all a big misunderstanding"
• "Why do you h8 me so?"

Okay folks, place your bets.

* This Rob guy was a judgemental asshole.
* This Rob guy is still a judgemental asshole.
* This Rob guy really needs to get laid. (animals not included)

 

[jake34]

slam dunk.

creepy stalker is creepy.

Slam dunk.

You are just as quick to unfairly assume as all of your other friends.

Learn how to actually PLAY before you come on the court next time.

Not READ.

PLAY.

Let's see if you can actually figure that out.

Without the help of a cartoon.

 

[jake34]

If any of that is true, Jake needs to be run over by the reality truck. That's fucked up right thar.

I want to see you get run over by the same truck first.

Then I will decide if I want to have a go.

Want to know what's even MORE fucked up?

Judging someone/something through complete indirect heresay without even trying to get the two sides of a story or without actually having been directly there.

 

[jake34]

A. I'd love to watch you fuck a tree. Let's make it a pine. Possibly a palm. Maybe cypress.

B. *cough* Care to revise that statement? *cough*

C. Dunno what your definition of "no reason" is, but....it looks to me like you just got run over by the I'm-A-Creepy-Stalker truck I laughed.

A. I will make sure that you have a front row seat. How about a cactus?

B. I think you might be coming (cumming) down with a cold. Maybe you should actually LEARN to read YOUR messages before you actually keep on yappin' your mouth away. Or maybe just skip ahead a few pages and read that. You are LITERATE after all, right?

C. Go stick a stalk up your ass. I could care less what you or anyone else thinks about me. At the end of the day, YOU are STILL a judgemental and pompous and assuming bitch.

 

[GracefullyYours]

A. I will make sure that you have a front row seat. How about a cactus?

B. I think you might be coming (cumming) down with a cold. Maybe you should actually LEARN to read YOUR messages before you actually keep on yappin' your mouth away. Or maybe just skip ahead a few pages and read that. You are LITERATE after all, right?

C. Go stick a stalk up your ass. I could care less what you or anyone else thinks about me. At the end of the day, YOU are STILL a judgemental and pompous and assuming bitch.

You WANT to fuck a cactus? Knock yourself out, moron.

 

[jake34]

*notices manly man Jake doesn't seem to have the testicular fortitude to address VaGirl07's charges.

*notices that mega alpha, never do wrong Type A Rob once again does not have the fucking patience to wait a moment for anything since I have not only already addressed her charges but also owned up to the whole incident and tried to apologize yet again.

Just a harmless observation.

 

[Farrah]

I feel like this needs to be said...I am happy to believe that the OP is not about me. I'm just fine with leaving it at that. But, when it appeared obvious that this thread was about your prior PMs and my lack of response, some really, really good people jumped into the fray. People that I consider friends; people who have made my time here pleasant and fun. People who have taught me things about life and about myself. People that are important to me or who have just made me smile after a long day. And you've now insulted each and every one of them. Multiple times. These are good people, and you've alienated them. Please, for your own sake, consider spending some time in self-reflection before you post anything else here.

 

[jake34]

Are you saying he has tiny balls?

No you can not play with my balls.

Neither here on earth nor in the clouds.

Neither here.

Nor there.

Neither anywhere.

Sorry.

 

[islandman]

I feel like this needs to be said...I am happy to believe that the OP is not about me. I'm just fine with leaving it at that. But, when it appeared obvious that this thread was about your prior PMs and my lack of response, some really, really good people jumped into the fray. People that I consider friends; people who have made my time here pleasant and fun. People who have taught me things about life and about myself. People that are important to me or who have just made me smile after a long day. And you've now insulted each and every one of them. Multiple times. These are good people, and you've alienated them. Please, for your own sake, consider spending some time in self-reflection before you post anything else here.

Forward me his PMs from now on.

I'll say 'no' for you.

 

[Wings27]

Somewhere Dr. Suess just turned in his grave.

 

[GracefullyYours]

*notices that mega alpha, never do wrong Type A Rob once again does not have the fucking patience to wait a moment for anything since I have not only already addressed her charges but also owned up to the whole incident and tried to apologize yet again.

Just a harmless observation.

Moment? Try HOURS.

 

[RobDownSouth]

*notices that mega alpha, never do wrong Type A Rob once again does not have the fucking patience to wait a moment for anything since I have not only already addressed her charges but also owned up to the whole incident and tried to apologize yet again.

Just a harmless observation.

2 and a half hours later, the whiny girly man offers up his excuse. Noooo, he didn't threaten to go after her in "real life", that was someone ELSE! Classic case of mistaken identity, dontcha know!

 

[GracefullyYours]

Forward me his PMs from now on.

I'll say 'no' for you.

If you haven't read this thread....I think you'll enjoy.

I did some of her yelling today. It was a blast.

 

[jake34]

Laughing. My. Fucking. Ass. Off.

You have no clue how stupid you look...all on your own.

But my job is simply to make you laugh.

Remember?

You must have a horrible memory!

Sad that all you seem to care about is the way a person looks.