So in my newest tale I have come to a quandry of sorts. I know women using strap ons derive pleasure from use, but what is the reasoning. Is it from the act or is it from the grinding against them? Any good Doms know an answer to that would be a real help.
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Loverskitten
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Which makes me wonder, do some Doms like it in the ass, would this be called "bottoming from the Top"
lovetoread
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Yes some do, and not if your asked to do it.
Loverskitten
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Bottoming from the bottom?
Sheesh I'm giggly today
Sheesh I'm giggly today
Stella_Omega
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Hell yeah. OH hell yeah.
Likewise, a Domme can order her sub to fuck her because penetration feels good.
Okay, so the answer to OP's question; it all depends.
I have worn my strapon in some sessions that did nothing at all for me physically. My intent was to make my partner happy. There are times when I am actually glad that I can't feel the insides of whomever I'm playing with because --coming too soon, how embarrassing,yanno?
Sometimes I have been so empathically aligned with my partner that I came simply because they did. Just a twist to get a little pressure and whoopsie!
Sometimes the dildo gets set just right, and my clit gets perfect pressure. Also nowadays, I use a Share dildo,which has a big fat knob that sets inside my pussy and rocks into my gspot -- more or less-- as I thrust. So that helps.
Bellatrixie
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Ah see I did wonder about those shares. I like the idea of them. Do you think they would hold in place well enough even through anal penetration? There is more friction going on with anal and I wondered if it would get dislodged and be irritating after awhile.
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I believe it would more precisely called bottoming of the top.
BTW, I am of the persuasion that the spelling "dom" applies to both genders. The spelling "domme" is faux-French, means nothing, and tends to reveal far more about the user than the user wishes.
rosco rathbone
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Also it bogs one down in orthographical horrors like "Dom/mes".
Sir_Winston54
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From talking with female Dominants/Mistresses back in the days when I was active with a pretty pansexual group, it depends (like so many things) on the individual(s) involved. Some got what they described as "mental orgasm" from the act of using a strap-on on others; some got physical pleasure from the movement, pressure, etc., of the strap-on and its harness pressing against the right spot(s); and others, using a strap-on with an insertable (to them) portion, felt they had the best of all possible worlds, both fucking and being fucked.
And there was one who said she loved the strap-on most because it allowed her to be (mostly) physically removed from the act of fucking her bottom of whatever gender, to focus on providing them either pain or pleasure or both, and when she wanted physical pleasure for herself, she'd just grab a handful of hair and shove their face into her crotch and hold them there until she was satisfied.
As I said to begin with... it would pretty much depend on the folks involved.
We're all different, no matter how many ways we're similar.
Stella_Omega
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I prefer a harness anyway, because to keep the thing aimed forward -- both inside and out-- I have to keep my thighs locked tight. And I guess the feeling of the harness has become integral to my strapon pleasure or something...
I just learned to tie a rope harness and I love that-- I can adjust where the pressure goes.
