How do you get your wife to swallow when she is totally against it?

[_Virginia_]

Thanks for the advise on getting her to swallow, we will try. And to the non cock suckers, read the post before you blast. It says how do you get her too, not how to force her too. People want to jump to conclusions and try to be therapist sometimes. Must be what they were taught at therapy today?

I actually didn't see anyone (women) say they didn't suck cock - they (myself included) said they don't swallow. Maybe YOU should read the posts! You're awfully defensive, which makes me suspect that you know you're being kind of a dickhead about this.

 

[Eilan]

As previously pointed out, in your opening post, you indicate your SO is totally against swallowing and why. Yet here you are, seeking advice on how to get her to do exactly what she has no desire for. That certainly smacks of non consent, coercion or force. You give the impression that your desires trump hers, regardless of how she feels about it. That may not have been your intent, but it IS the impression that was conveyed (to more than one person, I might add).

What she said.

Sorry to add to the pile-on, but, "How do I get/make/convince my [significant other] to [insert sexual activity that the aforementioned individual won't do]?" threads are a dime a dozen on this forum.

 

[amofiga]

This is something I so miss in my relationship. My wife has never swallowed me before and her excuse is the texture triggers her gag reflex. Now when I ask her she says the thought of it makes her gag. I have giving her a cream pie before and went down on her right after, I don't find it to be that bad of a taste. Any suggestions?

How important is it that she actually swallow? Will she do facials? How about if you cum in her mouth and she lets it dribble out onto her chin and drip onto her tits while you watch. As far as I'm concerned, that's pretty damned hot.

You may have answered part of your question by saying you eat her creamie pie. How about kissing her right then with the mixture of you and her on your lips? Does that put her off? I once had a lady friend that was afraid to try cum in the mouth. I asked her if I could do a facial and she agreed. After a couple of them, I did it right on her closed mouth and then kissed her, opening her lips with my tongue and she tasted it. I asked if it was that terrible and she said no. We did that another couple of times and then she tried taking it in the mouth and all was well after that.

Don't force her and don't make her feel badly about it. Take your time. Maybe she will, maybe she won't. Maybe the messy facial would be erotic enough for both of you. GOod luck.

 

[CatBrown]

Things can change

Now, I'm not advocating trying to change someone. What I am saying is people do change. Will this be what changes? Don't know.

I've been sexually active for 28 years. In the beginning, there was NO WAY I would have swallowed. Now I would, but don't get the chance (Ejaculation issues)

For 27.5 years I wouldn't consider anal intercourse. Now I'm curious and want to try it.

People change, but you can't make them. I know what I read has a big influence on what interests me. Maybe reading good stories about it will open her to the idea. Maybe not.

Is it really that important? There are so many other things to experience. Widen your vision while lowering your expectations and just enjoy!

 

[NaturistLouise]

Every Guys Desire

This is something I so miss in my relationship. My wife has never swallowed me before and her excuse is the texture triggers her gag reflex. Now when I ask her she says the thought of it makes her gag. I have giving her a cream pie before and went down on her right after, I don't find it to be that bad of a taste. Any suggestions?

It seems like every guy desires BJs and love it when their partner swallows. There are numerous reasons why women aren't as receptive, including that damn gag reflex.

I don't have any solid advice but for me, I moved from 'Do I really want to suck his cock?' to "Hey, this is great', simply because I wanted to learn how to please my man. In return, he does many things to please me sexually, including some that he was somewhat reluctant to do at first.

 

[NikkiBastion]

Or, take a page from tshirt hell...and tell her Swallow, or it's goin in your eye!

Just kidding. She's not into it. Ask yourself how someone would get you to lick a dog's ass if you're not into it and the idea of it makes you gag...there's your answer.

 

[Trubbycat]

My wife doesn't blow me often but she's quite good. She has never sucked me off all the way, however, and as much as I'd love her to I'm not going to press the issue. (She also absolutely will not do facials.) There was a time I was seconds away, and damn did I want to blow, but I let her know so she could finish me off on her tits. This was by far the best bj I have ever had.

 

[Noor]

get a new wife? swallow your cum yourself and then ask her too? give up, not worth it, there is so much more to sex than just one act.

 

[Mmmmmm06]

Eating your wife after you unload isn't the same. Talk to me after you have sucked a guy off.

 

[Noor]

Eating your wife after you unload isn't the same. Talk to me after you have sucked a guy off.

good advice.

 

[TexasWife25]

This is something I so miss in my relationship. My wife has never swallowed me before and her excuse is the texture triggers her gag reflex. Now when I ask her she says the thought of it makes her gag. I have giving her a cream pie before and went down on her right after, I don't find it to be that bad of a taste. Any suggestions?

Hmmm
they only thing i could think would be maybe
google foods that effect the taste of your cum
(which a lot of foods do)

and then maybe suggest a trade off
she will never be a swallower but
maybe for special occasions?
and if you give her something that u dont normally like
but she does?

 

[suckmytitties]

Pineapple

If you can change you diet an eat more fruit like pineapple it will change the taste of your cum, makes it sweeter.

Might like it better then

And lots of water!
but as other posters have said, is it that important?
Treat her with respect.

 

[prettykitty78]

Sorry that she doesn't swallow. In my opinion, either someone is a swallow-er, or is not. Not sure it is something you can get her to do.

Just like me with mushrooms, don't get a pizza and tell me I can pick them off, somewhere under the cheese, will be a tiny piece of mushroom. Makes me gag every time.

Now, cum, yep, love to swallow... crave it even. Just be grateful you are getting bj's at all, some men don't even get that.

Goodie

yeah i agree here its either swallow or not.. Im a not but on the occassion I will swallow just for him, but im more of a here face fuck me.. but shoot it on my face and chest type girl, to make up for the not swallowing. just the thought of it makes me want to puke.

 

[mantra23]

If she doesn't want to then don't worry about it - the fact that she doesn't want to swallow at least means she's performing fellatio so it could be a lot worse. As an alternative she might be willing to let you spray her breasts of give her a facial. If she does and you want to drive her nuts, spray her breasts first then slowly lick it off, she'll love it.

 

[NippleMuncher]

Well THERE'S yer problem!

 

[bailadora]

As an alternative she might be willing to let you spray her breasts of give her a facial. If she does and you want to drive her nuts, spray her breasts first then slowly lick it off, she'll love it.

Uh huh. Does that statement come with a money back guarantee?

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Might want to check that again. I get an error that says hotlinking not allowed.

 

[NippleMuncher]

Might want to check that again. I get an error that says hotlinking not allowed.

Hmm, looks fine to me, but then I've got that image cached. I'll go back and upload it instead.

 

[Twist_of_Fate]

You're complaining about your wife or wife to be when she still gives you head? Just be content with her jerking you off and cleaning yourself off and count your blessings. And "making" a girl do something she doesn't want to is not cool at all.

 

[lovecraft68]

You're complaining about your wife or wife to be when she still gives you head? Just be content with her jerking you off and cleaning yourself off and count your blessings. And "making" a girl do something she doesn't want to is not cool at all.

Gotta agree with this. She will willingly suck you off so be content with that. Keep pushing for this one little thing and you may turn her off to that.

And honestly, no offense, but this really is a bit juvenile don;t you think? Is she less of a woman because she won't do it? Are you less of a man because you can't get her to? Of course not to either of those.

Love your woman, cherish her, treat her well and let this go. You never know, someday she may just decide to surprise you and do for you being good to her. and if she does it will be so much better than if you harass her about it.

 

[timetotry]

Lesson to be learned from this thread, don't ask nonsense questions that are guaranteed to keep you getting your butt kicked long after you want the attention.

 

[PaulBlart]

Lesson to be learned from this thread, don't ask nonsense questions that are guaranteed to keep you getting your butt kicked long after you want the attention.

I was just going to say, count your blessings that you're getting head at all, but yours is better.

 

[NikkiBastion]

Where's the thread that should be started - guys always justifying and rationalizing why she doesn't go down on him or won't swallow...and yeah, even I am guilty of considering maybe she has too many juvenile hangups...but there's one blasphemous area that is rarely addressed...

Maybe she doesn't blow you and/or swallow because she's repulsed by the look, feel, appearance, texture, etc of your dick...maybe you've grossed her out somewhere and the idea of having any of your body parts in her mouth make her stomach turn (though she luvs ya and all...) - maybe you just don't do it for her, or you smell, or are bad with the basic common sense hygiene. Unless she's seriously pissed and taking a pot shot, most women would find that highly awkward an admission to come off with out of straight fear or reluctance of hurting you or making you feel like a nasty fucker. Re swallow, maybe your junk gunk really does taste putrid and foul, unlike junk gunk in general (I totally just made that up, keeping it).

Yes, yes...I know we're not supposed to go there on a guy but sometimes it needs to be said.

Cardinal Rule of Sex With Females: Gross out = no pussy.

If you've ruled out she's not an uptight, repressed, immature or otherwise puritanist sort of personality, chances are about 100% the reason she doesn't blow you is you.

Just sayin

 

[klippert]

This is something I so miss in my relationship. My wife has never swallowed me before and her excuse is the texture triggers her gag reflex. Now when I ask her she says the thought of it makes her gag. I have giving her a cream pie before and went down on her right after, I don't find it to be that bad of a taste. Any suggestions?[/QUOTE]

Texture is the same dag'gum excuse Mrs K uses. She sucks cock with the best of them. But, she alway cums up, right at climax. Know she's given it a go (twice) once even saying after, mind you she didn't swallow it all. She said: That wasn't so bad. I think it was the quanity, hehe.

Not even an attempt since. sometime back I found a fourm devote to women that swallow. The lady that start it, made a great comment. I've tried it on Mrs K. This girl said...Swallowing make men relax and enjoy it even more. I have to admit. When she is sucking me...I'm really enjoying it...then I have to tense up prepare to tell her.....'im getting close, here it comes'....That sound familure....

I think she got whammied by some guy...who didn't tell her or she wanted too try it for him...and ended up with a mouth full of cottage cheez jiz....

I don't shoot chuncky cum...I do shoot a large amount...is there ever a chance

 

[nkdjim2]

swallow?

You don't state if she will let you cum in her mouth or not. If she does then stop
bitching and have her pass it into your mouth to swallow. B.j's to completion are three times more intense for me then hand jobs.

 

[Eilan]

Lesson to be learned from this thread, don't ask nonsense questions that are guaranteed to keep you getting your butt kicked long after you want the attention.

Uh, yeah. The OP's last activity on this site was November 30.