Turned on by anger

[Texguy84]

Not sure how to phrase this. My wife recently revealed that it's a huge turn-on for her when I get angry. Not as in argumentative and annoyed, but like on the edge of shouting, cussing, barely physically restrained anger. Evidently it gets her going like nothing else, particularly since I'm very reserved in how I act typically.

So... yeah. Kind of concerned about actually letting myself get that angry, since I don't want to lose control and have someone get hurt, but does anyone else get off on either side of that dynamic (the getting angry/being the target of the anger)?

 

[switchbitch]

Not sure how to phrase this. My wife recently revealed that it's a huge turn-on for her when I get angry. Not as in argumentative and annoyed, but like on the edge of shouting, cussing, barely physically restrained anger. Evidently it gets her going like nothing else, particularly since I'm very reserved in how I act typically.

So... yeah. Kind of concerned about actually letting myself get that angry, since I don't want to lose control and have someone get hurt, but does anyone else get off on either side of that dynamic (the getting angry/being the target of the anger)?

when a lover takes their anger out on me sexually,uhhhhhh yum
had a bad day at work dear? Come and tell me all about it in bed

 

[RAddams]

One word:
Testosterone

 

[LordMhoram]

I've had two relationships where my SO would sometimes bait me into fucking her 'angry'. Yes, they certainly did seem to get off big time on being fucked very aggressively and roughly. Not all the time, mind you, but when they wanted it that why... Holy fuck it was good. I hated the baiting (I don't enjoy getting that pissed off, and it takes a bit to do), but the results?

Can't deny I liked it too

 

[Confi]

when a lover takes their anger out on me sexually,uhhhhhh yum
had a bad day at work dear? Come and tell me all about it in bed

This. I think some of the finest fucks I had with an ex-girlfriend was when we were completely infuriated at one and other. It was definitely not loving sex.. rather just ripping into her and using her solely for my own need. She would get her own back at me, and I had no complaints about that either...

 

[pisces_girl]

anger is definitely a turn on. maybe not the over the top infuriated kind but i like when he gets a little worked up at me. its good fuel for later.

 

[Loverskitten]

YES, Yes and yes!!!!!!

 

[Texguy84]

Hah, guess I shouldn't be surprised by the responses.

I also recall reading somewhere (maybe on lit) that sexual arousal is all tangled up in the fight-or-flight instinct for people, since a lot of the same physiological reactions happen for both, so some folks equate being scared or threatened with being turned on. Anyone else remember reading this?

And yes, the wife has, in the past, invited me to take out my frustrations on her in bed.

 

[Jackotheshadows]

anger is definitely a turn on. maybe not the over the top infuriated kind but i like when he gets a little worked up at me. its good fuel for later.

This.

There's anger, being forceful, harsh and dominating...it's your way, and nothing is going to stop you kind of angry.

Then there's rage. The kind that makes you dizzy, gives you tunnel vision and makes people back out of the room when they sense it upon you.

And that's why I don't do angry. I go from angry to incandescent rage really fast...and that's not sexy.



But I get the appeal of simple angry, though.

 

[umbra01]

Peace is a lie, there is only passion. Through passion, I gain strength. Through strength, I gain power. Through power, I gain victory. Through victory, my chains are broken. The Force shall free me.

Sorry had to do it. In all seriousness though, I would reserve this for very rare occasions. Angry sex may be good but you are still being angry in your mind

 

[DehviantGirl]

I love me some of this:

when a lover takes their anger out on me sexually,uhhhhhh yum
had a bad day at work dear? Come and tell me all about it in bed

And some of this:

I've had two relationships where my SO would sometimes bait me into fucking her 'angry'. Yes, they certainly did seem to get off big time on being fucked very aggressively and roughly. Not all the time, mind you, but when they wanted it that why... Holy fuck it was good. I hated the baiting (I don't enjoy getting that pissed off, and it takes a bit to do), but the results?

Can't deny I liked it too

And just being true to the desires and lust the emotion of anger raises. Having the trust in place to be honest is very much a part of the turn on for me.

 

[Cherry_Rose]

To go against the main flow of the board here, I don't find hubby angry sexy, i like him to be strong in bed, but if he's pissed off at me, I can't imagine letting him touch me... maybe I'm the odd one out?

 

[TeaforMe]

Some of the most intense orgasms I have had have come from angry/makeup sex....when the emotions of both being mad yet wanting comfort from the one you are mad at can make for some powerful physical reactions. I'm talking, stomach tensing, sheet clenching, almost in tears it feels so good sex.

 

[TheAnimalWithin]

Basic biochemistry. Fear....adrenaline....endorphins.....release.

I used to work as a doorman, and it never failed. Any time there was a physical altercation I could count on being propositioned numerous times over the next half hour.

 

[pink]

Nothing hotter than a grudge fuck.

 

[sereneone4u]

Nothing hotter than a grudge fuck.

Word

My hubby and I will have been married for 18 yrs this May and in one intense argument several years ago, I slapped his face...never done it before or since then and not something I am particularly proud of...but he got such a feral look on his face...his eyes and his mouth and he lunged for me so quick and strong...for a millisecond I feared him (when you think about it...men can actually kill us with their bare hands) and we ended up against the wall and then the floor fucking and it was some of the best motherfucking sex we ever had...I was so sore, lol. He did tell me not to ever do that again and he meant business...and he was right that was unacceptable...but our angry fucking was so damn hot.

 

[RunningJib]

Been working alot

Last two days I put in twenty-six or so hours and decided not to go into today. Hence, why I am spending some time on Lit today

Unfortunately, its been like this for the last seven or so weeks and as such. Despite being tired, I'm extremely horny and have started a couple of stories. One has a Jekyll and Hyde element to it where, with a touch of her hand, he goes postal, tosses a young lady against and takes her.

On one hand, I find my story very arousing. What concerns me is that I not so certain that others would find the same erotic. Moreover, may question my motives.

 

[DehviantGirl]

. Moreover, may question my motives.

I hope you don't mind my input... But, variety is the spice of life. Your story would appeal to some and repel others. Write for yourself, accurately describe the story, and be prepared to be surprised at the way your story affects others. Both good and bad.

 

[pink]

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My hubby and I will have been married for 18 yrs this May and in one intense argument several years ago, I slapped his face...never done it before or since then and not something I am particularly proud of...but he got such a feral look on his face...his eyes and his mouth and he lunged for me so quick and strong...for a millisecond I feared him (when you think about it...men can actually kill us with their bare hands) and we ended up against the wall and then the floor fucking and it was some of the best motherfucking sex we ever had...I was so sore, lol. He did tell me not to ever do that again and he meant business...and he was right that was unacceptable...but our angry fucking was so damn hot.

mmmmmmm hot!!!!!!!!

 

[vampwrrr]

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My hubby and I will have been married for 18 yrs this May and in one intense argument several years ago, I slapped his face...never done it before or since then and not something I am particularly proud of...but he got such a feral look on his face...his eyes and his mouth and he lunged for me so quick and strong...for a millisecond I feared him (when you think about it...men can actually kill us with their bare hands) and we ended up against the wall and then the floor fucking and it was some of the best motherfucking sex we ever had...I was so sore, lol. He did tell me not to ever do that again and he meant business...and he was right that was unacceptable...but our angry fucking was so damn hot.

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I'll be in my bunk.
^.^

In all seriousness though, I know that it's "wrong", but seeing a guy angry (not at you, haha) is way hot. The way his colour rises, and his nostrils flare, and his breathing quickens. The way he clenches his jaw and fists, and his muscles tighten. It's exciting watching them on the cusp of control.

It's a pity that it takes a negative emotion for them to look like that, though. You don't want him to feel bad, but you want to see the results!