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barr123

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hey girls,

I have a question about how you are attracted to men ( By men I mean men my age 18-20)

Lately ( Through out my entire life D: ) I have struggled with woman, just talking to them used to make me run away ( Literally! )
Now I am able to talk with most woman without much hesitation unless it's at a party and she's drunk because then I really can't stop laughing at all the crazy shit people do :D

Anyway, Do you look at looks over what's inside? ( I mean this in the way, i am seriously hideous at my age I haven't had a serious relationship with a woman, and I am looking for one. Yet no one is interested in me )

So, Is it all looks? or a combination? I ask this because my friends look much ( and I mean heaps ) better than me, but they are kind of stupid and dicks towards woman and yet they seem to get all the girls, why?
 
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It's always a combination. Every woman is different, so some are going to care about looks more than others. Personally I think the key is confidence and personality/ humor. If you can walk up to a woman and make her smile or laugh, you can make a good first impression without the help of great looks.
Also, don't make the mistake of thinking you are too good for women of equal attractiveness. I just wanted to throw that in there because I was a geeky late-bloomer and it always bothered me that so many guys were like that.
Hope that helps. Good luck!
 
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I would say looks do count initially - because something needs to draw you to that person. Unless you are friends with the person and gradually feelings develop that transcend initial attraction.

My advice would be if there are simple things you can fix (a thick unibrow can be waxed, bad teeth can be straightened and whitened, a badly broken nose can be re-set) then fix what you can (not advocating major plastic surgery) but if it is something simple that will make you feel loads more confident - well confidence is always attractive!!!

Maybe that is why your friends who are dicks seem to get all the chicks. Because women at your age (18-21) often confuse arrogance with confidence. And like I said, confidence, swagger, that can be incredibly attractive - until you find what lies beneath that facade is pretty shallow or self-centered. And yeah, I hate to say it but a super hot guy can get away - at least for a few years - with treating women like garbage. Eventually that catches up, he develops a reputation for treating women poorly. Average looking men usually do treat women better and I have found are sometimes better lovers - more attentive. I slept with a smoking hot guy who spent the entire time looking at himself in the mirror because he loved the way his abs and ass looked when he fucked. NO matter I was uncomfortable and didn't come. I've never had an average looking guy do that!!!

As women get older we get more adept at honing on in what is underneath - the real person who is kind, funny, caring, authentic etc. But at your age, women tend to like the bright shiny object - I say this as a former 20-something. Now in my 30s I tend to appreciate personality and humanity more than a perfect face or perfect butt.

So my advice - fix what you can. Be the guy in the room who is genuinely funny and interesting and interested in what a woman has to say - and you will find you stand out in your own special way.
 
barr123 said:
hey girls,

I have a question about how you are attracted to men ( By men I mean men my age 18-20)

Lately ( Through out my entire life D: ) I have struggled with woman, just talking to them used to make me run away ( Literally! )
Now I am able to talk with most woman without much hesitation unless it's at a party and she's drunk because then I really can't stop laughing at all the crazy shit people do :D

Anyway, Do you look at looks over what's inside? ( I mean this in the way, i am seriously hideous at my age I haven't had a serious relationship with a woman, and I am looking for one. Yet no one is interested in me )

So, Is it all looks? or a combination? I ask this because my friends look much ( and I mean heaps ) better than me, but they are kind of stupid and dicks towards woman and yet they seem to get all the girls, why?
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18-20 is a boy who thinks he's a man.
 
I was going to answer the OPs question, but then Savage, JAJ and Pete ruined the thread.
 
SaintPeter said:
Don't hold back!

If you got advice for the little whipper snapper let it flow.
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My advice for young (18-20) men generally does not solve their problems in the manner of salvation they seek.

So, being of a polite sort and having you, Savage and JAJ already in the thread to offer empathy to this young (18-20) male, I shall refrain from posting my sensible advice to help him find the mate he so desires.

besides, he said he's as ugly as a turd so what the fuck? Am I going to saddle a nice 18-20 girl with this freak of nature? Noooooooooooo.
 
LadyFairfax said:
My advice for young (18-20) men generally does not solve their problems in the manner of salvation they seek.

So, being of a polite sort and having you, Savage and JAJ already in the thread to offer empathy to this young (18-20) male, I shall refrain from posting my sensible advice to help him find the mate he so desires.
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Well that is some helpful stuff there!

Look. You are not old enough to buy whiskey in the states. You have your whole life ahead of you. Learn a trade, get an education, and stay away from church. The other pieces will fall into place.
 
LadyFairfax said:
My advice for young (18-20) men generally does not solve their problems in the manner of salvation they seek.

So, being of a polite sort and having you, Savage and JAJ already in the thread to offer empathy to this young (18-20) male, I shall refrain from posting my sensible advice to help him find the mate he so desires.

besides, he said he's as ugly as a turd so what the fuck? Am I going to saddle a nice 18-20 girl with this freak of nature? Noooooooooooo.
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Clearly written from a female perspective.

They young (18-20) male doesn't want to find THE mate, he wants TO mate.

Women:rolleyes:
 
JohnnySavage said:
Clearly written from a female perspective.

They young (18-20) male doesn't want to find THE mate, he wants TO mate.

Women:rolleyes:
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See, the problem is that most of you look above your station.

You want a woman with two legs, two arms, a head, eyes, hair and all of it assembled to look something like Angelina Jolie and to act as if she's on a quest for sex in every orifice, when in truth most of you are qualified to get a woman who looks something like a tri-folded piece of paper and JAJ's soap and shower drain.
 
JackAssJim said:
I just read the part in the story where he claims to be hideous.


We need to get him some pussy for the holidays.

Does anyone know where we can get this lad some pussy?

I've seen pussy cure stuttering in a movie.

You guys and galettes know the movie I'm talking about.
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I was thinking we could go on paypal, send some money to an account and buy him a few cans of corn.

That should handle it.


Ratched in Raleigh

LF
 
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