married but lonely..

[sweetkelly]

I was wondering if others have fantasy about cheating..
It turns me on when I think about sleeping with other guys.. of course it's fun as long as I don't get caught..

 

[Dstrick15]

Completely! Such turn on!

 

[cf23430]

I was wondering if others have fantasy about cheating..
It turns me on when I think about sleeping with other guys.. of course it's fun as long as I don't get caught..

mmmmm yes I love that

 

[ConstantineIII]

I am not much for cheating; however, I am in an open marriage, so my context is slightly different.

 

[Marriedguy32]

Cheating

All I think about is cheating. Especially with someone my wife might know. Or having my wife passed out in our bed at a party, I lay down to sleep, and someone sneaks into our room. Climbs into bed with me and they are naked. And we have sex, right next to my passed out wife.

 

[ezwriter]

Yes. Very nice fantasy... especially with someone also unhappily, restlessly married. The letting go when we can finally be alone together, satisfying pent up desires.... Mmmm

 

[firefighterscott]

Im with everyone else sounds hot

 

[willyeddy2001]

married but lonely

hi sweetkelly pm me and let's fantasize together. i cum quite often fantasizing about some woman i see that i'd like to cheat with.

 

[LindsayRae]

...of course it's fun as long as I don't get caught..

This line makes it sound as if you've done it (instead of just fantasized about it). Be careful and good luck.

 

[klippert]

their is that element of excitement for sure....

 

[sexiskye]

it really adds a twist yes.....

 

[kneedeep98]

I was wondering if others have fantasy about cheating..
It turns me on when I think about sleeping with other guys.. of course it's fun as long as I don't get caught..

The excitement of doing something with someone you both know is a real turn on. The working out of details to keep the secret. Finally the meeting and having the much anticipated sex, wild and hot.

It is really a turn on.

 

[Tmmldr]

The excitement of doing something with someone you both know is a real turn on. The working out of details to keep the secret. Finally the meeting and having the much anticipated sex, wild and hot.

It is really a turn on.

After years of little suggestions...eye contact, smiles, the way she brushed my arm that was a bit more than an accident, I decided to hit her up. She could just say no, or say nothing. But she'd be thinking about it. Could she get it out of her mind? Would it become an obsession? Just thinking about the way to approach the subject was becoming my obsession.

She was married, and she was hot, and she was a tease. I was married, and I was frustrated, and I was jerking off right then, just thinking about her. Just like many times before, but this time was different.

This was the time that I decided to lay it out in the open, whatever happened, to let it come.

 

[Dom4uinLvNv]

When your younger its cheating...As one grows older.. We call it getting lucky..

 

[amofiga]

SweetKelly

Show me a person who tells you that they have not thought about cheating in one way or another and I'll show you a liar. I truly believe that humans are not monogamous by nature. It was the priests and elders of early civilizations that pushed monogamy as a way to keep peace in the tribe or city. Many people never act on the fantasy, but many do.

Depending on what statistics you see, the number of men and women who stray from a marriage or similar relationship ranges from about 25-50%. The numbers are similar for both men and women. If you carry that math to how it relates to couples, it says that there is about a 40-75% chance that at least one of the members of any couples relationship contains at least one partner who has cheated. Think about that the next time you're sitting around that table with 3 or 4 other couples. It's a good bet that at least one or two of them include someone who has "strayed". THe longer they've been together, the more likely it is. The primary age for extramarial relationships isn't the infamous "7 year itch" but is usually about 11-15 years. Most cheaters are never found out and whatever relationship they've had on the outside usually ends naturally and quietly without the other partner knowing. In some cases, it can blow up into a mess. A high percentage of couples where an infidelity is discovered continue the relationship if there is a strong underlying nonsexual bond or other reasons to work through it. If it's a case of habitual infidelity or if one or the other of the partners was sort of looking for a reason to end the relationship, the relationship will probably end.

Fantasies about having affairs are normal and can be a very erotic kick to your libido. My own wife has said how thrilling it was for her (as little as 5 or 6 years ago) to walk along the beach strutting her stuff and feeling the eyes of men follow her. Sometimes she'd notice a particularly attractive man and fantasize that he would approach her to pick her up. As far as I KNOW she never acted on such a fantasy. However, I can also tell you that when a partner in a marriage does indeed venture outside the marriage and is found out, it is a horrible and terribly stressful experience for both. It drags the beating heart of of both parthers and crumbles the foundation of trust. It takes third-party intervention and sometimes years of work to re-stabilize the relationship. Often, the relationship is repairable and can even be strengthened. Unfortunately I had to find out the hard way. Trust me, it can be done, but, it's no fun, and I do NOT recommend it.

That's not to say that the fantasy of affairs and/or non-conventional encounters can't be a tool for adding a little erotic interest to a marriage. Some people use this type of role playing to keep the passion alive. The work that we had to go through forced us to open up a lot about ourselves. Frankly, finding out about my wife's beach walk fantasies and hearing about some of her escapades in high school and college that she never previously told me about, became a tremendous turn on for me. It helped me to see her as a highly sexual woman again and not just as a wife and mother.

Good luck. Don't beat yourself up about any fantasy you have. Hopefully you and your partner will learn to accept and respect thsese fantasies you each have, and build on them with trust and respect, and use them to make your relationship better.

 

[LindsayRae]

their is that element of excitement for sure....

Or "there"...

 

[boredVAwife]

When your younger its cheating...As one grows older.. We call it getting lucky..

And at any age we still have to live with ourselves with what we've done and look ourselves in the mirror. I am the poster girl for effing things up and though I would want the end result the same, I sure wish I could re wind and go about it a whole helluva lot differently.

 

[Image13]

Hello

I was wondering if others have fantasy about cheating..
It turns me on when I think about sleeping with other guys.. of course it's fun as long as I don't get caught..

Yes I also think it is a turn on

 

[ignorantslut69]

Sadly, all I have ever done is cheat, and it is not because I do not love her. I just like the adventure of it all.

When I was younger, I would hit on married women all the time, and every time they showed up at my apartment they were there for one reason. I guess even if they weren't we still did.

I can honestly say and I am sure someone will flame me for it. I have never had girlfriend that I did not cheat on, from their roommates to someone they knew to anyone that wanted to.

Joe

 

[sweetkelly]

I think it also helps somewhat to my relationship with my husband. I feel guilty and bad for my husband so I do extra for.him.
I'm just glad that I'm not alone on this topic. What really turns me on is that I'm not another married women. Even with the ring on my finger I still have game..

 

[Abrams1900]

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[RunningJib]

Great fun

I was wondering if others have fantasy about cheating..
It turns me on when I think about sleeping with other guys.. of course it's fun as long as I don't get caught..

Lots of potential

PM sent

 

[sweetkelly]

That could be true since I have no interest in another relationship.

 

[englishgent73]

I think sometimes the ring on the finger helps! Then the person hitting on you for sex! They know you won't expect anything else. Maybe this is just me, but since I've been married, I get hit on a lot more at bars.

I obviously go to the wrong bars!

My cheating fantasy is with a married co-worker - she has a flat nearby where we go for "lunch" to avoid creating suspicion from our partners

 

[RunningJib]

A wise policy

That could be true since I have no interest in another relationship.

When 'open,' you need to spell out what each of you is looking for.

One lover I had and I were both on the same wave length. Wanted to get off. Want to experiment and get beyond the typical limits