KISSING? More intamite than sex??

[DAVIDSride656]

So ... My bf and I were having a discussion on kissing on the mouth ..

Bf: sex is more intamite than kissing on the mouth
Me: no way passion and emotion is put into how you kiss someone and the drive behind it

Bf: so you are saying inserting myself in you isnt more personal or intamite ?

So I'm saying no that sex can be emotion less .. What do you think. ??

 

[twister947]

I agree with you...kissing is more intimate.

 

[backslash]

I actually had a conversation that was similar to this, earlier tonight. I also think that kissing is more intimate than sex.

 

[LibraStud]

Kissing for a long time before sex is very intimate. But for me, I want to be more intimate - and there are many other things to do to show my feelings for a lady!
I do not have to elaborate - we know what they are!

 

[Up4fun&69]

I've been lucky enough to have been in several MFM 3somes with married couples whom I considered good, long-term friends. On this limited sample base, I've found that in the more secure marriages, kissing with the wife was fine because it made our play more than just sex but something more special and intimate. With the more insecure couples, kissing was off limits because they felt comfortable with more mechanical sex and that kissing made it too intimate and, in some ways, threatening to the bonds the couple shared.

So in each case, both M and F, seemed to agree that there was something more intimate and personal in kissing than in just plain ol' sex. And since I think sex/lovemaking is so much better and hotter with kissing your partner, I'd have to agree.

 

[LeftyBob]

Excellent answer, Up4.

I also love the quote from "The River."

And I agree..kissing is more intimate!

 

[Boundlife]

I think its really more to do with making love vs. fucking. Kissing is intamite because your bodies are pressed together...holding each other close...
Kissing is a big part of making love, where contact and intamicy is part of the goal. However you can fuck and barely touch (other than the groin area). Not so intamite

 

[GracefullyYours]

I think its really more to do with making love vs. fucking. Kissing is intamite because your bodies are pressed together...holding each other close...
Kissing is a big part of making love, where contact and intamicy is part of the goal. However you can fuck and barely touch (other than the groin area). Not so intamite

I agree. It's hard to get more intimate than a slow, deep, hard grind while you look in each others eyes....

 

[firefighterscott]

I think a slow deep kiss is very hot and what a great way to set the mood.

 

[HeyItsDani]

I agree with you...kissing is more intimate.

As do I. That's the reason why many prostitutes won't kiss the guys they see, and one reason why those who advertise as "GFE" (girlfriend experience) are in pretty high demand, because they usually include kissing as part of their service.

 

[GracefullyYours]

As do I. That's the reason why many prostitutes won't kiss the guys they see, and one reason why those who advertise as "GFE" (girlfriend experience) are in pretty high demand, because they usually include kissing as part of their service.

Hmm....I see your point. However....I've kissed a whole lot of guys I never fucked, and I've yet to have a morning after feeling from kissing someone.

 

[cf23430]

Hmm....I see your point. However....I've kissed a whole lot of guys I never fucked, and I've yet to have a morning after feeling from kissing someone.

Perhaps you have not kissed the right man..........but yes I do agree it is very intimate......

 

[Boundlife]

As do I. That's the reason why many prostitutes won't kiss the guys they see, and one reason why those who advertise as "GFE" (girlfriend experience) are in pretty high demand, because they usually include kissing as part of their service.

This is a messy comparsion. To say which is more intamite you would need to compare just kissing and intercouse with no kissing.

seperated, sex can have more emotional and concrete consequences than kissing.

But combined is the most intamite

 

[GracefullyYours]

combined is the most intimate

Yes...it is...

 

[Carnevil9]

Great discussion, everyone. I can see both sides of this issue. Clearly, fucking is more physically intimate, but kissing is more emotionally intimate.

It reminds me of the punchline to a very old joke:

"Kiss you? Hell, I shouldn't even be doing this!"

 

[HeyItsDani]

Hmm....I see your point. However....I've kissed a whole lot of guys I never fucked, and I've yet to have a morning after feeling from kissing someone.

Wow. Really? I have.

This is a messy comparsion. To say which is more intamite you would need to compare just kissing and intercouse with no kissing.

In what way is it "messy?" And with your second sentence, you basically restated what the OP said. So...I'm not sure what your point is there.

But combined is the most intamite

The OP didn't frame the question that way, though.

seperated, sex can have more emotional and concrete consequences than kissing.

Though perhaps true, that has little if any direct correlation to the intimacy level. Intimacy is a measure of physical, sensual, or emotional closeness. The consequences of both/either is irrelevant.

 

[Boundlife]

In what way is it "messy?" And with your second sentence, you basically restated what the OP said. So...I'm not sure what your point is there.

It's messy because the sex and kissing are mixed. I was saying that they would need to be completely separated to properly compare.

 

[HesterPrynne]

I see kissing as an amazing mixing of souls. There is just something about it that is so deep and sensual and sweet all at once.

Often I have had kisses that just thinking back on them has made my entire body react in a most pleasurable way. And I cannot wait to have those kisses again.

 

[butterfly_flip]

I see kissing as an amazing mixing of souls. There is just something about it that is so deep and sensual and sweet all at once.

Often I have had kisses that just thinking back on them has made my entire body react in a most pleasurable way. And I cannot wait to have those kisses again.

This.

 

[HesterPrynne]

This.

 

[aim2pleaseyou]

For me, kissing is definitely more intimate because it comes first. I don't think you can have intimate sex with someone you've never shared a passionate kiss with. Just my .02

 

[twister947]

Over time, I found the sight of my ex fucking, sucking, etc exciting, and easy to take. I cannot say the same of kissing...it was always a gut check.

 

[acre1]

at first i would say yes, i love kissing to start things off in a relationship. i kiss for hours and hours before i have sex, no exaggeration. after that the sex is great....totally worth the wait. but i would say overall...yes, more intimate...but more enjoyable overall? no, i still take sex over it

 

[DAVIDSride656]

TY everyone lots have def made my point in ways I couldn't, I see kissing as a Bond thAt he and I share with one another. I want to thank you !

 

[bernett69]

kissing is far more intimate. there are a lot of people I would be comfortable having sex with but would be sort of put off kissing.