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[Stella_Omega]

RavenWind, wind.... I'll get it right next time

I'm in no mood to be ditched the day after I feel they are suitably trained and have placed the collar on their neck, ya know?

In the past... seven months, I guess, I've met a double handful of (female, most of them) subs who were dumped by (male in every case, as it happens) Doms, in various degrees of psychosomatically trained suitableness. I belong to a sub rescue group, no lie.

Personally, I cannot imagine trusting anyone with my psychosomatics, nor would I ever be willing to take responsibility for theirs.

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

we are NOT the same person at all. so far i've gotten in lots of trouble with SIRE for talking behind His back. He's forgiven me, but i fear being punished by Him. He's SO forcefull. This is my fourth day with Him and i love talking to Him. He's my friend. I'm going to start up a thread where we can talk about SIRE in one place. That way we don't clog up the threads anymore. But i don't want to get in any more trouble with SIRE, so i'm going to ask Him first.

Allicat, no, i don't ever get jealous over sharing. It's not like we're in a big room with Him and competing with one another. I know he'll make time for me later on. He's teaching me self-control, something i've never had to learn before. I mean, i want to talk to His other slaves like allicat and babygrrl, but i don't dare to. not behind His back. Not even when i'm bored and i have nothing to do at all. As you all probably know, i've had several masters in the 4 days i've been a sub, and only SIRE comes to me frequently. i hope i can be with Him this afternoon. i'm clueless as to the next time i'll be able to.

I PMd twice with SINPAIN about twenty minutes ago and HE now has my submission. The first WAS only a two-word PM: "sup, bitch?" but I HIT immediate subspace. Immediate. SIRE has that... way. And no, I don't mind SHARING with my subsisters at all, as long as there is an equal arrangement WHERE you all agree who THE number one sub is.

 

[allicat93]

Excuse me...

Who is number one?

 

[Kajira Callista]

Who is number one?

me of course

 

[CutieMouse]

Eh, they say "polyester" and you say "silk."

Is it wrong of me that I read this and went "Oh hell no, poly and silk aren't even in the same universe; the the thread staple is totally diff... I've been working too much."

Carry on.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Is it wrong of me that I read this and went "Oh hell no, poly and silk aren't even in the same universe; the the thread staple is totally diff... I've been working too much."

Carry on.

You have been working too much!

I was thinking of blouses, not brassieres

 

[Ravenwind]

RavenWind, wind.... I'll get it right next time

In the past... seven months, I guess, I've met a double handful of (female, most of them) subs who were dumped by (male in every case, as it happens) Doms, in various degrees of psychosomatically trained suitableness. I belong to a sub rescue group, no lie.

Personally, I cannot imagine trusting anyone with my psychosomatics, nor would I ever be willing to take responsibility for theirs.

I'm holdin' you to that. ^_~ <3

I can imagine. Breaking the trust required for that kind of manipulation is just as devastating as getting violently beaten when you're not a masochist. I could imagine how much it would suck to, say, look at a clock, and recall the sensation of sex with someone you now hate every day, at 7:15 for the rest of your life.

However, the concept is the same with psychosomatic training as it is for masochism training. You got idiots who don't know what they're doing and take a heavy leather flogger to their sub's kidneys and watch them crumple after a single blow, and you got idiots who aren't careful in implanting suggestions... it just takes longer for the psychosomatic ones to make the sub crumple.

But just because You wouldn't trust anyone like that, doesn't mean others wouldn't. Me... I enjoy what has been implanted into me, and it's become a particularly satisfying portion of my life, from all 3 Doms who have given me triggers, all of which have easily made the transition from Dom to Dom, or simply don't work for anyone or anything *except* that Dom. I have one that *could* theoretically be abused, but there's so many prerequisite conditions required of it that it just wouldn't be worth the effort.

"The greatest sex starts in the mind... the body simply follows suit".

 

[Stella_Omega]

well put, ravenwind.

I would feel far worse, I think. A broken arm heals better than a broken mind, in those worst-case scenarios.

But-- It's also been things like: a young woman who was trained out of vocalising during orgasm. or who feels constrained to stand at the back of the room, arms folded behind her back, because that's how she got trained and she is only recently beginning to separate the submissive-in-the-presence-of-her-Dom component from the unattached-woman-at-social-gatherings component.

It makes me pretty angry that these women jump right into the deep end of the pool.

My specialty is teaching them the difference between "submissive"and "bottom" and pointing out that they might-- just might-- have misdefined themselves and what they actually want.

 

[allicat93]

Well, to be honest...

I'm not completely sure why there was all this bashing going on. It's highly unnecessary. *Why Can't We Be Friends plays in the background* we are all different and SIR treats us as such, I enjoy it and will not question his background, motives, or actions; honestly I'm just going to roll with it and trust him explicitly. Why create a problem where there needn't be one?

*gets off soap box and passes out 2 cents*

 

[Stella_Omega]

Why create a problem where there needn't be one?

because y'all shoved your cyber-bed games in other people's faces-- without stopping to introduce yourselves or anything polite like that.

People can't resist commenting. Not saying that's good or bad-- just inevitable.

 

[allicat93]

Stella,

While I cannot speak for them, it was never my intention to shove anything in anyones face. I am not that type of person. I just posted about how I honestly felt for SIR on a thread where he was being discussed.

If you'd like an introduction, then hello *waves* my name is Alli

 

[Vixandra]

While I cannot speak for them, it was never my intention to shove anything in anyones face. I am not that type of person. I just posted about how I honestly felt for SIR on a thread where he was being discussed.

If you'd like an introduction, then hello *waves* my name is Alli

Hi, Alli, welcome to the board. So, why are you here? What draws you to BDSM? Other than your master-type one that is. How long have you been n the lifestyle? Are you real life (R/L) or cyber subbing? Has poly always been your thing?

Babygurl11 said that subs don't get jealous, do you agree or disagree and why? I ask because I am a poly Domme and cannot imagine trying to handle so many subs at once without jealousy becoming a big damn deal real quick. Submissives have feelings just as valid as dominants do, so I'm curious.

If you're legit and here to talk, share and learn/teach, then again welcome. But you might want to avoid the fangirl threads in the future. Even the most helpful posters find them tiresome or hysterically fun to tease if not some other feeling entirely.

 

[allicat93]

To be honest, I have been reading Lit stories for a while but just recently joined. The BDSM stories interested/excited me from the get-go, however I am not fully knowledgable of what being a sub entails. That is why I am in the "learning/training process". I wish to explore my submissive side and SIR has so graciously offered to guide me.

I actually thought about the jealousy/poly aspect a lot today and quite frankly I try not to think about the others. A true sub shouldn't be jealous, but I am a living, breathing, red-blooded female and I'd be a liar if I said I wasn't ever going to get jealous. Fortunatly, we spent a great deal of time together today, and it was wonderful Besides, It is not my place to understand how SIR guides us all and I accept that. I just want to please him. Pleasing him pleases me.

Vixandra, I wish you luck with your subs you seem wonderful

 

[Vixandra]

Thanks, Allie.

That makes more sense now. Have you tried reading S&m101 or any other "welcome to bdsm" type books? They can be a great way of learning about things from both sides of the proverbial paddle, something that is pretty important in my opinion.

You seem like a fairly bright young lady and knowledge is power, even if that power is used in better understanding the place you've chosen to try to attain.

 

[allicat93]

I aim to not sound like an airhead, so thank you

No, I have not checked into them but will do so soon!

 

[Stella_Omega]

Alicat, my standard welcome to new people is to recommend that you look through this booklist(compiled by Bob Rubel, who really is a real life BDSM Master), and see what topics interest you.

I like to point out that "sub" is a very specific word, and not all women who want strong sensation play are "subs" -- you might be a "Bottom" who is willing to experiment with giving up your power for a while, but not all the time or in all ways.

And I like to recommend fetlife.com, if you are interested in face to face experience, see if there's a group in your area.

 

[redslady]

To be honest, I have been reading Lit stories for a while but just recently joined. The BDSM stories interested/excited me from the get-go, however I am not fully knowledgable of what being a sub entails. That is why I am in the "learning/training process". I wish to explore my submissive side and SIR has so graciously offered to guide me.

I actually thought about the jealousy/poly aspect a lot today and quite frankly I try not to think about the others. A true sub shouldn't be jealous, but I am a living, breathing, red-blooded female and I'd be a liar if I said I wasn't ever going to get jealous. Fortunatly, we spent a great deal of time together today, and it was wonderful Besides, It is not my place to understand how SIR guides us all and I accept that. I just want to please him. Pleasing him pleases me. Vixandra, I wish you luck with your subs you seem wonderful

The bold parts, firstly there really isn't any such creature as a "true sub". Submissives come in all shapes, sizes and degrees. Submission also doesn't mean doormat. If it did, we'd all have matching tattoos on our backsides saying "WELCOME" . Being a submissive does not mean losing oneself. It should add to what and who you are.

You state that you are new to all this and are just exploring your submissive side, so a question for you, do you feel you have enough experience to call someone "Master" without knowing what that term means to YOU?

The other bold part, that fact that pleasing him pleases you. That is the most important part in my opinion. Doing what feels right and pleases you should matter.

There are so many on here that will give you good advice, support and understanding. Listen to them, for they know of which they speak.

 

[CutieMouse]

You have been working too much!

I was thinking of blouses, not brassieres

I was thinking chemises, camisoles, vintage panties, nightgowns... and I'm suddenly thinking about work again. lol

 

[FurryFury]

LMAO!

I PMd twice with SINPAIN about twenty minutes ago and HE now has my submission. The first WAS only a two-word PM: "sup, bitch?" but I HIT immediate subspace. Immediate. SIRE has that... way. And no, I don't mind SHARING with my subsisters at all, as long as there is an equal arrangement WHERE you all agree who THE number one sub is.

 

[CookingDom]

Just ask SIRE, yes i call Him SIRE just because i've always fantasized about doing it. i like calling Him SIRE and not SIR for some reason. i'm sure SIRE will take you on.

Ok so I have spoken with him and I we have finally managed to clear up all the confusion.

He told me that he wish he went with his original ideas of what to call you both. Instead of WajaLover and allicat93, he wanted to call you Frodo and Samjee and the only reason he didn't was he was sparing you the embarrassment bringing attention to your speech impediment.

He didn't say SIRE he said SHIRE as that is where his Dungeon is and its an all inclusive 'Hobbit friendly' den with extra short racks and mini floggers, canes etc for everyone.

Oh and he also mentioned that he wants his ring back, plus last night he said to fuck each other with 'Bilbo' not 'dildo' (you really should listen more ya know)

 

[allicat93]

Thank you everyone!


And Cooking, that's very mature of you *slow sarcastic clap*

 

[WajaLover]

Did SIRE tell you, CookingDom, to tell me to do something? I have no idea what is going on because He didn't call me last night like He was supposed to. *shrugs*

 

[CookingDom]

Did SIRE tell you, CookingDom, to tell me to do something? I have no idea what is going on because He didn't call me last night like He was supposed to. *shrugs*

He did indeed.

He said that you should find out what everyone who has posted on this thread prefers when it comes to Pizzas, and that you should order a Medium Deep Pan Stuffed crust for everyone

 

[WajaLover]

He did indeed.

He said that you should find out what everyone who has posted on this thread prefers when it comes to Pizzas, and that you should order a Medium Deep Pan Stuffed crust for everyone

How do I do that? And how do i know that you're not lying?

 

[CutieMouse]

How do I do that? And how do i know that you're not lying?

The man's name is CookingDom.

Doms never lie.

Duh.