Masturbating with boyfriend asleep next to me...

[SLOWisGOOD]

I'm writing this thread to try and distract myself from how horny I am!

It'll be super quick and I think I can manage to keep it to a low whimper when I cum... But, my question is... Is it wrong to finger myself with him sleeping next to me?

Is there a way to do this that works best in the discrete situation that I find myself in today?

Waking him up is not an option, he has trial ad early.

 

[masterdrakin]

Is it wrong no.it is wrong he's sleeping instead of taking care of his girl that's very wrong don't matter what he has to do in the morning. Unless of course that could al depend on what your thinking about.

 

[Debbie920]

When I was younger and shared a room with sister I had to be quiet when in the mood. just do it and enjoy it, I'm sure you'll find away to cum without waking him.

Or go to a different room and have some fun

 

[CWatson]

Just because you have a boyfriend doesn't mean your sex life is magically perfect. Would you feel bad about it if he wasn't in the house with you? Probably not. Well, no reason to feel bad about it now, because right now he is also unavailable, if for different reasons.

 

[trojank]

Where's the problem ? If he wakes up he can finish you off, or if its waking him up is the worry either be discreet or as said go to a different room !

 

[Franglais71]

nothing wrong with it at all, don't worry and enjoy yourself!!!

Debbie, how naughty of you

 

[Eilan]

Is it wrong no.it is wrong he's sleeping instead of taking care of his girl that's very wrong don't matter what he has to do in the morning. Unless of course that could al depend on what your thinking about.

Bullshit.

Some people have jobs, families, and other stuff that keeps them from having sex as often as they'd like. Life happens. As long as the OP's using masturbation as a supplement to--and not a substitute for--sex, I don't see the problem here.

 

[BBW_T&A_Lover]

Just because you have a boyfriend doesn't mean your sex life is magically perfect. Would you feel bad about it if he wasn't in the house with you? Probably not. Well, no reason to feel bad about it now, because right now he is also unavailable, if for different reasons.

i couldn't agree more. i think society tends to make us think that if you don't have sex everyday, there is something with you.

there have been a couple times where i have jerked off when the mrs. was sleeping.

 

[LadyLucifer]

I do it often, even though we have a decent sex life, there's nothing quite like a little 'me time'!

 

[nfrrdscnnr1]

Go!

When you are in the mood, DO the deed. It would make me happy to know you'd do that if I were next to you.
N

 

[icandothis]

Good Morning,
I'm about to start my daily routine which is masturbating first thing in the morning before I get out of bed. My lover is here next to me (still sleeping). Often I am able to get off, but more often than not he will wake up and watch me pleasure myself or he will push my hand away and fuck me. regardless of how it turns out . . . I enjoy it.

 

[englishkev]

Is it wrong to finger myself with him sleeping next to me?

Nope, definitely not. As a guy I find it *very* hot when a girl just feels the need to masturbate - I don't feel threatened by it at all, and love that she's enjoying herself.

 

[englishkev]

Good Morning,
I'm about to start my daily routine which is masturbating first thing in the morning before I get out of bed. My lover is here next to me (still sleeping). Often I am able to get off, but more often than not he will wake up and watch me pleasure myself or he will push my hand away and fuck me. regardless of how it turns out . . . I enjoy it.

It's actually a real shame he's there.

Because if he wasn't, I could be.

 

[20aBowler]

It's a shame that you have to do it yourself. If you are that horny then wake him up & go for it. He must be neglecting you to start

 

[silverwhisper]

i think it might even add a nice little frisson to heighten your enjoyment. :>

and i agree with eilan.

ed

 

[SweetErika]

It's a shame that you have to do it yourself. If you are that horny then wake him up & go for it. He must be neglecting you to start

It's a shame that you view consideration and masturbation within the context of a healthy relationship as unhealthy.

The OP said waking her partner up was NOT an option, and masturbation is certainly not equal to being neglected. Neglect would be a partner who chose to not try to satisfy their love's clear needs and wants. For instance, let's say I expressed a strong desire to have a sexual encounter in the next few days and my partner chose to engage in his hobbies instead of attempting to meet my need and/or communicate with me - that would be a neglectful act on his part. Sleeping instead of engaging in sex of some sort because there is an important task the next day that requires sufficient rest is not neglect, it's responsibility and self-care. Similarly, masturbating instead of waking a partner who needs his/her rest for whatever reasons(s) is the responsible, mature way to go.

 

[louisa25ha]

i've done it countless times... Some times once isn't enough

Easy for me, i circle my finger on my clit

Lou

 

[icandothis]

It's a shame that you have to do it yourself. If you are that horny then wake him up & go for it. He must be neglecting you to start

Oh my goodness . . . "neglecting" is hardly the way I would describe him. Long before I met him, early morning masturbation was something I'd always done and enjoyed. I like the early morning "me time", focusing on my pleasure. I love having him there next to me getting turned on by watching me, helping me masturbate or reaching for me to help him relieve his morning wood. I sometimes straddle his thigh and cum by rubbing my clit on his leg, he then lifts my hips and slides into me . . . delicious!

Masturbation is just another form of sexual express and gratification, it has very little to do with not being satisfied or being neglected . . .in fact, I find the more I masturbate, the more sex I want with him

 

[icandothis]

It's a shame that you view consideration and masturbation within the context of a healthy relationship as unhealthy.

The OP said waking her partner up was NOT an option, and masturbation is certainly not equal to being neglected. Neglect would be a partner who chose to not try to satisfy their love's clear needs and wants. For instance, let's say I expressed a strong desire to have a sexual encounter in the next few days and my partner chose to engage in his hobbies instead of attempting to meet my need and/or communicate with me - that would be a neglectful act on his part. Sleeping instead of engaging in sex of some sort because there is an important task the next day that requires sufficient rest is not neglect, it's responsibility and self-care. Similarly, masturbating instead of waking a partner who needs his/her rest for whatever reasons(s) is the responsible, mature way to go.

You are so on point!

 

[Ex Princess]

I masturbate every morning, whether my boyfriend and I had sex or not. It just relaxes me.

 

[Boundlife]

I masturbate every morning, whether my boyfriend and I had sex or not. It just relaxes me.

Some people read the paper, some masturbate

 

[Prudo]

once lay in bed pretending to sleep but listening to an old gf masturbate - insanely exciting ...

 

[dirtybelle]

hmm that's a toughie....

 

[RunningJib]

The Correct Prespective

It's a shame that you view consideration and masturbation within the context of a healthy relationship as unhealthy.

The OP said waking her partner up was NOT an option, and masturbation is certainly not equal to being neglected. Neglect would be a partner who chose to not try to satisfy their love's clear needs and wants. For instance, let's say I expressed a strong desire to have a sexual encounter in the next few days and my partner chose to engage in his hobbies instead of attempting to meet my need and/or communicate with me - that would be a neglectful act on his part. Sleeping instead of engaging in sex of some sort because there is an important task the next day that requires sufficient rest is not neglect, it's responsibility and self-care. Similarly, masturbating instead of waking a partner who needs his/her rest for whatever reasons(s) is the responsible, mature way to go.

Erica,

As always, great information that is spot on. Nothing wrong with a health sex life

Erica, love to watch you get off

 

[Tmmldr]

Good Morning,
I'm about to start my daily routine which is masturbating first thing in the morning before I get out of bed. My lover is here next to me (still sleeping). Often I am able to get off, but more often than not he will wake up and watch me pleasure myself or he will push my hand away and fuck me. regardless of how it turns out . . . I enjoy it.

What, is there any OTHER way to start the day?