Was wondering if any guys have this problem or if any women have been with guys who have this problem. For some reason I can always get hard even when I'm drunk, but can never finish. I usually end up just going at it for a really long time until either or both of us is exhausted. At first I was thinking maybe I'm losing my attraction in women and I'm gay, since I was drunk 99% of the time I was having sex. That added on with the fact that I usually could cum if there was some ass play involved. But I can always cum when I'm sober, usually too soon lol. I've noticed that the feeling is numbed a little bit when I've been drinking, and I think that's why.