But my man's in jail...

[blackstallion21]

So I was talking to this girl...

She seemed to be into me and I was definately the same about her.

We found out that we had a lot in common, we both liked to do a lot of the same things, listen to the same music etc. When it actually came down to me asking her out on a date, she said she couldn't!

Why?

Her man is in jail and she doesn't want it to seem like she's cheating on him.

How much time does he have? Can I wait on you to see if things will still be ok after he gets out?

He's in on a 5 to 10! and she wants to wait!

LADIES... IS THIS NORMAL?

and

GUYS has this EVER HAPPENED TO YOU?

 

[_me_]

So I was talking to this girl...

She seemed to be into me and I was definately the same about her.

We found out that we had a lot in common, we both liked to do a lot of the same things, listen to the same music etc. When it actually came down to me asking her out on a date, she said she couldn't!

Why?

Her man is in jail and she doesn't want it to seem like she's cheating on him.

How much time does he have? Can I wait on you to see if things will still be ok after he gets out?

He's in on a 5 to 10! and she wants to wait!

LADIES... IS THIS NORMAL?

and

GUYS has this EVER HAPPENED TO YOU?

It's normal if she loves him

Have they got children?

 

[ace195008]

Black,

Havent had that happen, had something just as strange, was on a website(i wont give the name) and ran into this woman , she was hot and I was and found she was just released from jail for a serious crime..I passed on her...maybe I am too much of a prude(i really dont think so) , but its scary..

 

[RICKM1]

Not normal dude.... Run like hell, she probably has issues. Unless you are looking for some ass, then I say go for it. Crazy, with tons of issues usually equals amazing sex.

 

[Sensualdreamer]

So I was talking to this girl...

She seemed to be into me and I was definately the same about her.

We found out that we had a lot in common, we both liked to do a lot of the same things, listen to the same music etc. When it actually came down to me asking her out on a date, she said she couldn't!

Why?

Her man is in jail and she doesn't want it to seem like she's cheating on him.

How much time does he have? Can I wait on you to see if things will still be ok after he gets out?

He's in on a 5 to 10! and she wants to wait!

LADIES... IS THIS NORMAL?

and

GUYS has this EVER HAPPENED TO YOU?

I wouldn't think it's normal at all, but then again the world is a pretty big place.

 

[Fingathing]

When it actually came down to me asking her out on a date, she said she couldn't!

Why?

Her man is in jail and she doesn't want it to seem like she's cheating on him.

Have you tried explaining to her that he's actually having sex during the shower and probably cheating on her (un)willingly?!

Maybe she will find it funny that he's now somebody's girl?!

OK seriously now... never was in that situation. I think wise thing would be to back off. You don't need drama in your life. Or ex-con.

 

[wv4u]

msg

What do her old man do to go to jail? Lets say she have some fun with U and he gets out and finds out, he going to be looking for U. Is it worth it to keep looking over your back and see if he there?
Just look and think that 5-10 years is a long time. If she has the love for him, more power to her. If she has support from love ones, than she can do it. Remember that the military family is the same way when the service person has to go oversea to deployment.

 

[jmarx20102012]

That is one big can of worms.

 

[GoodOmen]

That is one big can of worms.

Bingo. Walk away. Quickly.

 

[blackstallion21]

It's normal if she loves him

Have they got children?

Black,

Havent had that happen, had something just as strange, was on a website(i wont give the name) and ran into this woman , she was hot and I was and found she was just released from jail for a serious crime..I passed on her...maybe I am too much of a prude(i really dont think so) , but its scary..

Not normal dude.... Run like hell, she probably has issues. Unless you are looking for some ass, then I say go for it. Crazy, with tons of issues usually equals amazing sex.

I wouldn't think it's normal at all, but then again the world is a pretty big place.

Have you tried explaining to her that he's actually having sex during the shower and probably cheating on her (un)willingly?!

Maybe she will find it funny that he's now somebody's girl?!

OK seriously now... never was in that situation. I think wise thing would be to back off. You don't need drama in your life. Or ex-con.

What do her old man do to go to jail? Lets say she have some fun with U and he gets out and finds out, he going to be looking for U. Is it worth it to keep looking over your back and see if he there?
Just look and think that 5-10 years is a long time. If she has the love for him, more power to her. If she has support from love ones, than she can do it. Remember that the military family is the same way when the service person has to go oversea to deployment.

That is one big can of worms.

Bingo. Walk away. Quickly.

Thanks ladies and gents...

+ No they don't have kids
+ yeah, I know he's probably someone's bitch (WILLINGLY, I used to work in a jail, NOT EVERY MAN in jail is "straight" and not all of the straight ones, can make it through their sentence with out getting some bootay
+ I plan on walking away... with out getting some ass off of her
+ He's in jail on the 5 to 10 because he was a major drug dealer