Is it addictionif it feels that good?

[switchbitch]

Most definitions of addiction state it as being something you cannot do without. Does this make me and many of you, sex and arousal addicts? And if it does how can that be such a bad thing? If it feels so good when you are revelling in sexual response surely that is a good thing? How would you classify your drives?

 

[Cop4u_69]

Most definitions of addiction state it as being something you cannot do without. Does this make me and many of you, sex and arousal addicts? And if it does how can that be such a bad thing? If it feels so good when you are revelling in sexual response surely that is a good thing? How would you classify your drives?

Very high and to the left

 

[OQueen]

Most definitions of addiction state it as being something you cannot do without. Does this make me and many of you, sex and arousal addicts? And if it does how can that be such a bad thing? If it feels so good when you are revelling in sexual response surely that is a good thing? How would you classify your drives?

OK I admit it--I am addicted to Lit.
This is something I've been struggling with for a while now, so thank you for starting this thread.
Since I discovered Lit last Jan, I have spent way too much time here. My house is not as clean as it once was, the laundry piles up, dinner is late...hubby has noticed, and he is not happy. And all I can say is "oh well".

Because I LOVE this place! This world of wonderful sex and beautiful orgasms with hot, sexy people from all over the world. You're so right, it does feel sooo good. And, over these many months, my real sex life has gotten more exciting, my orgasms are stronger and deeper and more numerous, I'm happier in general, I've lost weight and gotten more fit...too bad all addictions aren't this healthy!

Thanks, switchbitch, for making me think about this!

 

[switchbitch]

OK I admit it--I am addicted to Lit.
This is something I've been struggling with for a while now, so thank you for starting this thread.
Since I discovered Lit last Jan, I have spent way too much time here. My house is not as clean as it once was, the laundry piles up, dinner is late...hubby has noticed, and he is not happy. And all I can say is "oh well".

Because I LOVE this place! This world of wonderful sex and beautiful orgasms with hot, sexy people from all over the world. You're so right, it does feel sooo good. And, over these many months, my real sex life has gotten more exciting, my orgasms are stronger and deeper and more numerous, I'm happier in general, I've lost weight and gotten more fit...too bad all addictions aren't this healthy!

Thanks, switchbitch, for making me think about this!

 

[Masterkredix]

I would say I have a extremely high mental sexdrive... But as yet haven't been able to push my fizical limits.

I am adicted to sex to be sure and revel in the time I get to induldge in my fantasies and playtime with special friends.

 

[milkempls]

I am surely addicted to Lit and to Sex. I think the more I am her the stronger my drive gets and yes switch i agree how can anything that feels oh sooooooo good be bad.

I seem to have a constant semi erect penis all the time which ca get me into trouble especially at work but hey they do say it pays to advertise

 

[Kitschshaman]

drive description?

Most definitions of addiction state it as being something you cannot do without. Does this make me and many of you, sex and arousal addicts? And if it does how can that be such a bad thing? If it feels so good when you are revelling in sexual response surely that is a good thing? How would you classify your drives?

The words that come to mind to describe my drives are 'inconveniently strong'. There seems to be a large portion of our society (at least here in the puritian US) that thinks just because a man is over 50 that his sex drives, his desire for physical closeness and sensuality are supposed to be dried up. It feels as if when we express desires (even by so much as a wink or a laugh) that we're 'dirty old men' and hence disgusting. What are we supposed to do with those desires? Hence, my presence here every day to get my shot in the arm. Is that addiction? There are many I know who would say so. I hurt no one, I am faithful to my wife, I do not (and have never) exerted true coercion on anyone (strong true passion from a beautiful woman is, after all, the most exciting, the most arousing thing in the world) but if most anyone I knew IRL knew how much time I spend here I would be repelled. Does that make me addicted? They would say so. I personally think sexual ecstasy is a natural feeling, a natural thing to want more of, no matter your age. If that makes me addicted, I suppose I am.
thanks so much for asking the question and pardon for the epistle, for you touched a point I've been concerned about for some time.

 

[MrsCCfromRC]

OK I admit it--I am addicted to Lit.
This is something I've been struggling with for a while now, so thank you for starting this thread.
Since I discovered Lit last Jan, I have spent way too much time here. My house is not as clean as it once was, the laundry piles up, dinner is late...hubby has noticed, and he is not happy. And all I can say is "oh well".

Because I LOVE this place! This world of wonderful sex and beautiful orgasms with hot, sexy people from all over the world. You're so right, it does feel sooo good. And, over these many months, my real sex life has gotten more exciting, my orgasms are stronger and deeper and more numerous, I'm happier in general, I've lost weight and gotten more fit...too bad all addictions aren't this healthy!

Thanks, switchbitch, for making me think about this!

OMG... this is me!

 

[bboygirl818]

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[Arogo]

I think addiction is a bad word.

The thing that isn't good is BAD addiction.

We are all addicted to breathing, but being addicted to something that causes harm, or makes our lives or others lives suffer is bad addiction.

Moderation is key to most of the "bad" addictions.

 

[switchbitch]

I would say I have a extremely high mental sexdrive... But as yet haven't been able to push my fizical limits.

I am adicted to sex to be sure and revel in the time I get to induldge in my fantasies and playtime with special friends.

I am surely addicted to Lit and to Sex. I think the more I am her the stronger my drive gets and yes switch i agree how can anything that feels oh sooooooo good be bad.

I seem to have a constant semi erect penis all the time which ca get me into trouble especially at work but hey they do say it pays to advertise

The words that come to mind to describe my drives are 'inconveniently strong'. There seems to be a large portion of our society (at least here in the puritian US) that thinks just because a man is over 50 that his sex drives, his desire for physical closeness and sensuality are supposed to be dried up. It feels as if when we express desires (even by so much as a wink or a laugh) that we're 'dirty old men' and hence disgusting. What are we supposed to do with those desires? Hence, my presence here every day to get my shot in the arm. Is that addiction? There are many I know who would say so. I hurt no one, I am faithful to my wife, I do not (and have never) exerted true coercion on anyone (strong true passion from a beautiful woman is, after all, the most exciting, the most arousing thing in the world) but if most anyone I knew IRL knew how much time I spend here I would be repelled. Does that make me addicted? They would say so. I personally think sexual ecstasy is a natural feeling, a natural thing to want more of, no matter your age. If that makes me addicted, I suppose I am.
thanks so much for asking the question and pardon for the epistle, for you touched a point I've been concerned about for some time.

OMG... this is me!

You know it's interesting, I actually took an online survey on a psychology site for sexual addiction awhile back. Lo and behold, it said I was a sex addict.

I think as long as you aren't hurting yourself or others and aren't putting yourself in harmful situations, why should it be a problem?

it is wonderful to find myself in the such lovely companyof like-minded horny toadsthank you guys for posting

 

[just4friends]

good company!

it is wonderful to find myself in the such lovely companyof like-minded horny toadsthank you guys for posting

It's fun sometimes to be a horny toad. A bummer if it takes away too much time for sleep.

 

[VanishingAct2]

I've felt this way for years....it really does feel like an addiction. I have a hard time figuring out if i'm addicted to the kink, to the arousal, to the orgasm, or just to the attention, but whichever it is I certainly can't seem to stop.