Guys into s&m or dominating

[pisces_girl]

Having recently discovered a few new fetishes of mine that involve me being submissive and dominated I'm curious to know how many guys are actually into that. Especially younger guys. I've yet to meet any guys my age who are open to that sort of thing in a non obnoxious, I'll-fuck-your-brains-out type of way. I would hope to find someone who's into similar things as me but I really don't know whether or not I'll come across guys my age who are open to it. Any on here care to share or show themselves?

 

[Stella_Omega]

BDSM is kinda more a middle-aged game, in my experience. You need some patience, and you need to have gotten over the I'll-fuck-your-brains-out reflex.

 

[m0r1arty]

I'm 18 and I'm into BDSM. I also chat to a few girls my age who are too. I suggest looking for people online, you've got more of a chance finding someone who's your type then, including the kinky stuff.

 

[HottieMama]

pisces girl: Have you looked into Fetlife? You can find all sorts of people in your area. Some of them are sure to be in your acceptable age range. A word of caution though, a younger guy might be someone to learn WITH, whereas an older guy might be someone to learn FROM. Being new in the lifestyle, you need to make the choice as to what is more important to you...

 

[DVS]

BDSM is kinda more a middle-aged game, in my experience. You need some patience, and you need to have gotten over the I'll-fuck-your-brains-out reflex.

You sayin' I'm middle aged? Wow! I'm going to live to be 116!

 

[shy slave]

BDSM is kinda more a middle-aged game, in my experience. You need some patience, and you need to have gotten over the I'll-fuck-your-brains-out reflex.

I am middle-aged, and only yesterday told my mother I was still had the 'I'll-fuck-your-brains-out' reflex when looking or thinking about men.

I still look at a man's crotch before his face (an embarrassing reflex), and I never want to be in a situation where he is not interested in me sexually, or is more interested in the internet than fucking my brains out.

Have discovered that is a deal breaker for me.

I have discovered a great lack of patience in my make-up that only being flogged or whipped and made to wait, can cure.

My mother thinks I probably won't change now lol

 

[naxalite0906]

I am middle-aged, and only yesterday told my mother I was still had the 'I'll-fuck-your-brains-out' reflex when looking or thinking about men.

I still look at a man's crotch before his face (an embarrassing reflex), and I never want to be in a situation where he is not interested in me sexually, or is more interested in the internet than fucking my brains out.

Have discovered that is a deal breaker for me.

I have discovered a great lack of patience in my make-up that only being flogged or whipped and made to wait, can cure.

My mother thinks I probably won't change now lol

Does that mean I need to wear a long coat, or cover up more if we ever did meet for coffee

 

[BiSmiley]

Well I've always wanted to try
and I'm a young man,

 

[shy slave]

Does that mean I need to wear a long coat, or cover up more if we ever did meet for coffee

Cover up as much as you like, I still do it lol.

Ask dolf, we were in a pub garden and I glanced at two men carrying audio equipment into the pub. Without missing a beat she said, look up; Oh my goodness, they were really terrible looking! But they had a nice cock outline in their jeans!!

I promise not to make my eyes linger if we meet though, mainly because I don't want to have shy vixen take them out for me and send me home blind!

 

[Etoile]

Ditto the recommendation for FetLife.

 

[blunt_trauma]

Cover up as much as you like, I still do it lol.

Ask dolf, we were in a pub garden and I glanced at two men carrying audio equipment into the pub. Without missing a beat she said, look up; Oh my goodness, they were really terrible looking! But they had a nice cock outline in their jeans!!

I promise not to make my eyes linger if we meet though, mainly because I don't want to have shy vixen take them out for me and send me home blind!

the funniest time was when we were in that cafe garden. you gave almost your entire order without making eye contact. despite the apron.
and then you felt like a dirty old perv.
kid can't have been a day over 17!

 

[shy slave]

the funniest time was when we were in that cafe garden. you gave almost your entire order without making eye contact. despite the apron.
and then you felt like a dirty old perv.
kid can't have been a day over 17!

Oh yes, I had forgotten about the time in the cafe.

I did feel like a dirty old perv, he looked younger than my son lol.

I had been thinking about the garden with those very overweight, long bearded guys, who had such interesting crotches...

I think my life could be told through staring at that particular area.

I may be a perv

 

[eastern sun]

You guys are giving a whole new meaning to the "downcast eyes" of the submissive.

 

[shy slave]

You guys are giving a whole new meaning to the "downcast eyes" of the submissive.

LOL

I can't help it, but then I have never tried to stop.

Dolf just tells me when I am obvious about it, and the young man in the cafe, well the little white apron thing he wore, defined it all so beautifully. Even if he was waayyy to young lol

 

[YourCaptor]

Having recently discovered a few new fetishes of mine that involve me being submissive and dominated I'm curious to know how many guys are actually into that. Especially younger guys. I've yet to meet any guys my age who are open to that sort of thing in a non obnoxious, I'll-fuck-your-brains-out type of way. I would hope to find someone who's into similar things as me but I really don't know whether or not I'll come across guys my age who are open to it. Any on here care to share or show themselves?

I'm young, I'm dom, but I do like to fuck with brains.

Finding people is hard. The most success I've had is to toss out a D/s joke or two when you meat someone a bit quirky or suspect. Online is crap, clubs are crap. When BDSM turns into a social thing it seems to go bad.

 

[carsonbizotica]

Online is crap,clubs are crap. When BDSM turns into a social thing it seems to go bad.

I actually had quite a different experience. Now, the club I went to didn't have much play going on "on site" as it were, but the demos, (both planned and improptu) and the swapping of ideas and experiences was fantastic. The drama however... left much to be desired. All in all though, a net positive experience.

The D/s jokes however I wholeheartedly agree with!

 

[Hamnder20]

I'm young and I have no idea. Sometimes I wonder if my wife would like to explore it but I have no idea who would be dom and sub. I can't say the idea does anything for me in our marriage but if things were different and there was an older woman dom and I was her sub that is far mor appealing. So maybe it would be situational for me I suppose?... hmmm