Female thoughts on prostate play

mike_always_horny

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Ladies,

I am curious about female opinions and experiences with pleasuring a man via the prostate. Do you enjoy doing it? What sort of experience have you had with stimulating a guy there? Do you enjoy doing it but find that men are unwilling? Fingers or toys? Do you do it in combination with giving oral or pleasuring his cock with your hand? Care to share any stories about it?

Im sure your replies will be both informative and arousing, hehe.
 
I love prostate play and massage. The medication that hubby takes for PTSD has a side effect of inorgasma (inablity to orgasm) and thanks to some posters here, I have found that prostate play can be helpful. I've used it while sucking him, while stroking him and even once managed it while we were having sex. He seems to enjoy it a great deal and honestly, I find it can be erotic as hell. Sitting there slowly fingering him and rubbing his prostate much in the same manner he fingers me and rubs my g-spot.

I prefer to use my finger, however I use a "finger cot" (it looks like a condom for your finger) when doing so. It serves two purposes, it protects ME from potential bacteria if I have a tiny cut on my finger and it also protects HIM from getting inadvertantly scratched by a fingernail.
 
Thank you for your reply! Glad you and your husband have found enjoyment in this. And Im very glad to hear you find it erotic. I enjoy being stimulated that way very much but I generally only bring up the subject with the kinkiest of girls... I'd hate the idea of forcing the fantasy on a girl who found it unappealing.

He's very lucky to have such an open-minded wife!
 
I love prostate play and massage. The medication that hubby takes for PTSD has a side effect of inorgasma (inablity to orgasm) and thanks to some posters here, I have found that prostate play can be helpful. I've used it while sucking him, while stroking him and even once managed it while we were having sex. He seems to enjoy it a great deal and honestly, I find it can be erotic as hell. Sitting there slowly fingering him and rubbing his prostate much in the same manner he fingers me and rubs my g-spot.

I prefer to use my finger, however I use a "finger cot" (it looks like a condom for your finger) when doing so. It serves two purposes, it protects ME from potential bacteria if I have a tiny cut on my finger and it also protects HIM from getting inadvertantly scratched by a fingernail.

Thank you Misty! I dont have a man that will let me play in that area but I am thankful for your detailed assessment. I hope to get to try it someday. <sigh> :)
 
I always wanted to try this actually but I wouldn't ever do it as a sneak attack on my man. We have amazing sex now but maybe I can keep this idea on the back burner if we are feeling adventurous one night.
 
I lucky too, my wife will stick her finger in my ass and it gets both of us going.
 
I always wanted to try this actually but I wouldn't ever do it as a sneak attack on my man. We have amazing sex now but maybe I can keep this idea on the back burner if we are feeling adventurous one night.

Ex-Princess, encourage your man to read up on the prostate orgasm online, or perhaps show him some articles/information. After having all the information at his disposal, a guy would be a horribly narrow-minded fool not to at least give it a try.

It is VERY MUCH worth it!
 
Also, if he is anything like me, the first time he is stimulated that way, he will cum nearly immediately. The first time I fingered my own prostate, I came in about 1-2 seconds! Completely unexpected sexual explosion! Have other men had this same experience their first time?
 
Also, if he is anything like me, the first time he is stimulated that way, he will cum nearly immediately. The first time I fingered my own prostate, I came in about 1-2 seconds! Completely unexpected sexual explosion! Have other men had this same experience their first time?

I came quickly too when I first started playing with my own ass. Now I like to feeling of being full and will hold of on prostate stimulation until I am ready to cum.
 
Ex-Princess, encourage your man to read up on the prostate orgasm online, or perhaps show him some articles/information...

Reading is such a powerful tool. I own a book called The Multi-orgasmic Man. When my man saw it, he said, "Yeah right." Now he says, "I cannot take anymore tonight!"


:eek:
 
Male multiple orgasm, thats a topic for a whole nother thread, hehe. WONDERFUL experience! I discovered it a few years back. First time included a masturbation session with about 4 orgasms. Totally mindblowing experience; my body was shaking and I had to hold on to the headboard as I held back and enjoyed the absurdly powerful orgasm. The feeling afterward was so hard to describe; I felt this combination of total exhaustion and complete vitality, it was difficult for me to perceive which one of those I was even feeling, haha.
 
Ladies if we ever fuck please keep your fingers out of my ass. It gives me the farts. :rolleyes:
 
I'd love to try it with my husband, but there's no way he'd go for this
 
Milk your man and watch him secrete semen...simply by prostate massage. :)
 
My honey has described it as being tickly all over, very sensitive, and I'm sure he'd agree with exhaustion! :devil: ;)

that's exactly how it feels. I cant get enough of it! id do anything a woman asks of me while she is finger-fucking me.
 
I have never done that to a man but would like to. Anything that makes for a more intense orgasm or added pleasure for my lover works for me.
 
Wow...

I write and read gay male... I'm glad that there are straight men who are secure and happy enough to do this!
 
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