THe Stella_Omega & Very_Bad_Man Saga Thread

[Galactic_Perv]

I am bisexual and I have some to say about this bullshit with VBM and Stella. Stella has an agenda. Stella has made it very clear she does not like straights on the Fetish Board. She has reminded us numerous times that she was instrumental in its creation. She has reminded us that the Fetish Board was intended for the GBLT crowd. She has been baiting VBM for awhile and anybody who knows the history between these two has better insight. With this in mind I see she clearly baited him. Stella went all mighty bitch on him when he first joined the boards when he posted a heterosexual fantasy and only backed down when another Power Poster called her on it.

Oh Stella, Google is your friend as described in the Urban Dictionary. Your interpretation is meaningless. As a Bisexual I know very well these are not slurs to my orientation and as a Bisexual I am not offended.

Pansie

1)An insult used to describe someone as a weak, pathetic, loser. People don't mind starting fights on these people as they are easily defeated due to their low strength, frail muscles and fragile bones.

cry baby

a person who whines cries and throws a fit over silly bullshit. Someone who whines just to whine and argues just to argue. A silly bitch.


To further fill this Forum in I have quoted the guy in question from the Fetish Forum

Ok, now that I've discovered the "other" thread, a few more things make sense. I had no idea what was going on over there.

I am so dissappointed and embarassed in the way this whole situation has unfolded. I have spoken privately to VBM and as far as I'm concerned we're cool.

Yes, I sent a PM to Stella. The whole point was to thank her for expressing and expanding on what I was trying to say. Because I was in a defensive mode, I said a couple of things about VBM that were uncalled for and unnecessary. Again, I have spoken to VBM privately and apologized for this. And no, I didn't simply apologize because he found out about the PM... I didn't even know the PM had been shared at that point.

Stella, I have always read your posts with great interest, and admired you for your knowledge and ability to express your opinions. Honestly, I don't know what your intentions were for sharing my PM to you. I don't know why you felt the need to take it into another forum. I want to think that you didn't have bad intentions, but I am so fucked up right now trying to figure this out... I just don't know what to think. One thing for sure though, I will be thinking long and hard before I ever send another PM to anyone on here.

I am honestly more nauseated by this whole episode than I have ever been about admitting anything to myself about my sexuality. I have loved discovering this place and being able to spend time with other people who are in similar situations. I really thought that this was the one safehouse where I could be open about things that I've kept secret my entire life. Nothing could be farther from the truth. I am not blaming anyone but myself for this whole thing. I had a very bad initial reaction to someone's opionion, and it has just snowballed into the fucking mess that it is.

This will be my last post on this thread, and probably on Lit for a while. Peace.

Stella I think you brought this bullshit to this Forum to garnish support, on your unprovoked attack, by your friends here among the Power Posters and the elite. You used this poor guy and the good people on this forum as your pawns to chase VBM off the Fetish Forum. Your actions have hurt this guy worse than anything VBM said, He admits he overreacted and admitted to making comments that were uncalled for and you shared the PM with VBM hoping to incite him.

I have hit on VBM more times then I can count and he has always laughed and taken it in stride and has never said anything remotely derogatory regarding the Lifestyle. By remarks you have made it is clear you are allowing the hurt from your own life to cloud your decisions and judgements. It is also clear you are not beyond deception on your little campaign.

Stella you are wrong and this guys post I think is pretty condemning on your behavior and clearly exonerates VBM. I think it is time for you to pony up and apologize to VBM, this poor tortured soul and to the good people of these Forums. Your actions have chased away this posters not VBM. You are responsible.

There is a reason why PM are private and forwarding them are against the rules and this clearly illustrates why.

Stella only a self absorbed callous ass would not know they did wrong here. Your performance has been less then stellar.

Regarding VBM. He has always been a gentleman until provoked and clearly that is the case here.

 

[Stella_Omega]

They say a person is known by the quality of their enemies.

My enemies don't seem to be very high quality.

 

[teknight]

I am bisexual and I have some to say about this bullshit with VBM and Stella. Stella has an agenda. Stella has made it very clear she does not like straights on the Fetish Board. She has reminded us numerous times that she was instrumental in its creation. She has reminded us that the Fetish Board was intended for the GBLT crowd. She has been baiting VBM for awhile and anybody who knows the history between these two has better insight. With this in mind I see she clearly baited him. Stella went all mighty bitch on him when he first joined the boards when he posted a heterosexual fantasy and only backed down when another Power Poster called her on it.

Oh Stella, Google is your friend as described in the Urban Dictionary. Your interpretation is meaningless. As a Bisexual I know very well these are not slurs to my orientation and as a Bisexual I am not offended.

Pansie

1)An insult used to describe someone as a weak, pathetic, loser. People don't mind starting fights on these people as they are easily defeated due to their low strength, frail muscles and fragile bones.

cry baby

a person who whines cries and throws a fit over silly bullshit. Someone who whines just to whine and argues just to argue. A silly bitch.


To further fill this Forum in I have quoted the guy in question from the Fetish Forum



Stella I think you brought this bullshit to this Forum to garnish support, on your unprovoked attack, by your friends here among the Power Posters and the elite. You used this poor guy and the good people on this forum as your pawns to chase VBM off the Fetish Forum. Your actions have hurt this guy worse than anything VBM said, He admits he overreacted and admitted to making comments that were uncalled for and you shared the PM with VBM hoping to incite him.

I have hit on VBM more times then I can count and he has always laughed and taken it in stride and has never said anything remotely derogatory regarding the Lifestyle. By remarks you have made it is clear you are allowing the hurt from your own life to cloud your decisions and judgements. It is also clear you are not beyond deception on your little campaign.

Stella you are wrong and this guys post I think is pretty condemning on your behavior and clearly exonerates VBM. I think it is time for you to pony up and apologize to VBM, this poor tortured soul and to the good people of these Forums. Your actions have chased away this posters not VBM. You are responsible.

There is a reason why PM are private and forwarding them are against the rules and this clearly illustrates why.

Stella only a self absorbed callous ass would not know they did wrong here. Your performance has been less then stellar.

Regarding VBM. He has always been a gentleman until provoked and clearly that is the case here.

At least move the personal attack into the cafe. Etoile?

 

[CorruptedInnocence]

o-o I havent really seen them ever be rude to each other, just kinda a casual passerby and poster in the bdsm and fetish and gblt sections, but imo this just looks like a troll thread, If they have a problem why dont they deal with it, why are you making a big scene out of two other peoples business?
Would say hes on par with your goatee but thats actually pretty decently done.

 

[Galactic_Perv]

They say a person is known by the quality of their enemies.

My enemies don't seem to be very high quality.

Just a fellow queer calling you out on your bullshit honey.

I see you still being pompous. It's time for you to grow a pair and admit you fucked up and acted like a silly cow. Take responsibility for what you did to two very nice people on your little crusade in chasing straights off the Fetish Forum.

 

[Galactic_Perv]

o-o I havent really seen them ever be rude to each other, just kinda a casual passerby and poster in the bdsm and fetish and gblt sections, but imo this just looks like a troll thread, If they have a problem why dont they deal with it, why are you making a big scene out of two other peoples business?
Would say hes on par with your goatee but thats actually pretty decently done.

The attack was done here and people sided against VBM on shit that was not true and I think people should know the truth

 

[Stella_Omega]

I reported this thread and asked that it be moved into the cafe. *shrug*

I dunno, GP. When we asked VBM why he talks about being straight so often, he said it's because guys hound him making passes at him. So maybe you're partially to blame.

what isn't true?

 

[teknight]

The attack was done here and people sided against VBM on shit that was not true and I think people should know the truth

The truth=your version of events, right? Cool- when did you get your truth license?
How about you backpedal and say that it's not the "truth" but your interpretation?

What VBM said "here" was at the very least poorly communicated, which is what most people harped on. Then he got rude...which is how I've seen him act whenever he doesn't get his way (to which he may or may not be entitled).

That's how I saw what went down, anyway.

 

[Galactic_Perv]

The truth=your version of events, right? Cool- when did you get your truth license?
How about you backpedal and say that it's not the "truth" but your interpretation?

What VBM said "here" was at the very least poorly communicated, which is what most people harped on. Then he got rude...which is how I've seen him act whenever he doesn't get his way (to which he may or may not be entitled).

That's how I saw what went down, anyway.

No read it all jackass. There is much more going on then you are aware of. You have a bone in this because you have harassed VBM on numerous occasions and each time he made you look like an oaf. You have on numerous occasions thrown homosexual insults so you need to fuck off because you have shown what you think of our lifestyle by doing so.

Your jealousy of VBM is so palpable it is laughable.

 

[Etoile]

Moved to the Cafe.

Did you ask either of the named people if they wanted you to contribute in this way? They can generally take care of themselves. I'd let them do that.

 

[Galactic_Perv]

I reported this thread and asked that it be moved into the cafe. *shrug*

I dunno, GP. When we asked VBM why he talks about being straight so often, he said it's because guys hound him making passes at him. So maybe you're partially to blame.

what isn't true?

Report away. The truth hurts right. You forwarded a PM and hurt a guy very badly in your attempt to fuck with VBM then you brought it up over here to fuck with him to incite a response which you intern capitalized upon.

You proved you cannot be trusted as you violated the dudes trust and you hurt him.

What you to big to admit you were wrong?

 

[Etoile]

Additionally, Galactic Perv, the initial post in this thread is a duplicate of a post you made in the Dominatrix thread. I trust that duplication was a one-time incident and you won't be cross posting on a regular basis.

 

[Galactic_Perv]

Moved to the Cafe.

Did you ask either of the named people if they wanted you to contribute in this way? They can generally take care of themselves. I'd let them do that.

Freedom of speech and all which Stella is so big on. I only posted it here because here is where she dragged her little fiasco from the Fetish Forums.

VBM has far to much class to hash this out with Stella but I am tired of her bullying and telling people what they can and cannot say as if she owns the Fetish Forum. I am also incensed that she thinks she speaks for every bi/gay guy out there.

She violated the rules and really hurt a guy going thru a traumatic time in his life and I understand his pain and I am enraged at her callousness and her lack of remorse and her betrayal of his trust in her crusade.

Seems like if you are a high volume poster her you can break rules without sanctions.

 

[teknight]

No read it all jackass. There is much more going on then you are aware of. You have a bone in this because you have harassed VBM on numerous occasions and each time he made you look like an oaf. You have on numerous occasions thrown homosexual insults so you need to fuck off because you have shown what you think of our lifestyle by doing so.

Your jealousy of VBM is so palpable it is laughable.

I've never seen a straight man profess his straightness. Ever. It doesn't happen (in my experience). Straight men don't go around shouting out loud how straight they are. The men that do proclaim their straightness are trawling for cock, which by exact definition precludes wanting cock.

Maybe you're projecting your jealousy. You see, if Stella can't know what VBM means to say, then you can't know what I think, now can you?

 

[Mz_Cunningham]

Freedom of speech and all which Stella is so big on. I only posted it here because here is where she dragged her little fiasco from the Fetish Forums.

VBM has far to much class to hash this out with Stella but I am tired of her bullying and telling people what they can and cannot say as if she owns the Fetish Forum. I am also incensed that she thinks she speaks for every bi/gay guy out there.

She violated the rules and really hurt a guy going thru a traumatic time in his life and I understand his pain and I am enraged at her callousness and her lack of remorse and her betrayal of his trust in her crusade.

Seems like if you are a high volume poster her you can break rules without sanctions.

Soooo, you're Clark Kent to his Superman then?

 

[Galactic_Perv]

Additionally, Galactic Perv, the initial post in this thread is a duplicate of a post you made in the Dominatrix thread. I trust that duplication was a one-time incident and you won't be cross posting on a regular basis.

Nope.

Guess rules only apply to me, right?

What about her forwarding PMs.?

I never saw in the ToS that what I did was forbidden but I'll look again. Unlike some I do not intentionally violate RULES as some Veteran poster seem to do.

 

[HottieMama]

No read it all jackass. There is much more going on then you are aware of. You have a bone in this because you have harassed VBM on numerous occasions and each time he made you look like an oaf. You have on numerous occasions thrown homosexual insults so you need to fuck off because you have shown what you think of our lifestyle by doing so.

Your jealousy of VBM is so palpable it is laughable.

Is there some reason why YOU are fighting this battle for VBM and he's no where around??

And when it comes down to it, what, precisely, is there to be jealous of? From what I have seen VBM does not present himself as anything enviable or worth aspiring towards...

 

[Etoile]

Freedom of speech and all which Stella is so big on. I only posted it here because here is where she dragged her little fiasco from the Fetish Forums.

VBM has far to much class to hash this out with Stella but I am tired of her bullying and telling people what they can and cannot say as if she owns the Fetish Forum. I am also incensed that she thinks she speaks for every bi/gay guy out there.

She violated the rules and really hurt a guy going thru a traumatic time in his life and I understand his pain and I am enraged at her callousness and her lack of remorse and her betrayal of his trust in her crusade.

Seems like if you are a high volume poster her you can break rules without sanctions.

I have no problem with you addressing issues as you see fit. I only suggest that people can take care of themselves, and if you have a problem with someone, you should own it, rather than invoking someone else right in the title of the thread.

I'm not sure what rules you think high volume posters are able to break. Could you elaborate? (edit: posting on my phone, I see now, hang on)

 

[Mz_Cunningham]

Is there some reason why YOU are fighting this battle for VBM and he's no where around??

And when it comes down to it, what, precisely, is there to be jealous of? From what I have seen VBM does not present himself as anything enviable or worth aspiring towards...

Hey, I'm jealous, he has a picture of doctor evil in his AV I assume that's what GP thinks we're jealous of

 

[Galactic_Perv]

I've never seen a straight man profess his straightness. Ever. It doesn't happen (in my experience). Straight men don't go around shouting out loud how straight they are. The men that do proclaim their straightness are trawling for cock, which by exact definition precludes wanting cock.

Maybe you're projecting your jealousy. You see, if Stella can't know VBM means to say, then you can't know what I think, now can you?

There you go with the insults. Your slander on a guy who does nothing to you until you attack him and here is your petty attack that he must be gay. I have tried and he definitely is not gay. The only time he brings up that he is straight is when he gets hit on and straight guys are quick to let you know they are straight just the same when a lesbian tells a guy she is not interested in guys. Play your homophobic allegations elsewhere dunce.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Wow, I am soo embarrassed, guys, I totally apologise for dragging the nutbar here.

 

[Etoile]

Nope.

Guess rules only apply to me, right?

What about her forwarding PMs.?

I never saw in the ToS that what I did was forbidden but I'll look again. Unlike some I do not intentionally violate RULES as some Veteran poster seem to do.

Rules apply to everyone. However, moderators and admins can only address that which they are aware of. Your double post was brought to my attention, so I'm addressing it with you. If you believe a PM was forwarded inappropriately, you should PM moderators or admins. Now that I know, I can respond appropriately I'm not paid for this; expecting me to be aware of all things at all times is unfair.

 

[Galactic_Perv]

Stella needs to admit she fucked up. The guys post exonerated him and condemns her. Yes I do have a problem with her and I do own it. I have a problem she forwarded a PM then dragged her bullshit to this forum and i see her power poster friends coming to her rescue which makes them equally complicit in her actions that hurt this guy.

I am pissed that she caused such pain to this guy. So yes I am on my soapbox. She got on her soapbox now I am on mine, She is a cow. A spiteful bitch incapable of remorse or even apologizing for what she has done. She chased a guy away who was looking for help

 

[teknight]

There you go with the insults. Your slander on a guy who does nothing to you until you attack him and here is your petty attack that he must be gay. I have tried and he definitely is not gay. The only time he brings up that he is straight is when he gets hit on and straight guys are quick to let you know they are straight just the same when a lesbian tells a guy she is not interested in guys. Play your homophobic allegations elsewhere dunce.

No. He brings it out in a lot of posts, when it's sort of not the point of the post. He could put something up in his profile, or reply to each man seeking his cock individually, to address that problem. Making his heteroness a big part of a lot of his posts probably won't deter the unwanted PMs anymore than doing either (or both) of those things, will it? His identity is wrapped around it, at least as far as his posts in this forum are concerned.

Perhaps you have homophobic issues, since you perceive someone being called gay as an insult.

Don't let your cocklust blind you. And, I'm sure you'll get some cock if not from him. Good luck with that.

 

[Galactic_Perv]

Rules apply to everyone. However, moderators and admins can only address that which they are aware of. Your double post was brought to my attention, so I'm addressing it with you. If you believe a PM was forwarded inappropriately, you should PM moderators or admins. Now that I know, I can respond appropriately I'm not paid for this; expecting me to be aware of all things at all times is unfair.

Honestly I saw VBM said he reported it. I do not know the results but I am very angry at what she did that caused this guy pain. I went thru what he is going thru and I am crushed that Stella did this. She cant be trusted. She tell us all over there to be nice to each other and talks rules but she doesnot set a good example.

Stella admit your error. Admit were being a cunt. Be the man you wish to be.