husband likes porn...so i want to make some with another man and leave it around...

amywhitsend

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My husband has a porn fetish...something I would be open to if he spent a little more time diddling me.
 
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Do you mean with yourself and another man? You'd better at least tell where you are if that's the case.

If you mean pics of just men he's probably not going to like it if he's a solid Hetero... Or do you mean something else?
 
My husband has a porn fetish...something I would be open to if he spent a little more time diddling me.
I'm substantially younger than him, have an amazing body and an insatiable appetite for sex. Not mutual masturbation but real, bed-rocking, clit-bruising sex.
Sooooo....I'm looking for advice or someone willing to fuck around and take some great pics.
I need to remind him that what he has at home is way hotter than any 2-D image he can find.
Any takers?

:eek:WOW!!!!!:eek:

Leaving photos and/or videos of you having sexual relations - with a man who you are NOT married to - may not quite be the way to handle the situation. It would be another thing all together if you're talking pics of you ALONE using fingers or toys to pleasure yourself.

Pictures/vids of you with another man may lead to sudden outbursts of domestic violence, divorce or just flat out hostility.

Do you know what the fascination is with the online stuff? Is there a certain fetish or need that is being met by his looking at porn? Is he actually masturbating to the point of ejaculation while he looks at porn? Some men use it as a warm up to having sex with the wife.

Just my two pennies worth...
 
:eek:WOW!!!!!:eek:

Leaving photos and/or videos of you having sexual relations - with a man who you are NOT married to - may not quite be the way to handle the situation. It would be another thing all together if you're talking pics of you ALONE using fingers or toys to pleasure yourself.

Pictures/vids of you with another man may lead to sudden outbursts of domestic violence, divorce or just flat out hostility.

Do you know what the fascination is with the online stuff? Is there a certain fetish or need that is being met by his looking at porn? Is he actually masturbating to the point of ejaculation while he looks at porn? Some men use it as a warm up to having sex with the wife.

Just my two pennies worth...

Thanks for your input. You're probably right but at this point I'm ready to take my chances. He's got enough private stash of just me alone.
Other men breathe me in whenever I step out the door. I could be wearing a paper sack and I'd still turn heads. If I'm doing all I can to keep myself looking and acting great and I'm still not getting any at home, honey it's time to step out.
Hey, at least I'm offering him something in return ;)
 
is he into the Hot wife idea, or just a porn junkie.... What type of porn is he into.... maybe he wants you to do THAT..... just a question....
 
Instead of possibly ruining your marriage, why don't you drag him to this site or a 1000 others and enjoy porn with him.

If you are insistent on this though, Please give us a better idea of where you are located so we will know if we are possible porn actors for you.
 
If you want out of this marriage, there are more mature, less inflammatory ways to go about it.
 
the best answer you will NEVER find here...

you'll do better if you climb a mountain and ask the clouds.

or even better, ask your husband
 
Thanks for your input. You're probably right but at this point I'm ready to take my chances. He's got enough private stash of just me alone.
Other men breathe me in whenever I step out the door. I could be wearing a paper sack and I'd still turn heads. If I'm doing all I can to keep myself looking and acting great and I'm still not getting any at home, honey it's time to step out.
Hey, at least I'm offering him something in return ;)

i think he is a jackass or gay if he is not slipping his cock into you on a regular basees. I will be the first volenteer to be the man in your porno. im up for any thing you want to do sweet heart;)
 
Why not post a few?

Thanks for your input. You're probably right but at this point I'm ready to take my chances. He's got enough private stash of just me alone.
Other men breathe me in whenever I step out the door. I could be wearing a paper sack and I'd still turn heads. If I'm doing all I can to keep myself looking and acting great and I'm still not getting any at home, honey it's time to step out.
Hey, at least I'm offering him something in return ;)

As a suggestion, post a few. Perhaps hubby will see how we react and may get off on it
 
...or even better, ask your husband

Yes, that is the best advice of all.

Just because the husband has a porn fetish, I highly doubt cheating on him is the "best way to bring the couple together". Of course, I may be wrong. *shrugs*
 
Just because the husband has a porn fetish, I highly doubt cheating on him is the "best way to bring the couple together". Of course, I may be wrong. *shrugs*

You never know, seeing his wife with another man, may be just what it takes to turn him on. How many posts have you seen on Lit where a guy is wishing his wife would let him watch her with another man? Pretty common fetish actually.
 
How many posts have you seen on Lit where a guy is wishing his wife would let him watch her with another man? Pretty common fetish actually.

I'd be curious to know just how many of those fetishists would want to see it brought to reality, though.
 
I'd be curious to know just how many of those fetishists would want to see it brought to reality, though.

A lot I would imagine. A three way is a pretty popular fetish. Even cuckold is popular for some men, and oddly enough, most men who want to be cuckold have a porn fetish.
 
I appreciate all views - especially those from the back ;)
About the porn, I've attempted to enjoy it together with him. We have an extensive collection and I enjoy watching it when we're feeling raunchy.
Photos - done them. He has pics of me in every way possible. Let's just put it this way, I can never run for political office.
Home movies - been there. We have vids that put Pam and Tommy to utter shame.

See, it used to be hot. Steamy, smoky, painfully-swollen-afterwards sex but now it's just ho-hum. Really and seriously not by any fault of my own. I still wear makeup, keep my hair done, totally manicured from top to bottom and I never ever wear anything frumpy, especially to sleep in.
To top it all off, I'm always horny.

I think this little fetish of his is a fallback from when he was a teen. I don't know if he's just fucked up or has an actual addiction but I'm getting tired of riding my fingers.

The marriage is suffering. Perhaps I was too young or jumped into it too soon but I'm bored and I'm lonely and I'm tired. I'm nowhere near 30. Am I going to waste my best years being ignored?

I think not.

And yes, I've told him the current situation just isn't cutting it. He seems pretty secure in himself.
 
I think this little fetish of his is a fallback from when he was a teen. I don't know if he's just fucked up or has an actual addiction but I'm getting tired of riding my fingers.
How about you offer to have him script, direct and film it and you star? Making him an active participant, allowing him to express his fantasies and watch them come to life might be the better route to go. He might not mind seeing you with another guy if has some degree of control and direction over the situation. It also might have the relationship-catalyzing effect you're looking for.
 
I appreciate all views - especially those from the back ;)
About the porn, I've attempted to enjoy it together with him. We have an extensive collection and I enjoy watching it when we're feeling raunchy.
Photos - done them. He has pics of me in every way possible. Let's just put it this way, I can never run for political office.
Home movies - been there. We have vids that put Pam and Tommy to utter shame.

See, it used to be hot. Steamy, smoky, painfully-swollen-afterwards sex but now it's just ho-hum. Really and seriously not by any fault of my own. I still wear makeup, keep my hair done, totally manicured from top to bottom and I never ever wear anything frumpy, especially to sleep in.
To top it all off, I'm always horny.

I think this little fetish of his is a fallback from when he was a teen. I don't know if he's just fucked up or has an actual addiction but I'm getting tired of riding my fingers.

The marriage is suffering. Perhaps I was too young or jumped into it too soon but I'm bored and I'm lonely and I'm tired. I'm nowhere near 30. Am I going to waste my best years being ignored?

I think not.

And yes, I've told him the current situation just isn't cutting it. He seems pretty secure in himself.


Sounds like you have done everything you can to keep him interested, so maybe it's time to have a heart to heart talk and explain the facts of life to your man. In other words, if he either can't or won't keep the home fires burning, you will find someone who will. If that is a picture of you on your profile, you deserve better than what you are getting now. You look nice.
 
Ahhh.......I can do it from here :rolleyes: Okay, most of my files have to be trimmed but here's one to go by...
 
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