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Definitely by far one of the best Posts on Lit.....One request though...a corset would look fabulous on you :)

First, thank you!

Second --- ARGH!!!!

I would LOVE a corset. In fact I spent 3 full days shopping for one to wear under a dress to a wedding.

I couldn't find one that I could get into easily. Heck, I was willing to go to the extra time and effort though, if I had found one that fit. None of them had cups that were large enough! Sheesh! I'm. Not. That. Big.!

Seriously. Where do women with large breasts (I know they're out there, I see them in ads, magazines and on tv all the time!) find lingerie that fits? Is it because I'm not a stick everywhere else? I already have to drive to Houston (about 3 hours) to find bras that fit and flatter.

If you (or anyone) knows where to find a corset that would work, I'd love the info. :mad:

(end rant):eek:
 
Here are a couple of photos that I mentioned earlier. Next for me... shopping for supplies for my class on Saturday morning. Yay!

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Good for you! I found myself in a similar situation after I graduated. I was just in a rut, and didn't even realize it. In my case, as in yours, it took a close friend laying into me for me to realize where I was at. I'll say this though, and hopefully it'll help you a bit: For me, the hardest part was the realization, and moving past the denial. After that, breaking out of said rut was comparitively easy. Some support from friends and family, and a determination to LIVE life rather than simply playing at it, and you'll be as good as new. :rose:

With all that said, I can't neglect my pervy side TOO much, so I have to comment on the fact that I can't wait to see what's on your bucket list...... :devil:
 
whew ...

hi, darlin'...

First let me say I'm sorry for missing your birthday. I was gone to that wedding and ever since I've been busier than a single rooster in a two story chicken house.

Second, yes, you have shared sunbathing shots but not those particular ones I don't think (wonderfulgulpthrobgasp) and I'm awfully glad you shared these. Awfully glad. Did I say I was glad? Hubba hubba. You made my morning. Again. Oh yes you did. Again. <s>

Third and last (bring out the holy hand grenade, the count shall three and three shall be the count, it shall not be four, nor shall it be one, the count shall be three and only ... (egad, enough of that, even I'm tired of it now)) my heart goes out to you about your divorce. When I was in a similar situation years ago it was a time for sadness for the truth and time and effort expended on something that didn't work out and a time for celebration for freedom of heart and mind. I send you warm slow hugs.

And don't worry about us, the volcanoes who rise in response to your sharings. Our magma will hold until you return to inspire eruptions of liquid fire.

take care,
 
Hey

First, thank you!

Second --- ARGH!!!!

I would LOVE a corset. In fact I spent 3 full days shopping for one to wear under a dress to a wedding.

I couldn't find one that I could get into easily. Heck, I was willing to go to the extra time and effort though, if I had found one that fit. None of them had cups that were large enough! Sheesh! I'm. Not. That. Big.!

Seriously. Where do women with large breasts (I know they're out there, I see them in ads, magazines and on tv all the time!) find lingerie that fits? Is it because I'm not a stick everywhere else? I already have to drive to Houston (about 3 hours) to find bras that fit and flatter.

If you (or anyone) knows where to find a corset that would work, I'd love the info. :mad:

(end rant):eek:

honey you don't need one just let your sexy body show and no one will look at anyone else !
 
...nothing wrong with the "long ass ramblings", they provide some insight into what makes you tic!
 
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Hello TX

Two sayings come to my mind:

Never let the fear of striking out keep you from playing (keep playing)

and

Dont turn miserable trying to avoid that others make you miserable (stay happy)
:)
 
It was great to read your post, thoughts and comments... Thanks and you have support from all of us.
 
Yay! I'm glad that people still find the thread interesting enough to visit. :)



I dunno... 105 is pretty hot. But thank you. These were just off of the back porch. No one else was around. Thank goodness! I could be arrested for that out here!



Of course! Without the white bits, how would I know what was tan and what was my default color?

Wish I was your neighbour:kiss::rose:
 
Thank you!



Ooh, thanks for the tip. I LOVE lavender oil. When my vampire tendencies become too strong, I drink chamomile tea and spray my pillows and sheets with lavender oil. Mmmmmm, I may have to do that tonight.



Yay! I'm glad you found the thread.



Oh Sweetie, what a wonderful comment.

Of course, I know you're joking. But I have to admit, with my divorce about to be finalized, I've been thinking far too much about marriage and relationships. I hate that! I'd rather let nature and chemistry take hold and drive my reactions.

Given the impact the decline and stagnation of my marriage had on so many aspects of my mental, emotional and physical "me-ness" and given how many unsatisfied men and women I've encountered here on Lit - I'm not sure I can be willing to make that kind of commitment to someone again.

I'd like to think that I can and that I would want to. I love being in love having a partner to share life with - the big adventures, like trekking through ruins, exploring new cities; learning a new sport/activitiy together; and the subtle nuances like trying new cuisine, talking through what happened to each other during the day, and exploring each other's taste in music. I hope that this defensive mechanism, this feeling of "not again" is just temporary. That it's just part of the readjustment process.

Heck - come to think of it, maybe marrying for a million dollars would be a smarter move. ;-)

Give yourself time sweetie:rose:
When you're ready you'll feel those emotions and hopefully find that someone special:kiss::heart:
 
Dear Ms. TX,
I had no idea what Ashley Madison was untill I Googled it. Old fashioned I may be, but I find a dating site for illcit encounters not to my liking, to put it mildly.
 
Apologies if I've posted this already, though I'm pretty sure I haven't shared this one yet. I've posted other photos that I took at the same time, though.

:)

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Wow. I have some serious catching up to do. Great smile, great lips.

Thanks! If this is your first visit, then yes - there's a lot to explore.

Good for you! I found myself in a similar situation after I graduated. I was just in a rut, and didn't even realize it. In my case, as in yours, it took a close friend laying into me for me to realize where I was at. I'll say this though, and hopefully it'll help you a bit: For me, the hardest part was the realization, and moving past the denial. After that, breaking out of said rut was comparitively easy. Some support from friends and family, and a determination to LIVE life rather than simply playing at it, and you'll be as good as new. :rose:

:) Yay for friends, right?

I suspect that breaking out of my rut will be easier after I move to the city. I'm thinking that, if I keep it up, my class today will be a great way to break out of a rut.


With all that said, I can't neglect my pervy side TOO much, so I have to comment on the fact that I can't wait to see what's on your bucket list...... :devil:

Ha ha! What makes you think that the bucket list falls into the perv category?

That's a WHOLE different list. :devil:

Love your open and honest comments.


Wow! Thanks guys. I appreciate it. Every time I type one of those posts, I think about deleting it. Usually I choose to leave it up, but that's for me. I really don't expect that anyone will read it, and am charmed that people do.:eek:

hi, darlin'...

First let me say I'm sorry for missing your birthday. I was gone to that wedding and ever since I've been busier than a single rooster in a two story chicken house.

Second, yes, you have shared sunbathing shots but not those particular ones I don't think (wonderfulgulpthrobgasp) and I'm awfully glad you shared these. Awfully glad. Did I say I was glad? Hubba hubba. You made my morning. Again. Oh yes you did. Again. <s>

Third and last (bring out the holy hand grenade, the count shall three and three shall be the count, it shall not be four, nor shall it be one, the count shall be three and only ... (egad, enough of that, even I'm tired of it now)) my heart goes out to you about your divorce. When I was in a similar situation years ago it was a time for sadness for the truth and time and effort expended on something that didn't work out and a time for celebration for freedom of heart and mind. I send you warm slow hugs.

And don't worry about us, the volcanoes who rise in response to your sharings. Our magma will hold until you return to inspire eruptions of liquid fire.

take care,

Thanks, Kshaman! Hope the wedding you attended was as fun as the one I went to.

Glad you like the photos.

Also, thanks for warm wishes on the divorce. I don't seem to be having a sad reaction to it. So after 19 years together I know that may sound harsh. But really, I've been going through the mourning process over the loss of my husband for about a decade. We were wonderful together before his surgery, but that all changed afterwards. He gave up on us about 3 years before I fully realized and acknowledged it. My regret is that neither of us moved to end our relationship then. Still, it's a big change, and I'm annoyed by all the nitpicky details that go along with it.


honey you don't need one just let your sexy body show and no one will look at anyone else !

Ha ha! Well if I was wearing a corseit with someone, I wouldn't anticipate that there would be any one else present for him to look at. ;)

...nothing wrong with the "long ass ramblings", they provide some insight into what makes you tic!

As long as no one is sending people in white coats to take the crazy lady in Texas away, then... yay! :eek:
 
Dear TX,

You are an amazing woman. Sexy and not afraid to speak your mind. So many women and men are so full of "Hot AIr" when they write on this site. You speak your mind. You are also not afraid to "PUT YOURSELF OUT THERE" by showing pictures of your private areas. You know what we do when we look at pictures of your full and luscious breasts and especially pictures of your sweet sex.

Thanks for this thread.
 
Hello TX

Two sayings come to my mind:

Never let the fear of striking out keep you from playing (keep playing)

and

Dont turn miserable trying to avoid that others make you miserable (stay happy)
:)

Great quotes, Deltha! Thank you!

It was great to read your post, thoughts and comments... Thanks and you have support from all of us.

Aw, thank you Lone Traveler!

Give yourself time sweetie:rose:
When you're ready you'll feel those emotions and hopefully find that someone special:kiss::heart:

That's the plan, PH. Although, as I've learned recently, regardless of what your plans are for your emotions... they act independently of the will.

:rolleyes:

Sexy lips:kiss:
class?

I signed up for a beginner's golf class.

Ever since college, I've wanted to take golf, snow skiing and scuba diving. They were all offered as phys ed electives. But I was in a dance group (ballet, jazz, modern) so I always took dance classes. Later, I was too wrapped up in upper level class work and never made time for the fun stuff.

I have a habit of choosing "obligation and shoulds" over "desire and wants". I'm working to change that habit, hence the golf class. ;)

Love the lips on the straw shot... just classic sexy!

Aw, thanks, MrAnyGuy

Dear Ms. TX,
I had no idea what Ashley Madison was untill I Googled it. Old fashioned I may be, but I find a dating site for illcit encounters not to my liking, to put it mildly.


Ahhh...

Well, I certainly don't hope you think I was encouraging participation!

No, I was just reacting to the fact that eHarmony refused to let me participate because I checked my status as "separated" rather than divorced. Unless I'm mistaken, they don't actually check or verify marital status. So, I could have created an account with different information and listed "single". That's why I pointed out that I would find only truly single and available men on eHarmony. Or lying cheaters. At least the people who participate on Ashley Madison aren't deceiving anyone.

And you may not realize this, since you're in Scotland, but... Ashley Madison is fairy well known here. It has been featured on talk shows, CNN and even had a Superbowl commercial.

Ridiculously ironic in a country that is trying to legislate the "sacred union of marriage" no?

I generally avoid politically charged conversations like the plague. But while I'm on a soap box, .. Kelsey Grammer can end a 15 yr. marriage by phone; Larry King is on divorce #9; Britney Spears had a 55 hr. marriage; Jesse James & Tiger Woods, while married, were having sex with EVERYONE; 53% of Americans get divorced and 30-60% cheat on their spouses. Yet, same-sex marriage is going to destroy the institution of marriage? Seriously?

(While those may be my sentiments, they are not my words - I came across it on the internet. I'm glad someone else put it together though, saved me some effort. )

Okay.. I'll stop there.
 
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Very heavy... but first, you needn't apologize, any picture of you is welcome :)
Well just o add to your tirade - NY voted in same sex marriage. Talk about civil!
 
Dear TX,

You are an amazing woman. Sexy and not afraid to speak your mind. So many women and men are so full of "Hot AIr" when they write on this site. You speak your mind. You are also not afraid to "PUT YOURSELF OUT THERE" by showing pictures of your private areas. You know what we do when we look at pictures of your full and luscious breasts and especially pictures of your sweet sex.

Thanks for this thread.

Thanks, Prop69!

I do appreciate it. It's funny that you posted this while I was typing my teeny-tiny mini-rant above.

I have a tendency to observe and analyze, only jumping in when I feel particularly compelled.

Your comment mentions "speaking my mind" and posting revealing potos of myself in the same paragraph. Makes me think of the quote

"Well behaved women rarely make history."

:devil:
 
Thanks, Prop69!

I do appreciate it. It's funny that you posted this while I was typing my teeny-tiny mini-rant above.

I have a tendency to observe and analyze, only jumping in when I feel particularly compelled.

Your comment mentions "speaking my mind" and posting revealing potos of myself in the same paragraph. Makes me think of the quote

"Well behaved women rarely make history."

:devil:



Women from TX do not "take shit" off many people.

Do not Mess with Texas!!!!
 
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