introducing GF to kink and bondage

[jkamps]

recently started getting serious with what until now I considerd a very good and innocent gal...well I just got out of a relationship where I was shunned for some of my kinky desires so i hadn't really brought any up but I started noticing in her while she didn't know what it was she seemed to be into bondage and being restrained so i brought it up as something I'd do to her if she wasn't good one night and the idea drove her wild, seems like I opend a can of words and we talked all night about kink and i hinted at some of my fantacies about her being the dominate as well and she seems really curious as well.

Anyone know of some good stories that would be good to introduce a vanilla yet very open gal into being dominated or dominating. we are semi long distance and I think feeding her some reading material may get her imagination working and help me find out what she may like. most of the stories I like would definatly wierd her out at this stage.

this week I droped the hint that she is going to be my sex slave friday night in exchange for me setting her up with a cheap laptop I had extra, she seems really excited about this and keeps asking what I had in mind. I'm buying some rope this week and have a hitachi vibrater and some cuffs from a underbed restrain system (lost the straps in a move)

 

[rthnck]

http://www.literotica.com/s/submissive-heights

 

[Nameless_Rose]

I'm going to blow my own horn a little bit here, but my story "Irena's Shadow," might be a good one for your gf. It's about a young woman who is sold to a stranger. He doesn't try to touch her, but one night she discovers his BDSM play room and can't get it out of her head. She starts having intense dreams about submitting to him and finally when he catches her one night down in his dungeon, she allows herself to let go and they engage in some passionate BDSM play and sex. It focuses a lot on the mental journey of Irena and on the joy she takes in finally embracing the submissive side of herself. Not too hardcore, but rough enough to titillate the senses, or at least that's what I like to think.

Here's the link: Irena's Shadow

I'd love it if you would let me know if you decide to send it to your girlfriend. I would be interested to know how she responds.

 

[xperia2995]

recently started getting serious with what until now I considerd a very good and innocent gal...well I just got out of a relationship where I was shunned for some of my kinky desires so i hadn't really brought any up but I started noticing in her while she didn't know what it was she seemed to be into bondage and being restrained so i brought it up as something I'd do to her if she wasn't good one night and the idea drove her wild, seems like I opend a can of words and we talked all night about kink and i hinted at some of my fantacies about her being the dominate as well and she seems really curious as well.

Anyone know of some good stories that would be good to introduce a vanilla yet very open gal into being dominated or dominating. we are semi long distance and I think feeding her some reading material may get her imagination working and help me find out what she may like. most of the stories I like would definatly wierd her out at this stage.

this week I droped the hint that she is going to be my sex slave friday night in exchange for me setting her up with a cheap laptop I had extra, she seems really excited about this and keeps asking what I had in mind. I'm buying some rope this week and have a hitachi vibrater and some cuffs from a underbed restrain system (lost the straps in a move)

Try the stories with tags as 'First-time'

 

[audiodiva]

By all means

I'm going to blow my own horn a little bit here, but my story "Irena's Shadow," might be a good one for your gf. ...

Here's the link: Irena's Shadow

By all means, blow your own horn - you deserve it. Amazing story!!

 

[audiodiva]

Hhhmmmm

http://www.literotica.com/s/submissive-heights

This one is perfect for GF - consensual, intimate partners, awakening - LOVE IT!

Would love to record it sometime.

AD

 

[bhndblueyes88]

I don't have any particular recommendations, but good luck Have fun and play safe ^_^

 

[Nameless_Rose]

By all means, blow your own horn - you deserve it. Amazing story!!

Why thank you, audiodiva. That was the first story I ever wrote for Lit. I poured a lot of myself into it, so its' kind of special to me. Always good to know that people like it.

 

[Roleplay_Mom]

Rather than shock or overwhelm her (since you aren't sure of her limits yet), why don't you turn her onto Literotica?

Suggest she do some keyword searches in the story section, find some stories she likes, then you two discuss them together. That way you aren't so much forcing your kink on her, she is letting you know the degree and variations she is curious about.

 

[jkamps]

thanks for the tips everyone, she read the stories suggested which she enjoyed. Had a few light bondage scenes and she is enjoying every minute of it. really likes rope both for bondage and the look of it so I'm trying to learn that a bit better. I never been the most dominate in this, more just when certain moods strike me or I'm pretty buzzed but I'm really getting into it alot more which is great for me and her apparently

 

[Sugary_Comfort]

Not something on Lit but I found this manga and I love it! It's not finished, still ongoing and it takes forever to update, but it's really good. You might like it as well. The main male character likes the whole dominant thing but he's so new to it and just a bit nervous but he always finds a way.

http://manga.animea.net/nana-to-kaoru-chapter-2-page-1.html

Sorry that it starts in chapter 2. All you need to know is that the guy's mom found his stash and made their neighbor (a girl who grew up with the guy) take the stuff and get rid of it. But she looked and saw what was in there and tried on this leather suit and got locked into it because the key wasn't in the bag. So she had to suck it up and go to the guy's apartment and try and get the key, which mean she had to show him she had the suit on.

It's a fun story and has pretty light stuff in it since the girl is new to the whole scene and the guy doesn't want to scare her off since he's loved her for ages and has always dreamed of getting to do this stuff to her.

This manga reads right to left. It can take a bit of getting used to because sometimes it's the whole right side of the page that needs to be read before moving to the left and sometimes it goes from right to left, top to bottom. After a while you'll get how the layout of panels indicated how it's to be read.