Someone To Play With

[gsmoke13]

I'm so lonely and horny its depressing. I recently discovered my Dominant nature but I can't find anyone to play with. So many people are afraid to let there freak flag fly that it's almost like the Victorian Era where "one just doesn't do that sort of thing" All I seem to meet are repressed women with little or no imagination who swear they want something different but when you introduce them to it they close up or shutdown.

I realize I'm ranting a little but I miss sex... I'm not unattractive or overweight (not that some people don't find that attractive, I'm just saying). I'm level-headed and a good conversationalist but I'm also kinky and adventurous but nowadays unless you are fortunate enough to run into like minded folks it can be a unsatisfying and un-fulfilling existence. So I have a question for a like minded woman who also happens to be submissive.

Wanna play?

 

[Stella_Omega]

I'm kinda wondering about your seduction skills. You don't go hauling out the rope, the blindfold, the fraternity paddle and the double-ended dong on the first date, do you?

Or grab her by the hair and tell her she's a worthless slut and try to force her to her knees the minute she walks in the door?


Baby steps, baby steps!

Also, try http://fetlife.com

 

[gsmoke13]

Stella,
I dont think I'm lacking in the seduction dept., and no I dont start out by pulling all the toys out of the goody bag. My statement was more about finding woman who are like minded and not afraid to show it or talk about it, as is often the case. Thanks for the fetlfe.com intro btw... much appreaciated

 

[Stella_Omega]

Stella,
I dont think I'm lacking in the seduction dept., and no I dont start out by pulling all the toys out of the goody bag. My statement was more about finding woman who are like minded and not afraid to show it or talk about it, as is often the case. Thanks for the fetlfe.com intro btw... much appreaciated

We have some interesting conversations here and there about why women (and men, in fact) might be reticient to talk about things that society considers perversions... The ones about "why nice girls like gang bangs," and the "so little honesty about sex" for instance.

Fetlife can be a great networking tool! Gotta love the internet!

 

[SlapNTickle4Me]

I'm so lonely and horny its depressing. I recently discovered my Dominant nature but I can't find anyone to play with. So many people are afraid to let there freak flag fly that it's almost like the Victorian Era where "one just doesn't do that sort of thing" All I seem to meet are repressed women with little or no imagination who swear they want something different but when you introduce them to it they close up or shutdown.

I realize I'm ranting a little but I miss sex... I'm not unattractive or overweight (not that some people don't find that attractive, I'm just saying). I'm level-headed and a good conversationalist but I'm also kinky and adventurous but nowadays unless you are fortunate enough to run into like minded folks it can be a unsatisfying and un-fulfilling existence. So I have a question for a like minded woman who also happens to be submissive.

Wanna play?

I have to say I know where you are coming from gunsmoke. I have had fantasies/needs for years that have gone unfulfilled because I inadvertently chose partners (I perceived as Dominant but turned out to be only unwarranted arrogance). They were all closed off to trying anything outside of 'social' norms. Asking my ex husband to give a spanking resulted in me feeling like a complete deviant (lets not even bring up the request for anal...geez....that ended with a bible study session, lol).

Took me finding someone online and a friendly chat that turned into a 'spill your guts session' to find someone that I was compatible with in all aspects, including my kinks.

Hopefully you will be able to locate someone thru fetlife or try some lifestyle clubs in your vicinity.

 

[gsmoke13]

Thanks Slap,

I 'm looking forward to exploring Fetlife. I joined and sent a couple of feelers out. I'm hoping I connect with some new friends there.