Anyone from Georgia here?

[SweetAngel36]

hi, Im looking for advice and new friends! I really want to learn more about this side of my nature and what is and isnt acceptable in a dom/sub relationship. Any help would be appreciated!

 

[dearc]

You could begin with "The Story fo O".

 

[SweetAngel36]

You could begin with "The Story fo O".

is that here on lit? and thank you

 

[dearc]

No, it was written in 1954. The 1975 movie CD is available.

 

[SweetAngel36]

No, it was written in 1954. The 1975 movie CD is available.

thank you

 

[BiBunny]

Why do you need someone specifically in Georgia? Also, what is and isn't acceptable in a D/s relationship is up to each person as an individual to decide.

 

[CutieMouse]

You could begin with "The Story fo O".

What on god's green earth does the Story of O have in common with actual BDSM and/or power based relationships? It is a (IMO poorly written) piece of fiction.

 

[SweetAngel36]

Why do you need someone specifically in Georgia? Also, what is and isn't acceptable in a D/s relationship is up to each person as an individual to decide.

Because I live in ga, and its nice to have people to talk to around me. Its nice to have people on the boards too, but I would also like to get together with like minded people

 

[Stella_Omega]

Join fetlife.com, which is like facebook for pervs. Look for groups in your area. Look for the informal gatherings which are called "munches" and show up at a few of them.

Do not believe everything you read in the paperback novels.

Don't worry about what is or isn't permissable, that's something you work out with your partner in the same way any couple work things out.

DO think about what turns YOU on. In what ways do you want to submit? what kind of boyfriend do you want? One thing about BDSM, you tend to learn more about yourself than many folk do.

A blog post I recently came across that might be of use to you;
http://pervocracy.blogspot.com/2011/03/no-and-no-and-no-and-yes.html

 

[SweetAngel36]

Join fetlife.com, which is like facebook for pervs. Look for groups in your area. Look for the informal gatherings which are called "munches" and show up at a few of them.

Do not believe everything you read in the paperback novels.

Don't worry about what is or isn't permissable, that's something you work out with your partner in the same way any couple work things out.

DO think about what turns YOU on. In what ways do you want to submit? what kind of boyfriend do you want? One thing about BDSM, you tend to learn more about yourself than many folk do.

A blog post I recently came across that might be of use to you;
http://pervocracy.blogspot.com/2011/03/no-and-no-and-no-and-yes.html

thank you Stella, I will take that advice!