Spanked over the knee of a younger Dom

[SlaveTrainer]

Ok, it seems a tad unrealistic, but doesn't the taboo thought make you a little curious? At what age does a Dom/Master become 'too' young? My personal belief is that the "right" age is just a matter of maturity. It's one thing to sleep with a younger man, but would you let him dominate you? Does this actually turn any woman on? Or is it just my fantasy...?

 

[Cynicalsub]

Seems to me that your skills as a dominant male would be more important.

 

[Stella_Omega]

How young is too young? I know it when I see it. And I see it-- very often, frankly.

Don't get me wrong, I could purely enjoy a spanking from some young stud with big hands and more energy than me. But-- submit? That's not the word that springs to my mind...

 

[Cynicalsub]

And please forgive me for my incorrect grammar, it was unintended.

 

[where]

If I'm old enough to be his mother, he's too young.

 

[midwestyankee]

If I'm old enough to be his mother, he's too young.

Looking at this from my perspective (and age), I'm glad that I could put a woman over my knee who is both just young enough to be my daughter and mature enough to appreciate the experience from a place of experience.

 

[where]

Looking at this from my perspective (and age), I'm glad that I could put a woman over my knee who is both just young enough to be my daughter and mature enough to appreciate the experience from a place of experience.

I was going to make a cheeky comment about your spankee's arthritis being up to a spank, but thought the better of it

 

[Stella_Omega]

If I'm old enough to be his mother, he's too young.

so he can be.. what... ten years younger... fourteen years younger... sixteen years younger than you?

 

[welkin]

At my age... If he's not older than I am, then he is most likely too young. There was a WSJ article on how men nowadays are maturing at an even later age than before, alas...

 

[where]

so he can be.. what... ten years younger... fourteen years younger... sixteen years younger than you?

I'd say 16 years max.

And I'm aware it's stupid and contrary, but I don't like huge age differences.

 

[Stella_Omega]

At my age... If he's not older than I am, then he is most likely too young. There was a WSJ article on how men nowadays are maturing at an even later age than before, alas...

No, men have always matured late. They just behave their age more now, and don't pretend to be grownups.

Which can cause problems in our WYSIWYG society.

 

[bhndblueyes88]

Which can cause problems in our WYSIWYG society.

Sorry, off topic. WYSIWYG?

 

[midwestyankee]

I was going to make a cheeky comment about your spankee's arthritis being up to a spank, but thought the better of it

You can get cheeky with me any time, young lady.

 

[where]

Sorry, off topic. WYSIWYG?

what you see is what you get

You can get cheeky with me any time, young lady.

OK, grampa

 

[Timesarrow]

Ah,perhaps,

And please forgive me for my incorrect grammar, it was unintended.

But still a punishable offense.

 

[Cynicalsub]

Mmm...punishment...that's no incentive

 

[redheadedtxn]

Interesting question. Spanked? maybe, but I'm not really attracted to guys much younger than me. Submit? Maybe a few years younger, depending on his personality.

 

[CutieMouse]

Less than five years older than myself is too young. LOL

 

[corks25]

10 years in either direction is general rule for me. Any men under 30 have to prove maturity though

 

[switchbitch]

For me it has nothing to do with age, and everything to do with their mindset . Although some younger guys don't have the self-confidence to express dominance there are some who express it exceptionally well. And as for submission it is the person not the age that I submit to. Some say age is just a number perhaps that's true but in many cases with age comes maturity that is not the case for everyone. Some are just born to dominate. That being said it can give a rather unusual added dynamic being dominated by someone much younger than yourself, there is that hint of uncertainty that can add to the submission.
HE is much younger than I am but I rarely think of it, I only think of pleasing HIM.

 

[subtle_Dom]

Being able to exude confidence, experience and authority are all important and while maturity can be tied into age, age is not the only factor... that being said, it is more than likely very difficult to master all of those characteristics and achieve enough respect if you appear to be young and less mature than your sub... I would think having to shave needs to be a prerequisite, lol

 

[subtle_Dom]

my first experiences as a Dom were always with older women which I preferred in my early 20's... however it was usually with someone no more than 5 years older and I had always been told that I was very mature for my age... it took me until i got into my 40's to become immature..

 

[JustaSCOUNDREL]

No, men have always matured late. They just behave their age more now, and don't pretend to be grownups.

Which can cause problems in our WYSIWYG society.

Stella I disagree on both of your points. First you need to define maturity. Sexually men mature in their mid teens to their mid 20s. Psychologically perhaps much later. Women psychologically earlier and sexually usually in their early to late 30s. I am sure you know the vast majorities of generalities are wrong including the one I just made.

In today's society of WYSIWYG tells me any woman who thinks the bad boy who turns her on and thinks she can change him to what she wants is the immature one no matter her age.

Today I am 72 yo. and have been involved in/with BDSM since 1967. While I may be a noob here I have been around for a while.

I will also say if I had a woman over my knee and did not believe she was submitting to me she would find herself on the floor watching me walk out the door.

 

[JustaSCOUNDREL]

For me it has nothing to do with age, and everything to do with their mindset . Although some younger guys don't have the self-confidence to express dominance there are some who express it exceptionally well. And as for submission it is the person not the age that I submit to. Some say age is just a number perhaps that's true but in many cases with age comes maturity that is not the case for everyone. Some are just born to dominate. That being said it can give a rather unusual added dynamic being dominated by someone much younger than yourself, there is that hint of uncertainty that can add to the submission.
HE is much younger than I am but I rarely think of it, I only think of pleasing HIM.

Being the dirty old man that I am I assume that applies to an older man dominating you. So thank you switchbitch. Pets you on the head. "Good girl"

 

[Pleasure_Fan]

Ok, it seems a tad unrealistic, but doesn't the taboo thought make you a little curious? At what age does a Dom/Master become 'too' young? My personal belief is that the "right" age is just a matter of maturity. It's one thing to sleep with a younger man, but would you let him dominate you? Does this actually turn any woman on? Or is it just my fantasy...?

While I admit this does seem unusual in a patriarchal society, I don't find it unusual here. There are so many nuances of kink, right? There are cross dressers with cum fetishes, bi-curious with shoe fetishes - why not a young Dom / MILF chaser? I don't find it that out of range as a fantasy. Now, as to hooking up? Hmmm... not impossible, but you may look for a while...

PS - Can't wait to see this thread tomorrow!