For Discussion: BBW's and Fat Attraction

[eyer]

1. No, I don't think that. Being comfortable with it doesn't mean that I don't control it. I've been the same weight for some years now and I have an active life style.

You've posted you're obese and you're comfortable with it.

The "active life style" you cite is obviously not "active" enough to address the obesity you're evidently comfortable with...

...that certainly implies your comfortableness with your obesity enables your obesity.

2. Yes I am conscious of that. I am also conscious of the fact that I might get hit by a car or get lung cancer from all the pollution that surrounds me. No, I don't worry about it.

Again: that you "don't worry about it" certainly enables your continued obesity that you say you're comfortable with...

3. I don't know if it's wise but at least it's my choice.

Ahhh....

..."choice".

That it's your "choice" is more important than the lack of "wisdom" of it?

If this was still the USA, I might better see your point...

...but, in the socialized healthcare system we live under, doesn't your "choice" for the extra weight you'll carry into your later years mean more money out of other folks' pockets?

Do you realize how large the percentage of obese folks in the USSA is?

Can you imagine what an economic strain addressing the health problems of obese people who "don't worry about it" now are going to inflict on everyone?

Tell me, please:

Being obese, do you consider obesity a disease as so many now propose?

Or, is it truly your "choice"?

Thanx...

 

[blunt_trauma]

because of my build, no matter how much weight I lose, I will always be classified as obese.

i'm very sceptical of this claim.
do you have any medical data to support it?

 

[cum2ut]

i'm very sceptical of this claim.
do you have any medical data to support it?

Had three doctors tell me that because of my build, my ideal weight needs to be 180-190, which according to all the charts, for my height of 5' 11" , makes me obese.

 

[blunt_trauma]

Had three doctors tell me that because of my build, my ideal weight needs to be 180-190, which according to all the charts, for my height of 5' 11" , makes me obese.

oh, ok.
but that's not quite the same as never being skinny.
it's just that skinny would not be desirable.

 

[Lancecastor]

So, your original statement was not true...if the medical professionals say your ideal weight is 180-190, that's what you should work towards achieving.

Here's an interesting organization working towards increasing acceptance of fat people:

NAAFA: the National Association to Advance Fat Acceptance

Founded in 1969, the National Association to Advance Fat Acceptance (NAAFA) is a non-profit, all volunteer, civil rights organization dedicated to protecting the rights and improving the quality of life for fat people. NAAFA works to eliminate discrimination based on body size and provide fat people with the tools for self-empowerment through advocacy, public education, and support.

 

[semen4her]

Hmm..do you really think thats true,or just what you've seen in movies & on tv, which is how every one who is heavy is portrayed?

I have no problem with self control. I eat less than most of my skinnier friends, excersise more than they do, yet because of my build, no matter how much weight I lose, I will always be classified as obese. So are many people, based on the current factors that decide obesity, including athletes & other so called healthy people. I'm not waiting for a miracle cure, nor am I blaming what I look like on anyone else. But if I can accept you for being the insensitive ass you are, why can't you just accept me as I am?

So you are comfortable being overweight. Good for you. If 3 doctors told you that you are meant to be fat, try seeing a doctor that isn't hanging out on a street corner.

I am in no way comparing you, and people like you, to athletes. Don't be ridiculous.

Call me names if you like. I never said I do not accept fat people, I just don't accept lame excuses.

 

[delisemoa]

You've posted you're obese and you're comfortable with it.
The "active life style" you cite is obviously not "active" enough to address the obesity you're evidently comfortable with...
...that certainly implies your comfortableness with your obesity enables your obesity.

Again: that you "don't worry about it" certainly enables your continued obesity that you say you're comfortable with...

Ahhh....

..."choice".

That it's your "choice" is more important than the lack of "wisdom" of it?

If this was still the USA, I might better see your point...

...but, in the socialized healthcare system we live under, doesn't your "choice" for the extra weight you'll carry into your later years mean more money out of other folks' pockets?

Do you realize how large the percentage of obese folks in the USSA is?

Can you imagine what an economic strain addressing the health problems of obese people who "don't worry about it" now are going to inflict on everyone?

Tell me, please:

Being obese, do you consider obesity a disease as so many now propose?

Or, is it truly your "choice"?

Thanx...

*You've posted you're obese and you're comfortable with it.*

I posted I am obese according to medical standards. I avoided actually saying that I see myself as obese because I don't.

*The "active life style" you cite is obviously not "active" enough to address the obesity you're evidently comfortable with...
...that certainly implies your comfortableness with your obesity enables your obesity.*

The active life style is active enough to maintain myself at the weight I am now. Like cum2ut said about her own body, I am also built this way. I played handball for 8 years starting my teenage period and that's half the reason why I'm so "thick". The other half is food

*...but, in the socialized healthcare system we live under, doesn't your "choice" for the extra weight you'll carry into your later years mean more money out of other folks' pockets?*

Unfortunately I don't live in the "better" part of Europe so even if we have a socialized health care system, I also choose and use private medical care. So now one else pays for my "obesity".

*Do you realize how large the percentage of obese folks in the USSA is?
Can you imagine what an economic strain addressing the health problems of obese people who "don't worry about it" now are going to inflict on everyone?*

I know in the US the situation is different and I know morbid obesity is a major problem in there and all around the globe. But to call, lets say any size from 14 to 18 even 20, obese or extremely overweight is wrong in my book.

*Being obese, do you consider obesity a disease as so many now propose?
Or, is it truly your "choice"?*

I don't consider obesity a disease, it is definitely a choice if no other medical problems cause it.

 

[eyer]

http://th15.photobucket.com/albums/a379/freak_gr/th_anorexia_.jpg



is just as PHYSICALLY UNHEALTHY and EMOTIONALLY HARMFUL as



http://th13.photobucket.com/albums/a276/abinidab/th_obese.jpg

 

[neci]

While it's easy...really easy...to make fun of fat women, we should feel sorry for them and encourage them to become healthier.

The men who pretend to find them attractive so they can cum between their fat rolls are doing those poor women no favors by using them in this way.

Sadly, it is the fat women themselves who become angry at those who seek only to help them.

what if she comes really hard while having it rubbed between her fat rolls? there is physical exercise involved. if she focuses on her core and posture, while being fucked, she may be able to strengthen up her abdomen.

 

[eyer]

I posted I am obese according to medical standards. I avoided actually saying that I see myself as obese because I don't.

If your av is an actual, current pic of yourself, I can see why you don't see yourself as obese...

...but the question is: is that just how you wish others to see you, too?

How tall are you? How much do you weigh?

I understand about bulking-up when "active": I weighed most as a sophomore in college @ 205 lbs, 6' 1/2"...

...today I weigh somewhere (probably) between 175-180 lbs.

I've never dieted in my life and the only thing that came close was making myself puke at weigh-ins to make weight in wrestling...

...if I eat at unconcerned will, I know I'll put on the pounds like everyone else around me does/has.

But, I've been blessed, too...

...I just don't have the gluttonous appetite for unneeded food.

If that is your main cause for the obesity the docs say you have, you can address it...

...it all depends whether you choose to or not.

 

[delisemoa]

what if she comes really hard while having it rubbed between her fat rolls? there is physical exercise involved. if she focuses on her core and posture, while being fucked, she may be able to strengthen up her abdomen.

Sex still is the best exercise

If your av is an actual, current pic of yourself, I can see why you don't see yourself as obese...

...but the question is: is that just how you wish others to see you, too?

How tall are you? How much do you weigh?

I understand about bulking-up when "active": I weighed most as a sophomore in college @ 205 lbs, 6' 1/2"...

...today I weigh somewhere (probably) between 175-180 lbs.

I've never dieted in my life and the only thing that came close was making myself puke at weigh-ins to make weight in wrestling...

...if I eat at unconcerned will, I know I'll put on the pounds like everyone else around me does/has.

But, I've been blessed, too...

...I just don't have the gluttonous appetite for unneeded food.

If that is your main cause for the obesity the docs say you have, you can address it...

...it all depends whether you choose to or not.

The avy pic is a couple of months old, haven't changed much since I took it.
If you never dieted then you have no idea how hard it actually is. I've tried several diets in the past, some worked, some didn't. I decided it is not worth it to go there again. I just avoid crappy food. But good food makes us *fat* also, I am the perfect example
And I choose not to address it and just to keep it under control.

 

[cum2ut]

So you are comfortable being overweight. Good for you. If 3 doctors told you that you are meant to be fat, try seeing a doctor that isn't hanging out on a street corner.

I am in no way comparing you, and people like you, to athletes. Don't be ridiculous.

Call me names if you like. I never said I do not accept fat people, I just don't accept lame excuses.

I don't believe I stated I was comfortable being fat. One of Lance's qustions was why women would like being fat. I honestly don't believe any one, male (which interestingly no one seems to be as concerned about) or female is truly comfortable being heavier. If you're lucky to be blessed with the genetic make up to be able to burn through your intake, to keep you skinny, good on you. Its not just a simple fix. I've managed to get rid of 60 lbs, but it has been damn hard work & I have. & will have to continue to work at it my whole life, because I have a thyroid that doesnt want to play nice with my body.

All of you are so lucky to be able to judge a person, without knowing the whole story. It must be nice up there in your ivory tower...which of course the rest of us are much to fat to inhabit with you.

 

[Lancecastor]

Remember...this thread is also about what men find attractive in obese women.

I was reading today about a "fold job", which is when a man fucks between the fat folds of a BBW woman, much like tit-fucking.

Has anyone here given or received a "fold job"?

 

[Saint Peter]

Remember...this thread is also about what men find attractive in obese women.

I was reading today about a "fold job", which is when a man fucks between the fat folds of a BBW woman, much like tit-fucking.

Has anyone here given or received a "fold job"?

I do that with my wallet every night.

 

[delisemoa]

which of course the rest of us are much to fat to inhabit with you.

Thx for the giggle cum2ut

 

[eyer]

If you never dieted then you have no idea how hard it actually is.

So you're a quitter, huh?

 

[Beco]

I had a corn beef sandwich today

 

[clutch1]

Remember...this thread is also about what men find attractive in obese women.

I was reading today about a "fold job", which is when a man fucks between the fat folds of a BBW woman, much like tit-fucking.

Has anyone here given or received a "fold job"?

No, but I did fuck a girls armpit.
Bag piping I think it's called.

 

[Lancecastor]

Armpit? No stubble, I hope!

 

[clutch1]

Armpit? No stubble, I hope!

Freshly shaved.
It was the only virgin part she had left.

 

[redheadedtxn]

Fat men are also unhealthy. My ex is very overweight; I do worry about his health, for my son's sake.

Yet this thread seems to only focus on women; why is that? Obesity in men and women is a health concern, no doubt.

 

[Lancecastor]

Yet this thread seems to only focus on women; why is that? .

There are more obese women than men in the USA and on the GB.

 

[redheadedtxn]

....as is cancer, eating fried foods, smoking, drinking, living in the city (smog, anyone?) stress can kill faster than any of these. I say we all learn to relax, and eat healthy. Red meat is a real concern. So are sweets. Drink cow's milk? That is full of puss and antibiotics and hormones. Definitely unhealthy. I would never partake of that, ew!

Suntanning, and tanning beds are also very unhealthy. Skin cancer is a leading killer! All for the sake of vanity. One should avoid that, it's not worth it!

 

[redheadedtxn]

There are more obese women than men in the USA and on the GB.

Really? Do you have statistical information to prove this claim?

 

[Sean]

There are more obese women than men in the USA and on the GB.

Source? Or are you full of shit as usual?