For Discussion: BBW's and Fat Attraction

[LJ_Reloaded]

Dear Lance,
You are not shallow, are you?
It's the inside that matters, not the outside.
I hope that someone, other than the model types, come along and put your world upside down someday.

Everyone is shallow to some degree. Lance's crime is not the magnitude of his shallowness, but that he is open and up front about it.

Now take your average fat woman and put her with a guy who's shorter than her. Notice how HER shallowness comes out. But nobody dares talk about that!

Everyone's shallow to some degree.

 

[vrosej10]

Everyone is shallow to some degree. Lance's crime is not the magnitude of his shallowness, but that he is open and up front about it.

Now take your average fat woman and put her with a guy who's shorter than her. Notice how HER shallowness comes out. But nobody dares talk about that!

Everyone's shallow to some degree.

Being honest about being an arsehole doesn't make you less of one. This thread wasn't really about that anyway; what he really wanted was to make every fat woman one this site justify her existence to him. This is all one big Lance power trip.

For the record, I have dated guys who are shorter than me. I have dated guys who would be conventionally considered ugly.

 

[butters]

Being honest about being an arsehole doesn't make you less of one. This thread wasn't really about that anyway; what he really wanted was to make every fat woman one this site justify her existence to him. This is all one big Lance power trip.

For the record, I have dated guys who are shorter than me. I have dated guys who would be conventionally considered ugly.

lance needs the ego boost. poor fakeboy. but never mind, V - he gets off on seeing the view counts grow, and it doesn't even matter to him that the majority of those are probably people checking in to see what humiliation he's been served up next. he still thinks it's all about him and it makes him happy.

my first husband was shorter than me. (i wasn't large when i met him, so he can't even use that as some 'poor self-image leading to insecurity issues' thing). lots of larger ladies have short husbands, same as lots have tall husbands. some even have husbands or partners the same height as them! *shock-me-purple *

 

[Sonny Limatina]

lance needs the ego boost. poor fakeboy. but never mind, V - he gets off on seeing the view counts grow, and it doesn't even matter to him that the majority of those are probably people checking in to see what humiliation he's been served up next. he still thinks it's all about him and it makes him happy.

You're aware of the irony of this sentence, I hope.

 

[butters]

You're aware of the irony of this sentence, I hope.

 

[busybody..]

You're aware of the irony of this sentence, I hope.

figures I'd find you in teh FAT SLOB thread

Where the fuck are you..................I showed you, thay YOUR BULLSHIT of the Obama and his "grandparents" pics are NOT from teh video and your whole BULLSHIT 'theory' is BULLSHIT

You sorta vanished

Only to re-appear in the FAT SLOB THREAD


oh.....and spare me the "I got a life and I dont needa answer your delusions" response

Instead, tell the truth

"My BS was ourted, Im hiding in teh massive folds of FAT WOMEN"

 

[Sonny Limatina]

I never know what that emoticon meants. I always just think of it as the last letter of Jack Ass Jim's name.

 

[Sonny Limatina]

There it is again.

 

[butters]

I never know what that emoticon meants. I always just think of it as the last letter of Jack Ass Jim's name.

it means what you want it to mean in context.

for my purposes, it served as a smug look behind glasses to indicate an 'of course'.

 

[busybody..]

Oh look

Smelly is so engorged in fat slob flesh he pretends he didnt see my post

ANOTHER LIT LOSER!

 

[butters]

serotonin and food-desire

Gauge of food availability

Serotonin functions as a neurotransmitter in the nervous systems of simple, as well as complex, animals. For example, in the roundworm C. elegans, which feeds on bacteria, serotonin is released as a signal in response to positive events, e.g., finding a new source of food or in male animals finding a female with which to mate. When a well-fed worm feels bacteria on its cuticle, dopamine is released, which slows it down; if it is starved, serotonin also is released, which slows the animal down further. This mechanism increases the amount of time animals spend in the presence of food.[7] The released serotonin activates the muscles used for feeding, while octopamine suppresses them.[8] Serotonin diffuses to serotonin-sensitive neurons, which control the animal's perception of nutrient availability. This system has been partially conserved during the 700 million years of evolution which separate C. elegans from humans. When humans smell food, dopamine is released to increase the appetite. But unlike in worms, serotonin does not increase anticipatory behaviour in humans; instead, the serotonin released while consuming activates 5-HT2C receptors on dopamine-producing cells. This halts their dopamine release, and thereby serotonin decreases appetite. Drugs which block 5-HT2C receptors make the body unable to shut off appetite, and are associated with increased weight gain,[9] especially in people who have a low number of receptors.[10] The expression of 5-HT2C receptors in the hippocampus follows a diurnal rhythm,[11] just as the serotonin release in the ventromedial nucleus, which is characterised by a peak at morning when the motivation to eat is strongest.[12]

i thought this quite interesting - something i found when looking up about serotonin and eating disorders.

 

[Lancecastor]

Ohh dear old lance shallow never. Just a bully that nobody wants to be with. What's wrong lance did that beautiful bbw turn u down. Ohh u poor thing she crushed ur hopes so now ur gonna bash on the plus size beauties. We are who we are that's our choice what we do with it. Yes I love big women them skinny Minnie's you have to worry about breaking. Mentioning breaking lets meet up lance I have a size 13 right foot and a left hook for ya then lets see what u you will pour ur hater- aid on next.

I like this post.

BBW's and their Feeders appear to be taking this thread personally, and that's simply not the case.

It's a discussion thread about how the disease of obesity has created a class of fetish called "BBW" and the men who find them attractive, "Feeders" or "AW's".

Please try to keep your panties on.

 

[Lancecastor]

Okay, let's get back on track...the overnight posts from visitors were angry.

Fat women face challenges of self-esteem as well as challenges in the sack...because the truly obese can only have intercourse in a limited number of ways.

This often makes fat women withdrawn yet outwardly angry towards men, as we've seen and heard in this thread.

"Some obese woman, fearful of competing for a man's interest, avoid interpersonal encounters and disparage males in general," writes Dr. Barbara E. Bess in the journal Consultant.

"Once involved in a relationship, they doubt the partner's sincerity." Self-hatred manifests itself in a number of anti-erotic behaviors.

"Some women are reluctant to act seductively for fear of rejection and ridicule.

Young women ... express the desire to look 'sexy' and wear seductive clothes, but fear that men in particular will think them grotesque. ...

Many obese persons attempt to hide their bodies under cover of darkness, or keep their clothes on during sexual intimacy."

As for positions, fatties have limited sexual possibilities.

John F. Oliver's authoritative textbook Clinical Sexuality states:

"Marked obesity of the wife, especially of the thighs, pelvic girdle and abdomen, can make intercourse in the standard position well-nigh impossible.

Even moderate stoutness, if it involves thick labia majora and a prominent mons, can keep the male organ from penetrating to a satisfactory depth."

As Germaine Greer said, sex for fat women is often like squirting jam into a doughnut.


For Today....Discuss how the disease of obesity is perceived in affecting health, attractiveness and sexual pleasure.

 

[vrosej10]

Okay, let's get back on track...the overnight posts from visitors were angry.

Fat women face challenges of self-esteem as well as challenges in the sack...because the truly obese can only have intercourse in a limited number of ways.

This often makes fat women withdrawn yet outwardly angry towards men, as we've seen and heard in this thread.



As for positions, fatties have limited sexual possibilities.

John F. Oliver's authoritative textbook Clinical Sexuality states:

"Marked obesity of the wife, especially of the thighs, pelvic girdle and abdomen, can make intercourse in the standard position well-nigh impossible.

Even moderate stoutness, if it involves thick labia majora and a prominent mons, can keep the male organ from penetrating to a satisfactory depth."

As Germaine Greer said, sex for fat women is often like squirting jam into a doughnut.


For Today....Discuss how the disease of obesity is perceived in affecting health, attractiveness and sexual pleasure.

Read between the lines folks. What is Lance really saying here?

 

[Lancecastor]

Read between the lines folks. What is Lance really saying here?

You have spoken here about how obesity has affected your physical health...so I'm surprised to hear you trying to blame me for your disease.

Perhaps through discussion and self reflection, people like you can achieve an understanding of how to control your disease.

And those of normal weight can learn to help fat people become normal through positive reinforcement.

I for one would like to see you, ChipButt and others here become Normal and Happy!

How Obesity Affects Mental and Emotional HealthThe Social and Psychological Consequences of Being Overweight
Jul 25, 2007 Laurie Pawlik-Kienlen


Mental Health Effects of Obesity -
Being overweight affects emotional health in several different ways. In fact, the mental health effects of obesity can be as damaging as the physical effects, according to recent obesity research.

The emotional and mental health issues caused by being overweight include social discrimination, low self-esteem, and even thoughts of ending life. Here's a summary of the emotional, mental, and social effects of being overweight...

Obese People Are More Prone to Depression and AnxietyObese women and men are less physically active because it's not only more difficult to move around, it's embarrassing to change in the locker rooms at the gym. Many obese people don't feel comfortable in fitness classes because of their size and shape. This lack of physical activity can cause depression and anxiety (while physical activity reduces feelings of depression and anxiety).

Overweight People Are Seen as Lacking in Willpower
Social discrimination includes the way society views you based on your appearance. The mental health effects of obesity include social discrimination – people often judge and mistreat individuals who are overweight. Obese people are seen as lazy and lacking in willpower, or incapable of looking after themselves properly. They're socially undesirable, which increases their chances of anxiety and depression.

Overweight Students Have Poor College AttendanceObesity research from the University of Texas at Austin reveals that obese young women are half as likely to attend college as slim girls. Robert Crosnoe conducted the study, which tracked nearly 11,000 American adolescents, and found that young men didn't differ from their non-obese peers in college attendance. Obese young women are also more likely to use drugs and alcohol than their slimmer peers.

Crosnoe states: "That girls are far more vulnerable to the non-health risks of obesity reinforces the notion that body image is more important to girls' self-concept and that social norms have greater effects on the education of girls than boys."

What are the Health Effects of Obesity?The emotional health effects of obesity in girls is stronger than boys because girls are more tuned in to their appearance. Body image affects not only their self-esteem, but their levels of achievement as well. Women who are overweight need to deliberately focus on increasing their body confidence.

 

[vrosej10]

You have spoken here about how obesity has affected your physical health...so I'm surprised to hear you trying to blame me for your disease.

Perhaps through discussion and self reflection, people like you can achieve an understanding of how to control your disease.

And those of normal weight can learn to help fat people become normal through positive reinforcement.

I for one would like to see you, ChipButt and others here become Normal and Happy!

I don't blame you for my health problems. What I do blame you for is perpetuating the hateful attitude that adds to the problems already faced. You are a bully Lance. If you weren't, you would be challenging underweight women to change their ways because as you put it, it is unnatural to be attracted to unhealthy women and these women are as unhealthy as the obese group.

 

[Lancecastor]

I don't blame you for my health problems. What I do blame you for is perpetuating the hateful attitude that adds to the problems already faced. You are a bully Lance. If you weren't, you would be challenging underweight women to change their ways because as you put it, it is unnatural to be attracted to unhealthy women and these women are as unhealthy as the obese group.

Good to hear you don't blame me for your poor heath...thanks.

Underweight women are a very very small group, almost statistically insignificant, especially here on the GB.

However, the GB is full of unhappy obese women ...is it not the right thing to encourage you?

Please don't abuse me with your "bully" hate....you are here, following me through this thread with your abuse....I forgive you, but I'm not your doormat, either.

Get your weight-house in order!

 

[blunt_trauma]

i'm trying to think of litsters who have been in the underweight catagory.
i can only think of kraft, zilla and myself.
and me & zilla are healthy weights now.

 

[sweepthefloor]

For Today....Discuss how the disease of obesity is perceived in affecting health, attractiveness and sexual pleasure.

It all relates to biology and survival. Imagine famine, poverty, and the take over of life as we know it by aliens: who would you impregnate? You would fuck the one that has the best chance of survival. You wouldn't think about that, you would just do it. These are tough economic times we are living in.

 

[vrosej10]

Good to hear you don't blame me for your poor heath...thanks.

Underweight women are a very very small group, almost statistically insignificant, especially here on the GB.

However, the GB is full of unhappy obese women ...is it not the right thing to encourage you?

Please don't abuse me with your "bully" hate....you are here, following me through this thread with your abuse....I forgive you, but I'm not your doormat, either.

Get your weight-house in order!

You have an agenda a mile wide.

It seems you have one rule for yourself and another for others. You dogged Kybelle relentlessly.Free speech is a bitch ain't it? Put me on iggy if I bug you so much.

 

[Lancecastor]

You have an agenda a mile wide.

It seems you have one rule for yourself and another for others. You dogged Kybelle relentlessly.Free speech is a bitch ain't it? Put me on iggy if I bug you so much.

Okay, now i understand....

Kowbell was using the GB as her online storefront to promote and sell her sex toys.

I objected....and in time, she backed away from the aggressive daily sales campaign here.

So, because I objected to her flaunting Lit rules...your "vengeance" is to post in this thread about your obesity?

The logic in that is suspect, at best.

I just want you to lose some weight. You can hate me for that if you want.

But it makes you sound like a wacko.

i'm trying to think of litsters who have been in the underweight catagory.
i can only think of kraft, zilla and myself.
and me & zilla are healthy weights now.

Exactly...we can do the most good by helping the fatties.

 

[Lancecastor]

Here's some good news for fat women....new research shows that Canadian Maple Syrup contains cancer-fighting anti-oxidants and can help manage Diabetes!

Is maple syrup the new super food?
Wency Leung
Globe and Mail

http://www.theglobeandmail.com/life/the-hot-button/is-maple-syrup-the-new-super-food/article1967263/

 

[Beco]

Here's some good news for fat women....new research shows that Canadian Maple Syrup contains cancer-fighting anti-oxidants and can help manage Diabetes!

So pour it on a stack of cakes....eat up!

 

[Lancecastor]

So pour it on a stack of cakes....eat up!

http://images4.wikia.nocookie.net/__cb20100404031149/uncyclopedia/images/7/78/Fat-chicks-eating-pancakes.jpg

"talkin bout mud flaps, my girl's gottem."
Big Bottom ~ Spinal tap

 

[Beco]

http://images4.wikia.nocookie.net/__cb20100404031149/uncyclopedia/images/7/78/Fat-chicks-eating-pancakes.jpg

"talkin bout mud flaps, my girl's gottem."
Big Bottom ~ Spinal tap

Nice Ta ta's.....very hot!