Vote :: are women or men more into bdsm?

Vote? Where? Did you mean to put in a poll?

My answer would be unsure. I have no data to tell me if women or men are more into BDSM.

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I guess ther is no other way to create a poll ! So this is the only idea I could come up with
 
I see more females at kink events than males. Then again there are more females in our population than males, right?

FF

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hard to say if you put "bdsm" all together as a catch all. not really into bondage so much, only like domination if its girl on girl. Some people fall into all but some only like one.
 
Interesting topic. Please restart the thread as a poll. I think its proboably women. But I think I do more and its more important to me than m.....

I guess a subtopic would be who fantasizes more about BDSM ( I never really know what the labe means) and who acts out the fantasies more?
 
I would be quite interested in this as it was myself who, not so long ago, approached my husband about it and it took some working up to it! The only people I know who are into it in any way (not heavily) are couples
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Women are generally more active writers on discussion boards, so I suppose women would also be more active to take part in polls. And Lit especially is very heavily tilted towards the fsub end of spectrum, when it comes to active members. That might bias the poll quite a bit.

IME women aren't more into bdsm than men. They seem to be more eager to join (especially the non-play type) events, but other than that, based on the people I know in real life, I'd say it's very much 50/50.
 
I would love to see a slightly more detailed poll other then M/F

Something more akin to:

Male PYL

Female PYL

Male Switch

Female Switch

Male pyl

Female pyl

Except I know that excludes gender queer and transgendered people. Arg. How many poll options can you have?

And I recall seeing some one poll this before... *ponder*
 
I would love to see a slightly more detailed poll other then M/F

Something more akin to:

Male PYL

Female PYL

Male Switch

Female Switch

Male pyl

Female pyl

Except I know that excludes gender queer and transgendered people. Arg. How many poll options can you have?

And I recall seeing some one poll this before... *ponder*

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=520797
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=520655
http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=538680
 
Women are generally more active writers on discussion boards, so I suppose women would also be more active to take part in polls. And Lit especially is very heavily tilted towards the fsub end of spectrum, when it comes to active members. That might bias the poll quite a bit.

IME women aren't more into bdsm than men. They seem to be more eager to join (especially the non-play type) events, but other than that, based on the people I know in real life, I'd say it's very much 50/50.

I think your right about being biased towards women on here, I also think more women would be active on here as erotic literature is more attractive to females than other porn sites that men might be more likely to use (generalisation of course)


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Yea, I thought so. Good on ya for posting those.

I went and voted in each. Ech, look at the dismal numbers for male pyls and femals PYLs. *grumble*
Why dismal? It just means more fun for you, right? I'm a member of the male PYL group. We're a dime a dozen, and full of fakers and wannabees. :rolleyes:

Yeah, I'm a pessimist.
 
I think that a woman behind closed doors is into just about anything she wants or needs. Women are definitely more sexy and more into BDSM than men in my experience. And I love it that way!
 
I think women are more into bdsm D/s. These kinds of play include a depth in intimacy that is sought after more actively by women.

Interesting question. Would like to see a valid poll on the subject.
 
Why dismal? It just means more fun for you, right? I'm a member of the male PYL group. We're a dime a dozen, and full of fakers and wannabees. :rolleyes:

Yeah, I'm a pessimist.

As am I, but in the opposite direction. It's dismal because I have close to no peers, and close to no...prospective sexual partners. My added disability is that I am so incredibly young, scene wise. All the male PYLs are my fathers age. And that never ends well.
 
I would also favor women. I'm going to go with the usual stereotype that women like to be submissives and males like to be dominantants. If that is indeed the case I believe there are more women who would be into being submissive than there are men who wish to be dominant.
 
yes, I have seen more women or men come into BDSM than ever.

I attribute this to the internet. :)
 
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