Pain induced orgasm..

[DirtyPet]

I knew the people here could help me with this..

I have a sub that is into pain, especially to his cock during masturbation..I say masturbation because our relationship is long distance and he has yet to find a Domme that will give him the pain he needs to cum..he has has sex but cant cum unless he is alone and hurting himself..

Does anyone have any ideas on what he can do?

Thank you!

 

[Be_Still]

I often have my long distance sub use a zipper line. They are easy to manage by oneself, they leave marks if you require photo evidence and if you are able to listen in it is pretty hard to fake the reaction to the line coming off.

 

[DirtyPet]

Perfect..thank you so much!

 

[Be_Still]

You are most welcome DirtyPet.
Please share how he responds.

 

[DirtyPet]

I sure will..

so far he wears his cock rings for several hours at a time..this kinda scares me though..it turns his cock purple and I dont think its really safe to do that for hours at a time but I cant find anything on this subject either. I have had him cut, scratch, have his girlfriend bite and use candle wax on his cock..just wish I could do it myself..

 

[buxxxom]

Tell him to give himself a quick rubdown with sandpaper, and then jack off with hand sanitizer as lube!

 

[DirtyPet]

I havent thought about sandpaper but he does use hand sanitizer as lube..

 

[Dearelliot]

I know a German woman who uses needles they do work!

 

[ataxia.girl]

Don't believe in them.

 

[ouchfeelsgood]

If he enjoys the sensation when his girlfriend bites down on his cock, he could try a variation on that -- she can rake her teeth along the length of his cock, going up and down the shaft, until he eventually cums.

I dated a woman once who loved doing just that -- and we both really got off on it (especially me, being a CBT aficionado)

 

[DVS]

I knew the people here could help me with this..

I have a sub that is into pain, especially to his cock during masturbation..I say masturbation because our relationship is long distance and he has yet to find a Domme that will give him the pain he needs to cum..he has has sex but cant cum unless he is alone and hurting himself..

Does anyone have any ideas on what he can do?

Thank you!

It could be expensive, but he could purchase a TENS unit or if he really wants to go all the way, a violet wand. Then, when he's masturbating, he could turn the unit on and pulse various waves of sensation through is hard cock. There are attachments that can connect his cock and his prostate to make him cum just from the sensations alone. Mostly these kinds of attachments are on gay electroplay web sites.

Again, they aren't cheap, but if he's looking for pain, he can dial it up has low or as high as he wants with a TENS unit. Or he can allow someone else to control the dials, if he's brave enough. Once he gets those settings to be just how he wants them, it will work just fine, time and time again.

A double TENS unit will cost about $200 while a single TENS will be more like $100 or so. Sometimes attachments come with them in a package deal, but usually the ones you want are sold separately. They don't give away the good stuff. LOL.

If you can afford it, a double TENS is the way to go, because it's like having two single TENS units in one box. You can do twice as much with a double TENS and when using both sets of connections together, you can create some pretty intense feelings. You can have one set of connections sending one type of current and the other set sending another type. That's called modulation. In this way, you can create waves of intense feelings that can literally make you cum over and over. And, some intense feelings can be very nice and some intense feelings can be very painful. It's all in how you set the dials.

And single TENS units are fine, too. You can still create some wonderful feelings with them, so if that's all he can afford, he'll still have fun. I won't go into a violet wand because the cheapest kit is about $400. You can get a wand cheaper, and then purchase attachments individually, but I think the best thing to do is get a kit. They are all a little different, but usually a kit has several nice attachments. If you want to get a violet wand, be sure to shop around. There are a lot of different kits available. Check out the attachments that come with them.

 

[Netzach]

I sure will..

so far he wears his cock rings for several hours at a time..this kinda scares me though..it turns his cock purple and I dont think its really safe to do that for hours at a time but I cant find anything on this subject either. I have had him cut, scratch, have his girlfriend bite and use candle wax on his cock..just wish I could do it myself..

You hunch is right, if he wants to keep his equipment longterm it's a bad idea. Every cock ring manufacturer states 30m maximum for a reason. There'll be nerve damage if nothing else, so if he likes pain that much...

I'm a fan of sandpaper and --- small patches of astroturf. Also ben gay in the lube and things like that. A q tip swabbed with jalapeno is not what I'd call safe, but it's in a lot of people's acceptable risk category.

 

[switchbitch]

if you have him bind a stiff bristled hairbrush to the underside of his cock and also against his balls before he starts to masturbate, every time his hand strokes the prickles dig in and the faster he strokes the more intense the pain. It's always better to bind it be for he gets an erection as he becomes erect the tension in the bindings become stronger and the prickling is harder. (Married to a total pain slut subby husband and is one of his favourite things)

 

[Ohiorob]

Have him bind his nuts with a rubberband or stretchy rubber tubing. Then using a wooden spoon, spank his nuts. Same approach works wonderfully with a leather slapper or a cat of nine tails. His gf inflicting hurt/pain to his nuts while he masterbates.

Penile sounding (insertion into the urethra) is a very erotic play form. He would need to practice sterile technique to help minimize the risk of infection. It sounds painful but actually can be more pleasant than pain if done right. Stainless steel medical sounds can be purchased online.

Enjoy

 

[fma20fma]

hi

Have him bind his nuts with a rubberband or stretchy rubber tubing. Then using a wooden spoon, spank his nuts. Same approach works wonderfully with a leather slapper or a cat of nine tails. His gf inflicting hurt/pain to his nuts while he masterbates.

Penile sounding (insertion into the urethra) is a very erotic play form. He would need to practice sterile technique to help minimize the risk of infection. It sounds painful but actually can be more pleasant than pain if done right. Stainless steel medical sounds can be purchased online.

Enjoy

I hvae thought about sounding him after watching some vids.But he could not muster the courage to receive it.But I have acheived orgasm many times when i submitted to his caning my bare bottom,in about 15 moderate strokes.

 

[vegetablelamb]

I've heard tell of icy hot and bayer pain relieving cream being rather uncomfortable, to say the least.