How many partners have you had?

[kinky_caligirl]

How many partners have you had?
Male and Female.



How many people have you had penetrative sex with?
It doesn't matter if you never knew their name or if you were in a relationship with them.


How many people have you fooled around with? No vaginal or anal insertion. Oral sex. Finger fucking.

 

[shy slave]

Definition of partners?

Does it include everyone, whether you know there name, or only those you speak before, during and after?

Definition of 'had?'
Does that include oral without fucking, finger fucking, BDSM play only?
Does it include human and non human, inanimate objects?

Some blow up dolls make great partners

It can be a complicated answer to a seemingly simple question

 

[Felix_Jones]

How many partners have you had?
Male and Female.

I'm assuming you don't mean like partners in a law firm. For penetrative sex? They've all been female and maybe something between 40 and 50.

 

[kinky_caligirl]

Definition of partners?

Does it include everyone, whether you know there name, or only those you speak before, during and after?

Definition of 'had?'
Does that include oral without fucking, finger fucking, BDSM play only?
Does it include human and non human, inanimate objects?

Some blow up dolls make great partners

It can be a complicated answer to a seemingly simple question

How many people have you had sex with?
It doesn't matter if you don't know their name or if you were in a relationship with them.

How many people have you fooled around with? No vaginal or anal insertion. Oral sex. Finger fucking.

 

[shy slave]

Would not call everyone I have fucked/given oral too/fooled about with, 'a partner,' that would be being too generous.

I tried counting but got bored.
Probably over 100 give or take a 10% margin of error.

All male, all human
(bearing in mind not every country bans beastiality), have no interest in fucking women.

Why are you asking?

Wonder if kinky people 'have' more people than vanilla counterparts?

 

[kinky_caligirl]

Would not call everyone I have fucked/given oral too/fooled about with, 'a partner,' that would be being too generous.

I tried counting but got bored.
Probably over 100 give or take a 10% margin of error.

All male, all human
(bearing in mind not every country bans beastiality), have no interest in fucking women.

Why are you asking?

Wonder if kinky people 'have' more people than vanilla counterparts?

Well I said partner meaning having had intercourse with.
But as people pointed out it was too broad.


I'm just curious.

 

[DVS]

Are you talking about this week?

 

[the captians wench]

Under 10, even if I count people I only had pain sessions with.

 

[ownedsubgal]

i gave up counting a looooong time ago. could be 120, could be 160...but somewhere along that general range sounds right. Daddy would have a better idea i'm sure but i won't bug him by asking. this would be counting fellatio, anal sex and vaginal intercourse only...and like shy (que paso, chickadee? ) they have all been very much MEN.

 

[shy slave]

DVS- that really did make me laugh out loud

OSG-

 

[Belle966]

I've had two sexual partners. I've never had penetrative sex, for several reasons, but I define sex as any intimate, erotic behaviour, not just intercourse. I've fooled around with one other person, but I wouldn't say that went far enough to count as sex, even by my definition!

Both of those were long term boyfriends. I kissed another woman once, during a bi curious phase, but it didn't go any further than that.

 

[Stella_Omega]

How many people have you had sex with?
It doesn't matter if you don't know their name or if you were in a relationship with them.

Lots and lots in the seventies, then a long slowdown then a couple decades of being busy, then a decade of not-- now its coming around again.

I would guess around 150- 170. I pawned the gun I kept my notches on back in '88, and never got it back.

How many people have you fooled around with? No vaginal or anal insertion. Oral sex. Finger fucking.

Penis penetration does not define sex. I often "finger fuck" as you put it-- all four fingers and my thumb-- up to my wrist...

Tonguing a pussy is fucking, sucking a dick is fucking, hand jobs are fucking. Never let them tell you different, it'll get you into all kinds of moral mixups.

How about you, how many?

 

[MisterSir]

Something around a dozen. All female. One of those isn't a partner in the typical sense, but we've topped together and we're intensely fond of one another in a generally-platonic sense, so that counts (I joke we have the exact same sexual orientation - both mostly in girls, but some guys flip our switch).

 

[Bandit58]

I had one male partner until I was 43. Since then I've had 3 more male partners and several female partners (around 10, most of which were one offs).

I now have one male partner/Dom/Husband, and one regular female play partner (vanilla).

 

[the captians wench]

Penis penetration does not define sex. I often "finger fuck" as you put it-- all four fingers and my thumb-- up to my wrist...

I have found a whole new place in my heart for this.

 

[NawtyShutterBug]

I've had two sexual partners. I've never had penetrative sex, for several reasons, but I define sex as any intimate, erotic behaviour, not just intercourse. I've fooled around with one other person, but I wouldn't say that went far enough to count as sex, even by my definition!

Both of those were long term boyfriends. I kissed another woman once, during a bi curious phase, but it didn't go any further than that.

by this definition, would that not mean that most online interactions should be included in a person's count? not saying I think they should or shouldn't be, just curious what people think, I guess...

 

[BiBunny]

Actual intercourse with 16 men. What I would consider to be sex with 4 women. I've lost count of how many men I've given blowjobs to, though. I don't fuck much anymore, not with different people, anyway.

 

[graceanne]

1. Male.

 

[Stella_Omega]

by this definition, would that not mean that most online interactions should be included in a person's count? not saying I think they should or shouldn't be, just curious what people think, I guess...

There's one guy here who claimed hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of partners-- it turned out that he meant cybering for most of them.

*shrug* I don't count cybering for myself, because I don't get the sense of intimacy that counts as "having sex" from virtual encounters.

 

[NawtyShutterBug]

There's one guy here who claimed hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of partners-- it turned out that he meant cybering for most of them.

*shrug* I don't count cybering for myself, because I don't get the sense of intimacy that counts as "having sex" from virtual encounters.

i wouldn't count 'cybering' as 'having sex' either, especially just random encounters. however, for me there have been times, with long-term partners (for want of a better word) with whom many, many hours have been spent, delving into the deepest, darkest recesses of each other's minds and, the level of intimacy reached, purely through virtual means, have far surpassed anything I have ever experienced in my reality. of course I am just speaking for myself here...

 

[teknight]

Six thus far. All women.
Cybering doesn't count.

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

I really don't know.

*gets the abacus out*

 

[orgasmsgalore]

I am 43 and I have had sex with no more than 40 men.

I did some non-penetrating sex with 5.

I have had sex with 1 woman.

 

[ecstaticsub]

No idea. I'm too old and my memory is fading. More than 2 of each sex and less than 250.

 

[catalina_francisco]

LOL, I gave up counting a couple of decades or so ago. The figure would likely be a 3 figure one is all I can say, and no, don't count cyber or phone sex in that. Does it matter?

Catalina