Need some strapon advice!!

Bimmerdrifter

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Hello everyone I am in need of some advice. Here it goes I am engaged to a great girl, but the problem is that we have lost that kinky play. We were at a buddies place for a new years party and his wife had brought up that she was interested in doing him with a strapon. Well after that stuff was brought up my fiance just gave me that look like I am also interested! We were on our way home from the party and she told me that she has always wanted to bend a guy over and pound him with a strapon. Shortly after that night she had come home with the "bend over boyfriend setup", to make a long story short I was really excited but I didn't mention it. We had gave it a try that night and she was complaining that the harness was junk, uncomfortable and didn't give her any pleasure. After she told me that I knew it was over, I had asked her countless times that we should give it another try and it was the same thing again without even trying it a 2nd time. Well I was bored 1 night and wanted to go for a drive and I ended up at the toy store again finding myself buying her a Feeldoe since she had a interest in that. We gave it a try and it was just to thick and was not gonna happen. So I was sitting at home and surfing the web and had ordered a full latex type outfit with a removable harness on it, I didn't like the dildo that came with it so I had ordered a tantus dildo to go with it. When it had came in I went and hid it to try and maybe surprise her, she said she liked it but wanted to use the Feeldoe and I had told her that we need to work into that. I had bought a tantus dildo to go with the very intention to work into the 1 she wanted to use. She knows the outfit drives me crazy so she went upstairs and got the outfit on and some stiletto heels and had come down to see me and was stroking the toy telling me its time to come to bed, right when I saw her in it I just threw her on the bed and we didn't use the toy since she said she was tired when we finished. Ever since that night I have brought it up and it gets shot down some how, now that I think about it that was maybe 4 to 5 weeks ago and we haven't been intimet since. Now the question is do you think I should just leave it alone? I am a little dissapointed since I paid a little over a 100.00 for the feeldoe and almost the same for the others. And she is the 1 who wanted to do this and now that she did it once it looks like the desire is gone, and I enjoyed it. I want to order the corset harness or the spare parts for her but that would be another waste of money. What should I do???
 
.... What should I do???
Learn how to write in PARAGRAPHS!!!

My Gawd/ess, have you no idea how impossible it is to read something that is all run together like that?

As for your initial question, hit the edit button, go in and make paragraphs, and maybe someone will bother to read all the way through and give you a responsive answer. I can't, because I don't know anything about those things.
 
Ok first off, move slower, have her start with a small vibe or even a finger, lots and lots of lube, then slowly work your way up. Relax and enjoy it. You'll be taking that feeldoe in no time. However a harness for the feeldoe is advised. Mainly because when she reaches her climax, she will have trouble controlling it.
Which Feeldoe did you get? Slimedoe, blue one, is what we use, looking at going to a RealDoe, but haven't yet.
 
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