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Okay Sexy Gents and Luscious Ladies...
I'm attaching one of the two pics to this post. I don't know how long I'll leave it up, but it will come down at some point today. Could be 30 minutes... could be late this evening.
One caveat, though: Please do not post the image in the thread. Comments on the pic, thoughts, and reactions are always appreciated (in SO many ways) but if I see the pic in the thread, I'll pull it down instantly. Far enough?
Mmmm.... god I am SO wet just thinking of posting this...
Here you go... Enjoy!
Okay - thank all of you for the sweet, supportive, and crazy HOT PMs. Y'all ROCK!
A lot of you keep asking "Why now?" "Why did you finally post the pic?"
Long Answer:
Well, if you'll go back to the Vesuvius post, (my FAVE btw) you'll know that no one, besides myself, had even seen me in an intimate, up-close-and-personal way since 1999.
It simply felt inappropriate to debut myself to the world in such an impersonal, unconnected way. Don't get me wrong, y'all are great, I just want human connection - not cyber connection when it comes down to it. Lit has been a wonderful way to fill a gaping void in my life -- and for now, I'm thrilled with the interaction here.
But... the void is still there. I would prefer to find a true, human, passionate, intimate connection that doesn't leave a void in my life. When that time comes, Lit may possible become a fond and treasured memory. Uless the two of us are "into this sort of thing"Who knows, right?
Anyway... I have made a few friends here. Given the early conversations I had had with my husband, I allowed myself to be open to connecting with others who had the same limitations as I placed on myself. A safe, uncomplicated return to the world of intimacy - and, with any luck, raw, animalistic passion. And I've been SO lucky to have connected with a couple of Lit friends on a deeper, more intimate level - physically, sure (hell, this is LIT after all!) but intellectually, and emotionally as well.
Of course, life is messy - and the boundaries and guidelines my husband and I established when we first discussed an "open marriage" turned out to a slippery slope. It opened the door for both of us to admit what our heart's truly desire. And - turns out, I don't want physical gratification alone. I crave more. So...
(I am incapable of giving a short answer to complex questions... can you tell)
The reason I was willing to post the pic is because I found a thrilling, and wonderful partner to kick off my journey.
Yay me!
Not saying this is a "forever yours" situation. Far from it. It is exactly what I needed... with just the right amount of connection in all areas without the worry of the future.
If my first experience was with someone who could potentially be someone I could and wanted to build a life with - there would be far too much pressure, and I would have been far too fraught with doubts, fears, and insecurities.
Now I can approach my future with a clear head and just a bit more confidence when it comes to my ability to pleasure my partner.
SUCH a perfect reintroduction.
So.... here's the short answer:
After 11 years, I finally got laid!
Okay - thank all of you for the sweet, supportive, and crazy HOT PMs. Y'all ROCK!
So.... here's the short answer:
After 11 years, I finally got laid!
And... turns out... I'm slightly naughty
(Again... no reposting of this pic, please!)
Well.... they aren't pulled down... but how's this?
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And... turns out... I'm slightly naughty
(Again... no reposting of this pic, please!)
Okay Sexy Gents and Luscious Ladies...
I'm attaching one of the two pics to this post. I don't know how long I'll leave it up, but it will come down at some point today. Could be 30 minutes... could be late this evening.
One caveat, though: Please do not post the image in the thread. Comments on the pic, thoughts, and reactions are always appreciated (in SO many ways) but if I see the pic in the thread, I'll pull it down instantly. Far enough?
Mmmm.... god I am SO wet just thinking of posting this...
Here you go... Enjoy!
And... turns out... I'm slightly naughty
(Again... no reposting of this pic, please!)
Now I'm no physicist but the laws of nature tell me that ain't yer hand tuggin' away![]()
And the million dollar question... was it worth the wait?Just kidding... here's to hoping you don't have to wait ~another~ 11 years!
Oh sweetie - I am THRILLED with my escapades. And nothing against him, but no, it was not worth the wait. I am such a tactile, sensual, loving person that going without physical and emotional intimacy for so long has wrought damage that I am only just now becoming aware of.
Luckily, I'm a positive, happy person at core - and I'm very analytical as well. So I'm sure I'll be able to reconcile the loss and move on with a crystal clear picture of what I need from life - and will never compromise again.
Okay Sexy Gents and Luscious Ladies...
I'm attaching one of the two pics to this post. I don't know how long I'll leave it up, but it will come down at some point today. Could be 30 minutes... could be late this evening.
One caveat, though: Please do not post the image in the thread. Comments on the pic, thoughts, and reactions are always appreciated (in SO many ways) but if I see the pic in the thread, I'll pull it down instantly. Far enough?
Mmmm.... god I am SO wet just thinking of posting this...
Here you go... Enjoy!
And... turns out... I'm slightly naughty
(Again... no reposting of this pic, please!)