Oral Servitude

[Marquis]

I'm stunned that someone as hopelessly insecure as you, ever manages to pull a regular bint, let alone a subbie type.

What's a bint?

I don't have any trouble attracting the opposite sex.

 

[Netzach]

I've spent a lot of time worrying about sperm vampirism and levels of raw chi.

In the end I concluded that my personal chi level is just naturally off the charts high. I can give it away willy nilly via sperming everywhere without suffering the consequences.

And this is what's called being completely carefree about one's feminine side, when you think about it that way.

The old tantric saws are keeping you guys down, man. Lighten up, it just takes ten minutes or so at most and you're back on track. It's pretty neurotic when you break it down, I mean you'll make more.

I can't believe I just said that.

 

[rosco rathbone]

And this is what's called being completely carefree about one's feminine side, when you think about it that way.

The old tantric saws are keeping you guys down, man. Lighten up, it just takes ten minutes or so at most and you're back on track. It's pretty neurotic when you break it down, I mean you'll make more.

I can't believe I just said that.

I was an avid student of taoist methods--once went for 9 months without Oing as I've posted about in here before. I'm convinced that there's something to it, but life is too short for that level of uptight discipline and I've decided to just O myself into an early grave at age 150 or so, instead of going for full blown taoist immortality.

 

[where]

What's a bint?

I don't have any trouble attracting the opposite sex.

use google.

and I'm really surprised. Unless you just attract the terminally vacuous.

 

[eastern sun]

It's not that complex.

Man is cool, collected, free and self-assured - he is attractive

Man has a mini-seizure while his dick sneezes - stock goes down

Women will deny this to the grave because that is exactly what they want, the subjugation of man through his own desires.

It's your only way in really.

My father always told me man's vulnerability lay in his external genitalia. Primarily because it made his desires visible against his will.

He told me this hoping I would be compassionate in the use of the innate power I held.

 

[Marquis]

My father always told me man's vulnerability lay in his external genitalia. Primarily because it made his desires visible against his will.

He told me this hoping I would be compassionate in the use of the innate power I held.

He was a good man.

 

[Marquis]

use google.

and I'm really surprised. Unless you just attract the terminally vacuous.

What gender are you?

 

[where]

What gender are you?

why would it matter?

 

[ownedsubgal]

It's not that complex.

Man is cool, collected, free and self-assured - he is attractive

Man has a mini-seizure while his dick sneezes - stock goes down

Women will deny this to the grave because that is exactly what they want, the subjugation of man through his own desires.

It's your only way in really.

obviously you haven't yet mastered the art of cumming with calm and composure. the way Daddy cums always fascinates me...outwardly, it's basically a deep inhale and exhale, with a facial expression somewhere between anger and aloofness. there's no screaming or groaning, no crazy spasms...more like passing gas, and being danged proud of it. lol

 

[kitten_candy]

"Tonight, i want somebody who does not love me for myself. I want somebody who does not love me at all. And I want someone I can adore blindly. Someone to worship. It has to be just the right person. Not everybody can be an icon, even for the ten minutes it usually takes for me to suck them off. No, it has to be a big man with a hint of brutality, more than a hint of the animal, the bestial. Somebody strong and domineering who doesn't care about my taste in restaurants... But he can't be too smart. I don't want to talk to him, for Chrissake...I don't want to found a cult, y'know, I just want to throw myself down, grovel, get used and get up and go home."

"Unsafe Sex" from The Melting Point, Pat Califia

 

[rosco rathbone]

I love Felix.

 

[JMohegan]

I notice an old fear is creeping back into my life recently and it is having a serious effect on my enjoyment of head.

It is the fear of giving women my seed and the inevitable loss of power that follows.

The fear itself means they've won. Either you deny yourself the O, or give in to the O and feel diminished.

This is no different than the fear of the kid who doesn't want to ask the girl out on a date, because it gives her the power to reject him. He either doesn't ask at all, or asks with a hesitancy that skews the odds heavily toward an unpleasant outcome.

I say O, and O with abandon.


Kybele is female, and bint = chick in Brit.

 

[intothewoods]

And this is what's called being completely carefree about one's feminine side, when you think about it that way.

The old tantric saws are keeping you guys down, man. Lighten up, it just takes ten minutes or so at most and you're back on track. It's pretty neurotic when you break it down, I mean you'll make more.

I can't believe I just said that.

That's what I was thinking. You do make more.

Marquis - Is it losing your sperm or the feeling of vulnerability/loss of control that comes with an orgasm?

 

[rosco rathbone]

"Tonight, i want somebody who does not love me for myself. I want somebody who does not love me at all. And I want someone I can adore blindly. Someone to worship. It has to be just the right person. Not everybody can be an icon, even for the ten minutes it usually takes for me to suck them off. No, it has to be a big man with a hint of brutality, more than a hint of the animal, the bestial. Somebody strong and domineering who doesn't care about my taste in restaurants... But he can't be too smart. I don't want to talk to him, for Chrissake...I don't want to found a cult, y'know, I just want to throw myself down, grovel, get used and get up and go home."

"Unsafe Sex" from The Melting Point, Pat Califia

This gave me a bone until I image-goggled the author.

 

[rosco rathbone]

That's what I was thinking. You do make more.

Marquis - Is it losing your sperm or the feeling of vulnerability/loss of control that comes with an orgasm?

It's not quite as simple as making more.

The Chinese believe that seed contains vital life energy in highly concentrated form. After all, the seed gives life to a new human.

You might also say "why not slash your femoral artery? After all, you are always making more blood". That's basically how the Taoists see it. To sperm willy nilly like most men is to lose life force at an unsupportable rate.

 

[intothewoods]

It's not quite as simple as making more.

The Chinese believe that seed contains vital life energy in highly concentrated form. After all, the seed gives life to a new human.

You might also say "why not slash your femoral artery? After all, you are always making more blood". That's basically how the Taoists see it. To sperm willy nilly like most men is to lose life force at an unsupportable rate.

I really do get all of the mythology about sperm, and of course it can create life. People believe all sorts of things and that's fine, but for a man with normal sperm count, the more you cum, the more you'll make. You won't lose life force at an unsupportable rate.

If you want to impregnate your partner, and you have a normal sperm count, you should have piv sex as much as possible before and during her fertile days. And you should have sex or release often on the other days so that your sperm count stays high. If you have low sperm count, however, you don't want to do it daily because your body can't recover that quickly.

So, I think it's clear. Something is up with those Taoists' swimmers. Ba dum dum.

I get that this can be a primal thing, and medical facts may be beside the point. For me, all I can think of here is how often issues of fertility are all about the woman and not about the man. The man is always making new sperm. The woman is born with all of the eggs she'll ever have and then they just get old and don't function properly. Sure, men can have low sperm count and other problems, and after a certain age the quality of sperm can decrease (but that's older than when women experience a decrease in fertility and not as common), but generally speaking, the man shows up with his seemingly unlimited supply of new, young sperm.

 

[rosco rathbone]

Some of the Taoist thing comes from theorising about the source of life, but a lot of it comes from empirical observation and experimentation within the male body itself. Every man has noticed that loss of seed leads to sleepy weakness, and that retention often causes a feeling of tense frustration, heightened energy and motivation. The Taoist sages tried to isolate and control the causes of this energy flow.

 

[where]

Kybele is female, and bint = chick in Brit.

I am? are you sure of that?

This gave me a bone until I image-goggled the author.

image fascist!

even uglies need boners!

 

[intothewoods]

Now all I can think of is that Seinfeld episode.

 

[rosco rathbone]

I am? are you sure of that?



image fascist!

even uglies need boners!

Obviously some men don't mind getting their bones smoked by the likes of Califa.

All well and good, all well and good.

 

[kitten_candy]

This gave me a bone until I image-goggled the author.

a lot of her writing is bone-worthy if you can wade through some of the more fantastical stuff. suspension of disbelief, at times.

doesn't matter. words prevail:

"My daddy likes fucking me when I am angry. He likes knowing I can't do anything about it except come.

But before I am allowed to come, I am penetrated again. Daddy sinks two, then three greasy fingers into my ass. Now I will say whatever it takes to get this woman to keep on being my daddy, to keep my daddy fucking me until i come. I believe I would do anything to make this continue. I do not care what it looks like. I do not care what somebody else in the room might think. And this freedom from my ambivalence, my self-consciousness, is as precious as the physical pleasure of being perfectly fucked and mind-fucked , the treasured object of my daddy's amusement and contempt and cruelty..."

Daddy

omg i just googled... i had no idea Pat is now Patrick.

 

[JMohegan]

I am? are you sure of that?

I'll rephrase.


Marquis - Kybele posts pics of a female, and claims to be her.

 

[rosco rathbone]

omg i just googled... i had no idea Pat is now Patrick.

Yeah, I draw the line at beards.

 

[neci]

It is the fear of giving women my seed and the inevitable loss of power that follows.

i love the moment of hesitation and resistance right before expulsion.
taking in all of that energy
coaxing it into the throat
being of service to relieve that tension

 

[where]

I'll rephrase.


Marquis - Kybele posts pics of a female, and claims to be her.

sure they are pics of a female?

not meaning to bust your chops here, but isn't it a little bit presumptuous to go assigning master status (oh the irony!) on people you only know from text on a page?