Three Dates

[toshiskitten]

Well, depending on how differently she feels, she may not be the love of my life and I would rather find that out now than five years down the road.

Well said.

 

[SuprSalor]

Think you'll both get that same dopamine rush when you push it in her pooper the first time?

 

[sasaou]

Well, depending on how differently she feels, she may not be the love of my life and I would rather find that out now than five years down the road.

that doesn't make sense. You're married to her. If she doesn't feel the same about sex as you do, that's too bad. You're stuck with her. You married her.

 

[firespin]

Well, depending on how differently she feels, she may not be the love of my life and I would rather find that out now than five years down the road.

I think the point is that most people want to figure that out before they need to get the marriage annulled because they married somebody that they have no chemistry with.

Waiting until you get married is sort of the opposite of "find[ing] that out now."

Oh, and just an FYI...most people don't actually feel compelled to bond for life with someone just because they have sex with them.

I know, it sounds crazy.

 

[ace_high]

Well said.

Thank you, toshiskiitten

 

[pornstarwannabe]

Think you'll both get that same dopamine rush when you push it in her pooper the first time?

I know it's wrong, but that was funny!!

 

[sasaou]

Well said.

How is that well said? He changed his mind! He said first he would become one body with her. Then changed it to "well if she doesn't feel the same then I won't stick around". I call BS.

 

[firespin]

Folks, I think we're being trolled. Whaddaya think?

http://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=35228251&postcount=4

Of course I kiss, etc. I'm just not aroused by 'going down' on a woman or having a woman 'go down' on me. Never have been.

Doesn't sound very virginal to me.

 

[sasaou]

Folks, I think we're being trolled. Whaddaya think?

http://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=35228251&postcount=4



Doesn't sound very virginal to me.

Maybe he's a born again virgin?

 

[ace_high]

How is that well said? He changed his mind! He said first he would become one body with her. Then changed it to "well if she doesn't feel the same then I won't stick around". I call BS.

I changed nothing. I am waiting to have sex until I am married to the love of my life. Now, like everyone else, I have an idea of what characteristics she will have. Among them that she and I are on the 'same page' in regards to how we feel about sex. This will most definitely be something that will come up and be talked about. If during the course of the relationship (and by relationship, I mean that time before we are married) it is discovered that we are not on the same page, yes her and I will go our separate ways.

 

[ace_high]

Maybe he's a born again virgin?

Nope...

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=727928&page=3

scroll down, you will find the following post

First:
I should be clear about this: I have never been physically intimate with someone. I made a promise to myself and my future wife a long time ago that I would wait until I was married before having sex. That's just the choice that I made. I realize other people have made different choices and I respect that. I don't judge and I don't push my beliefs on others. (Although, ironically I have had those who have made different choices than I have judge and try to force their beliefs on me). Again, it was simply a choice that I made.

 

[redheadedtxn]

How is that well said? He changed his mind! He said first he would become one body with her. Then changed it to "well if she doesn't feel the same then I won't stick around". I call BS.

hahahahahha brilliant!

 

[pornstarwannabe]

Folks, I think we're being trolled. Whaddaya think?

http://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=35228251&postcount=4

Doesn't sound very virginal to me.

Kissing is okay. He does not do oral. I believe him.

 

[toshiskitten]

How is that well said? He changed his mind! He said first he would become one body with her. Then changed it to "well if she doesn't feel the same then I won't stick around". I call BS.

I stand by what I said cause I know what he meant.

 

[sasaou]

I changed nothing. I am waiting to have sex until I am married to the love of my life. Now, like everyone else, I have an idea of what characteristics she will have. Among them that she and I are on the 'same page' in regards to how we feel about sex. This will most definitely be something that will come up and be talked about. If during the course of the relationship (and by relationship, I mean that time before we are married) it is discovered that we are not on the same page, yes her and I will go our separate ways.

So you're gonna talk to her about how you both feel about the sex you never (uh huh) had. And you're going to agree to feel the same exact way about it. I think you're living a fools dream.

 

[sasaou]

I stand by what I said cause I know what he meant.

Can you explain to me what he meant? I'm still confused.

 

[ace_high]

So you're gonna talk to her about how you both feel about the sex you never (uh huh) had. And you're going to agree to feel the same exact way about it. I think you're living a fools dream.

That's ridiculous, no two people feel the exact same way about anything. What I said was that she and I were to be 'on the same page' and by that I meant (Wow, you'd think I would learn not to post anything that could ever possibly in any way shape or form be taken out of context) having similar views, not exact but similar views and depending on how similar those views are we may or may not go our separate ways.

 

[sasaou]

That's ridiculous, no two people feel the exact same way about anything. What I said was that she and I were to be 'on the same page' and by that I meant (Wow, you'd think I would learn not to post anything that could ever possibly in any way shape or form be taken out of context) having similar views, not exact but similar views and depending on how similar those views are we may or may not go our separate ways.

No, you said you would become one person by virtue of your mixed goo. You can't mix goo and take it back. At least not in your book. And since you've mixed the goo, you must feel the same and think the same. You're now one person after all.

 

[toshiskitten]

Can you explain to me what he meant? I'm still confused.

That's ridiculous, no two people feel the exact same way about anything. What I said was that she and I were to be 'on the same page' and by that I meant (Wow, you'd think I would learn not to post anything that could ever possibly in any way shape or form be taken out of context) having similar views, not exact but similar views and depending on how similar those views are we may or may not go our separate ways.

This is what he meant.

 

[sasaou]

This is what he meant.

That's not an explanation. That's trying to cover one's ass.

 

[ace_high]

Yes, I said she and I would become one...after we were married. However, if I were to find out, as you say, she didn't feel the same way, we would not be married. No marriage, no sex. Thus, no 'goo' to be 'taken back.'

 

[toshiskitten]

That's not an explanation. That's trying to cover one's ass.

You misunderstood what he's trying to say and I'm going to let him explain it.

 

[pornstarwannabe]

That's not an explanation. That's trying to cover one's ass.

Maybe you are jumping on Ace... trying to trip him up. Let Ace explain it so you get it straight from the horse's mouth.

 

[pornstarwannabe]

You misunderstood what he's trying to say and I'm going to let him explain it.

We were thinking alike... I posted something similar.

 

[ace_high]

Thank you, Toshiskitten. It is difficult to teach when the student does not wish to learn.