pain slut

[switchbitch]

Do you really enjoy pain?Many of those I've spoken to talk about the feeling of submission it gives them or enhancing stimulation with adrenaline but very few seem to truely enjoy or be arroused solely by pain. Whats your take on this?

 

[EvenAyre]

It really depends on the flavor. I mean there are simple variables that change everything.

 

[CuteBrat]

Do you really enjoy pain?Many of those I've spoken to talk about the feeling of submission it gives them or enhancing stimulation with adrenaline but very few seem to truely enjoy or be arroused solely by pain. Whats your take on this?

I do NOT enjoy paim. And that makes one of The Masters enjoy giving it to me that much more.

 

[InteliGentleman]

personally i like to be slapped once in a while but not because the pain is enjoyable, rather , i get a sense of power when i can take the pain without flinching. its pleasurable because its like, bring it ON . you cant hurt me , baby.

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

Do you really enjoy pain?Many of those I've spoken to talk about the feeling of submission it gives them or enhancing stimulation with adrenaline but very few seem to truely enjoy or be arroused solely by pain. Whats your take on this?

Yes, I like it.

And yes, I get aroused by it. But I don't realise it till after the fact.

 

[Bandit58]

Different types of pain can arouse me if I'm in the mood. Thuddy pain from a flogger, nipple pinches, slaps on the butt, a bite on the neck.

However sharp stingy pain is NOT good Crops, canes and the thick leather strap Sir bought at Sexpo a couple of years ago.....NOOOOO I took two strokes of that before tears came and I was gasping for air.

And when I had menstrual cycles and it was close to, during or just after my period I really couldn't take anything

 

[ouchfeelsgood]

Speaking personally, I think there is a pain/pleasure "nexus" -- the point at which pain and pleasure overlap into an intense, sexually arousing feeling.

I love CBT play because varying degrees of pain can be delivered directly my most sensitive (and vulnerable areas). The resulting endorphin rush is quite exhilarating. Other areas of my body also seem to be directly wired into this stimulatory rush

But if the pain exceeds the accompanying pleasure, it has less appeal for me.

 

[john_and_mima]

Speaking personally, I think there is a pain/pleasure "nexus" -- the point at which pain and pleasure overlap into an intense, sexually arousing feeling.

I love CBT play because varying degrees of pain can be delivered directly my most sensitive (and vulnerable) areas). The resulting endorphin rush is quite exhilarating. Other areas of my body also seem to be directly wired into this stimulatory rush

But if the pain exceeds the accompanying pleasure, it has less appeal for me.

sorry but whats CBT?

and if im in the mood then bites, scrathes and slaps will turn me on

john

 

[ouchfeelsgood]

CBT stands for cock and ball torture ... and of course, the meaning of the word "torture" in this context varies widely ....

 

[switchbitch]

Cbt

sorry but whats CBT?

and if im in the mood then bites, scrathes and slaps will turn me on

john

Hi CBT is cock and ball torture including all forms of male genital bondage,piercing,sutures,heat and cold etc you get the picture.

 

[switchbitch]

flavour

It really depends on the flavor. I mean there are simple variables that change everything.

Could you clarify or elaborate please?

 

[twisted_lady]

I enjoy pain - often with or without sex. With the sex though - it just heightens everything and fulfills some dark part of me that otherwise sits there and sulks. I'm not averse to inflicting it either, but this is something I want to experiment with more. Well, honestly, I'd quite like to experiment with everything more...

 

[NomadLady]

Speaking personally, I think there is a pain/pleasure "nexus" -- the point at which pain and pleasure overlap into an intense, sexually arousing feeling.

I love CBT play because varying degrees of pain can be delivered directly my most sensitive (and vulnerable areas). The resulting endorphin rush is quite exhilarating. Other areas of my body also seem to be directly wired into this stimulatory rush

But if the pain exceeds the accompanying pleasure, it has less appeal for me.

Very well said Ouch...the overlapping point is where the intense arousal is for me...for example, nipple clamps added to most any sexual play for me heightens the arousal almost double in most cases... not to mention, it gives my partner a way to stimulate both nipples at the same time by just pulling the chain in between....

 

[ecstaticsub]

I don't enjoy pain. I don't get flood of endorphins. I do try to enjoy it, but only as a mechanism in order to endure it.

However, when it's over, especially if it has been an exceptionally painful session I feel sort of lost. I immediately start to crave more.

I also like the mental space (not subspace) that I reach when i have been pushed much further than I would have thought I could with stand. Past the point where I would have safeworded if I still had a safeword. I crave the "Good girl" recognition from my PYL. He very, very rarely restrains me. He wants me to submit to the pain (that he knows I do not enjoy)by my own free will until he is finished.

 

[Soumis]

For me the 'm' in bdsm definitely stands for masochist. I like pain. At least pain delivered within an bdsm context. I like it all by itself much of the time. Pleasurable and sexual sensation can be just a distraction from the lovely pain. It's good for my head.

I don't like all pain. When I'm hurt in a vanilla environment I tell myself, "You like pain stupid!" Helps me laugh at my predicament.

 

[switchbitch]

For me the 'm' in bdsm definitely stands for masochist. I like pain. At least pain delivered within an bdsm context. I like it all by itself much of the time. Pleasurable and sexual sensation can be just a distraction from the lovely pain. It's good for my head.

I don't like all pain. When I'm hurt in a vanilla environment I tell myself, "You like pain stupid!" Helps me laugh at my predicament.

Me too with bells on!Its great to know I am not the only one.

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

I don't like all pain. When I'm hurt in a vanilla environment I tell myself, "You like pain stupid!" Helps me laugh at my predicament.

I tend to think that any time I hurt myself too.

But then I start to whine again, cos toothache is BAD pain!

I've also pondered the concept of trying to sexualise bad pain as a way of coping with it. Don't think much will come of it, but it's an idle thought I've had before.

 

[Soumis]

I tend to think that any time I hurt myself too.

But then I start to whine again, cos toothache is BAD pain!

I've also pondered the concept of trying to sexualise bad pain as a way of coping with it. Don't think much will come of it, but it's an idle thought I've had before.

I haven't tried to sexualize pain, but I do use orgasms as a cramp and headache cure on occassion.

 

[VelvetSin]

This is a thing I'm still undecided on, but I'm still in the "baby steps" stage of the game. There are certain things that my PYL does that, while painful, sends me instantly into a heightened state that I'd call arousal. Hair pulling, spankings (hand or paddles), bites, scratches, slaps, and clamps definitely spark something pleasurable. It's not an extension of submission I don't think. Those things are pleasure in and of themselves, and added into a D/s context become euphoric. Just thinking about them can start me purring.

His new cane, though, nearly had me safewording from one swing. Felt like a pansy, like I was disappointing him, but he kept it at one to test it out and I don't think I've ever been more relieved. That kind of pain did nothing for me other than want to swing back. Maybe it's a tolerance thing I haven't yet built up to, but I think only certain types come close to arousal in my world.

 

[Sub19]

I truly enjoy pain. I always have and its a big turn on for me. I especially love the feeling of hot candle wax;p Thats just about the perfect form of pain. I like things that hurt more to. I think I like to get hurt lol;p

 

[ecstaticsub]

I tend to think that any time I hurt myself too.

But then I start to whine again, cos toothache is BAD pain!

I've also pondered the concept of trying to sexualise bad pain as a way of coping with it. Don't think much will come of it, but it's an idle thought I've had before.

I have never actually tried to sexualize out of BDSM context pain but I have used the same mechanisms of tolerating it for both kinds. A kind of Lamaze breathing works for all kinds of pain both good and bad.

 

[vidmin]

I enjoy pain, has nothing to do with submission for me. I enjoy cbt, nipple play, spanking, cock and balls being whipped. I love sharp, stinging pain.

 

[YourPlaydoll]

I am aroused by pain... Of course, it has some limits.

For example, the torture chambers that you can see in some BDSM porns do not turn me on at all... not for watching, and neither do I want to receive that kinda pain or torture.

A slap, some spanking, temperature play, biting (even hard), scratching (also can be done rougly), rough anal sex with saliva-only lubrication (which brings some pain, of course), etc. are enjoyable to me, though. I can enjoy sex without them too... but those give me even more pleasure.

 

[NomadLady]

This is a thing I'm still undecided on, but I'm still in the "baby steps" stage of the game. There are certain things that my PYL does that, while painful, sends me instantly into a heightened state that I'd call arousal. Hair pulling, spankings (hand or paddles), bites, scratches, slaps, and clamps definitely spark something pleasurable. It's not an extension of submission I don't think. Those things are pleasure in and of themselves, and added into a D/s context become euphoric. Just thinking about them can start me purring.

His new cane, though, nearly had me safewording from one swing. Felt like a pansy, like I was disappointing him, but he kept it at one to test it out and I don't think I've ever been more relieved. That kind of pain did nothing for me other than want to swing back. Maybe it's a tolerance thing I haven't yet built up to, but I think only certain types come close to arousal in my world.

It could easily be a test of your limits....tolerance does increase in time.

 

[switchbitch]

This is a thing I'm still undecided on, but I'm still in the "baby steps" stage of the game. There are certain things that my PYL does that, while painful, sends me instantly into a heightened state that I'd call arousal. Hair pulling, spankings (hand or paddles), bites, scratches, slaps, and clamps definitely spark something pleasurable. It's not an extension of submission I don't think. Those things are pleasure in and of themselves, and added into a D/s context become euphoric. Just thinking about them can start me purring.

His new cane, though, nearly had me safewording from one swing. Felt like a pansy, like I was disappointing him, but he kept it at one to test it out and I don't think I've ever been more relieved. That kind of pain did nothing for me other than want to swing back. Maybe it's a tolerance thing I haven't yet built up to, but I think only certain types come close to arousal in my world.

Many find the cane too intense.You can try working up to it by heating the area first with paddling and spanking or even chilli cream. The nerves are already in a reactive state in are less shocked. I just love pussy and inner thigh caning it makes me come in seconds!!mmm