A Live Sex Toy!

[JoyceMarieL]

I have never had a pure vaginal orgasm. I always require some stimulation of my clit. Even masturbating with a Pyrex dildo, while the feeling is divine, I still must give myself some clit to climax. My ex would climax almost immediately upon entering me. He could never maintain his erection and just pleasure me for any length of time.

Have any of you ladies had a lover that can just give you a "hard live sex toy" and maintain it for any extended period of time? I believe it not only involves the anatomical ability to suppress ejaculating until he is ready, but also the will to delay his pleasure to gratify his partner.

I thank you for your thoughta and criticism, if warranted.

 

[tcook]

Average time of intercourse is 5-10 minutes

I think you may be looking for tantric sex...which takes a lot of practice to do what you are asking.

 

[ima6uldv8]

Average time of intercourse is 5-10 minutes

I think you may be looking for tantric sex...which takes a lot of practice to do what you are asking.

Practice makes perfect. Lol

Seriously, the clit stimulation is the best. Are there many women that orgasm without it?

 

[tcook]

Practice makes perfect. Lol

Seriously, the clit stimulation is the best. Are there many women that orgasm without it?

estimated at < 30%...would be hard to get much more accurate than that.



A cock ring may help as well as telling him what hits the spot...often communication is all it takes to get what you need.

as for this:

...will to delay his pleasure to gratify his partner.

It may have nothing to do with his will, premature ejaculation can often be a medical or mental issue. That said, the will to gratify your partner would mean that other methods be used to give you satisfaction.

 

[rightmen]

I have done a lot of kegel exercises and learned to supress the ejeculation...
There's a book "How to make love all night" it works if you practice it correctly.

However I am too interested in knowing the answer from other girls.

 

[JoyceMarieL]

All Night Would Be Divine; 45 Minutes Would Be Wonderful

I have done a lot of kegel exercises and learned to supress the ejeculation...
There's a book "How to make love all night" it works if you practice it correctly.

However I am too interested in knowing the answer from other girls.

Thank you for the suggestions about tantric sex; I will have to research that. Even 45 minutes would be pure bliss. I knew other women required clit to have an orgasm, but was surprised the percentage was so high.

 

[philos]

If he uses a condom it may help. It will lessen the sensativity an help him last. Maybe try one of the ones with a vibe cockring. You can even get them at walmart these days. Must be pretty socially acceptable then.

 

[UKBBW]

Give him a few drinks and it will go on for eeeeeeeveerrrrr.... hehe

If he gave you lots of pleasure first and only went for it when you were nearly there you'd be better aligned.

 

[rawrrx]

I've always been quite lucky in that I find myself achieving orgasm more easily through vaginal stimulation than clitoral stimulation, which means that sex is always incredible.

However, if your man finds it difficult to please you during actual penetration, hopefully he's making up for it with lots of foreplay. (In fact, if he does it right, you may be lucky enough to climax with penetration, something that's happened to me several times!)

 

[lonelyjulia]

Have any of you ladies had a lover that can just give you a "hard live sex toy" and maintain it for any extended period of time?

Maybe you are shopping in the wrong aisle of the hardware store. My Tanya's tiny fist never seems to get tired, and I have trained her well in using it while she eats me for impressive spans of time.

 

[YourPlaydoll]

Me and my boyfriend usually have intercourse for about 30 minutes each time (it depends how much of foreplay was before it, though), and I always cum once or twice during it.

Maybe you should avoid too much focus on the guy (blow job, hand job, etc.) in the foreplay and let him do something to you (like oral or fingering) instead. That way, you will cum too or at least will be more near to cumming, plus the intercourse will last longer since his cock won't get much attention before

 

[JoyceMarieL]

Thanks for Some Excellent Suggestions!

Maybe you are shopping in the wrong aisle of the hardware store. My Tanya's tiny fist never seems to get tired, and I have trained her well in using it while she eats me for impressive spans of time.

Julia, A wise suggestion, indeed! Actually, I have begun "shopping" on both sides of the street. The merchandise is so attractive, very feminine and gentle to the touch. I may not cross back over. Tanya sounds like an awesome lover; dedicated to giving you the sexual pleasure you desire.

PLaydoll, you bf seems to be a perfect sexual mate for you. He gives you the foreplay you desire and waits until you are ready. Most considerate and the result is mutial joy. My ex spurned foreplay because it would lubrictae and arouse me and I would not be "tight" enough to satisfy him. My take was that the "tunnel" was not too big, but the "boring tool" was too small.

Thanks also to others for helpful suggestions.

 

[longteacher]

Boring tool!

I laughed until I hurt reading that. If I may offer, you may need to find a man that can get it up more than once. The second time usually lasts much longer, the third time someone usually says uncle or time out. But any less than 5 medium to large orgasms for my woman during a serious session is unacceptable. A woman should always be on a 2-1 ratio if a man is doing it correctly. The thought of shopping on the other side of the isle is interesting. One needs a variety in their diet.