Married and fantasizing about other women

[southernsara]

I started this thread on another page but I think this is a better place for it. Hope it's okay for me to move it here!

I've been happily married for years but have been having fantasies about women. My husband and I met and married rather young, and I have confessed to him that if we had not been together during college, I would have experimented with women. He was definitely turned on by the thought.

I am sexually satisfied, but that doesn't stop the fantasies. I guess I just want to know I'm not alone!

 

[Etoile]

You're not alone at all, and if your fantasies include sharing her with your husband (or letting him watch), then he will be a very happy guy.

 

[hunkydorey]

I started this thread on another page but I think this is a better place for it. Hope it's okay for me to move it here!

I've been happily married for years but have been having fantasies about women. My husband and I met and married rather young, and I have confessed to him that if we had not been together during college, I would have experimented with women. He was definitely turned on by the thought.

I am sexually satisfied, but that doesn't stop the fantasies. I guess I just want to know I'm not alone!

Hi Southern Sara, fantasies come in all shapes and sizes, just like people. So in your fantasies about women, do they include one or more persons? Is your husband part of the fantasy. I have fantasies but am kinda shy and don't feel like sharing them on a public forum.

 

[amwoman75]

Sara, you are absolutely not alone! The only difference in my situation is I told my husband about my fantasy very early on, before we even married. I did nothing about it but let it remain a fantasy that we used as a turn on until about a year and a half ago I finally found the right woman to be my first. My husband and I have great sex, and my love for women only makes it better because it gets both of us even more turned on.

 

[southernsara]

Sometimes it's him watching, and sometimes it's just me and her. Tell me about yours. You can feel free to pm me if you want.

Hi Southern Sara, fantasies come in all shapes and sizes, just like people. So in your fantasies about women, do they include one or more persons? Is your husband part of the fantasy. I have fantasies but am kinda shy and don't feel like sharing them on a public forum.

 

[southernsara]

How did you find her and how did it happen? I hope you don't mind me asking.

Sara, you are absolutely not alone! The only difference in my situation is I told my husband about my fantasy very early on, before we even married. I did nothing about it but let it remain a fantasy that we used as a turn on until about a year and a half ago I finally found the right woman to be my first. My husband and I have great sex, and my love for women only makes it better because it gets both of us even more turned on.

 

[klippert]

I started this thread on another page but I think this is a better place for it. Hope it's okay for me to move it here!

I've been happily married for years but have been having fantasies about women. My husband and I met and married rather young, and I have confessed to him that if we had not been together during college, I would have experimented with women. He was definitely turned on by the thought.

I am sexually satisfied, but that doesn't stop the fantasies. I guess I just want to know I'm not alone!

I truly am happy you have confessed these fantasies to your husband. Solid communication will make your fantasies cum true.

He was definitely turned on by the thought.....I Guess. Most of us men sure would be turned on if our wives brought this up... I can see where your inner frustration comes from. I believe it is easier for a wife to tell a husband that you have Bi fantasies. Most men with M/M or MFM fantasies (with male contact) bottle it up inside and to afraid to communicate these fantasies. I wish you the best.

oh, when it happens....take pix and show us.....*wink*

 

[lalala5249]

yup!

I started this thread on another page but I think this is a better place for it. Hope it's okay for me to move it here!

I've been happily married for years but have been having fantasies about women. My husband and I met and married rather young, and I have confessed to him that if we had not been together during college, I would have experimented with women. He was definitely turned on by the thought.

I am sexually satisfied, but that doesn't stop the fantasies. I guess I just want to know I'm not alone!

I'm right there with you!

 

[amwoman75]

How did you find her and how did it happen? I hope you don't mind me asking.

I spent a lot of time on different dating sites, but most women I met off them were too pushy and wanted to meet and have sex right away, I did not, I wanted to get to know someone. But I did meet her off a dating site, POF, we met for coffee one night and talked for a few hours, were planning on going shopping that weekend, but I felt so comfortable with her already that I knew I wanted more than shopping, so hubby took the kids out for the day and she came over and that was our first time together. Got together a couple more times after that.

 

[CuriousLeesa]

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[amwoman75]

I'm also married and have fantasized for a LONG time about being with another woman. I've met someone online and will be meeting with her on Friday. It almost seems surreal at this point.

Good luck Leesa! Once I did it my only regrets was not doing it sooner! I think of all the fun I could have had when I was younger and thinner and didn't have to worry about kids around LOL.

 

[CuriousLeesa]

Thanks, amwoman. It's great to know you're not alone right?

 

[amwoman75]

Thanks, amwoman. It's great to know you're not alone right?

It sure is!!

 

[LuvStrange69]

Isn't anyone else curious

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Originally Posted by CuriousLeesa
I'm also married and have fantasized for a LONG time about being with another woman. I've met someone online and will be meeting with her on Friday. It almost seems surreal at this point.

...as to how CuriousLeesa's evening went down, or not?
CL, pm me if you are interested in meeting a SC On-Line friend of mine.
Best wishes to all the ladies posting here!

 

[CuriousLeesa]

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[LuvStrange69]

Unfortunate is an understatement!

Now what am I to think about all night?
My online friend is BEYOND curious and wicked kinky.
She's "reportedly" never gone down that path, but wants to badly.
PM me for details. I'd love to facilitate an experience for you both.
Not asking to play along, but if you shared the details with the rest of us, I and all of LIT would love to hear about it.