question for the ladies and guys out there

[PugandGus]

im enjoy anal play and im bi in the closet but how would u go about seeing if my gf is intersted in maybe playing with me or shed be intersted in watching me with another guy cause that really turns me on

 

[A_Kefka]

im enjoy anal play and im bi in the closet but how would u go about seeing if my gf is intersted in maybe playing with me or shed be intersted in watching me with another guy cause that really turns me on

As far as her playing with your ass goes, women's magazines like Cosmo or Redbook usually mention it in sex articles fairly often, so should be that hard to bring up without freaking her out too much.

 

[Dutch76]

OK, here's what I did. First off I asked this question which is a good way to break the ice and find out her thoughts, if she trusts you enough to tell you the truth without thinking you might freak out. Just in passing I asked my wife "Every guy I know loves a bi woman. They are all turned on by seeing one woman go down on another. So do women get turned on by bi guys?" This way you can make it look like an innocent question. Then when you have your reply you can move on. If its yes you can just ask her to play with your ass. In my case during a blowjob I was on my back and as she played with my balls I just lifted my ass a little and eventually she started playing. Once she found out I liked it she was more than happy to stick one of her toys up there. It was great.

I'm still working on trying to tell her I am bi. She tells me bi guy sex turns her on and based on her porn choices I don't think she is making it up. I have her almost ready to cross the threshold from fantasy to reality to have a mmf threesome with a friend of mine who she doesn't know is bi too. Then hopefully things will fall into place. I'm just taking it slow with her.

Hope that helped a little.

 

[Mr. Briggs]

im enjoy anal play and im bi in the closet but how would u go about seeing if my gf is intersted in maybe playing with me or shed be intersted in watching me with another guy cause that really turns me on

Tell her her read an article that says guys have their biggest orgasm when anally stimulated. That should pretty much help you gauge what she thinks

 

[shewantsmore]

Tell her her read an article that says guys have their biggest orgasm when anally stimulated. That should pretty much help you gauge what she thinks

learn something every day

 

[klippert]

Be open and honest with her.... I like to think, as we get older we can accept or be intrigued by others sexual interests. Your 21, still young, you may have to gauge her maturity for her age. I have seen 20 Y/O's more mature that 30 Y/O's.

Be certain your serious.... if she thinks your 'joshing round', when you make it serious she may flip...... ex. I had a GF that wanted to have sex with another girl in the worst way.... we talked all about it... I asked what she thought about M/M or MFM with the guys getting it on.... she thought the Idea was hot in a way.....I asked if she could do it with me....a MMF.....

My mistake was letting her take the seriousness out of the conversation..... when she stopped giggling....she said: your serious!!, Have you....been with a guy?.....

Well I can say it took a day for her to calm down, I only hoped she didn't in her 'Chick-pissed off' go running round telling everybody.....He sucks cock.....

After a couple of days, she knocked on my door....when she sat down on the sofa.....the questions poured out....1st: are you gay?.... Hell NO, it's only happened twice.....but I liked it....

So, be honest, and when you talk about it... don't make a joke of it...