What does Love-based bdsm look like?

[Stella_Omega]

People want maturity and a free exchange of ideas.

They do not want to watch you and your friends waste two months harassing one man because he does not believe in the 'ethics' of casual 'bdsm'.

Which of us provides more new, on-topic content?

Envy ill-becomes you.

You fascinate me. I have rarely encountered such a narcissistic personality as you.

And you've been doing it for SO LONG!

it's an interesting problem for the internet era; how does an essentially anarchist community moderate its loonies? Each group has to learn these lessons all over again. the author's hangout lost that battle, becoming GB junior. it remains to see if the members of the BDSM board can put their collective will towards one goal.

 

[Epmd607]

The business Literotica.com has chosen to run is centered on stories. It has chosen a premier story file as the base of its business model. Everything else here revolves around that center.

Continue to be as hardheaded about that as you like; it doesn't change the business model of this story site. (And continue to be sour graped as you like about the placement of this thread and your reasons why it shouldn't be here--it's back in BDSM. That's reality. At least for the moment, of course. )

I responded to your theory that those who don't read stories and only visit the message board are parasitic. They aren't, they are revenue generators per click for Literotica.com. It's like saying Sr71plt is parasitic because he only reads stories and doesn't click on ads. It just shows you've no understanding of ad-based business.

This thread ver 2.0 currently exists in Story Feedback.

 

[BLoved]

I figured it was the same thread when I first signed on today to argue with you and disrupt Bloved's posting.

Thank you for the admission.

Would that more would admit they sign on simply to "disrupt Bloved's posting".

... I'm going to put you on ignore now robert. It's been fun.

But before I go, I just want to say:

Kill yourself.

I agree.

I was Robert's "beloved".

I left him because he was not who i thought he was.
He changed over the time we spent together and i realized i no longer loved him. It was a difficult decision that i came to but one that i am glad i made.

Robert is stuck in his ways.
He hates change and anything that has to do with change. In way i started to pity him. He still has not gotten over the losses in his life. He tries to cover them up with his belief that Love will cure all. But I realized it doesn't.

I knew if i told Robert all this, he would have just went about his life as if i said nothing at all. Its Robert's way or its the wrong way. I couldn't live like that. i will always have a place in my heart for Robert.

But i am glad i left. It was one of the best decisions i could have made for myself.

Take care of yourself Robert.

That was me.

And I've rated your stories 1 star a bunch of times.

~smile~

Bye bye robert.

Take care.

 

[sr71plt]

I responded to your theory that those who don't read stories and only visit the message board are parasitic. They aren't, they are revenue generators per click for Literotica.com. That's like saying that Sr71plt is parasitic because he only reads stories and doesn't click on ads.

This thread ver 2.0 currently exists in Story Feedback.

Ah, I'll grant you the one on the revenue generators. So, not fully parasitic (which isn't bad in itself as long as the site owners are content with it). It's a chicken and egg sort of thing, though. The site's here for the stories. The discussion board is here to draw potential readers to the story file, with a higher volume of readers of stories being what lifts this story file above the rest. If you say the story file is here to serve the discussion board, I laugh, and say bullshit.

So, you're dropping this "identical" crap on the thread that's now in Story Feedback and the one that was moved back to BDSM? It's good that you move that much closer to reality and not posting (purposely) misleading statements to try to bolster a nowhere argument.

 

[BLoved]

You fascinate me. I have rarely encountered such a narcissistic personality as you.

And you've been doing it for SO LONG!

it's an interesting problem for the internet era; how does an essentially anarchist community moderate its loonies? Each group has to learn these lessons all over again. the author's hangout lost that battle, becoming GB junior. it remains to see if the members of the BDSM board can put their collective will towards one goal.

And yet you flatter yourself to believe that your endless harassment of me is exactly what the reader comes here to read.

Which of us suffers from narcissism?

 

[sr71plt]

And yet you flatter yourself to believe that your endless harassment of me is exactly what the reader comes here to read.

Which of us suffers from narcissism?

Yep. Folks who can't resist reading and commenting on threads that tick them off basically want to engage on that issue. Otherwise they would be adult and control their own instinct to read and comment. The Web site here provides aids in just filtering out what you don't want to see if you can't control yourself.

(And controlling yourself is hard--I admit I can't do that myself often. I don't blame anyone else but myself for that, though.)

 

[BLoved]

Yep. Folks who can't resist reading and commenting on threads that tick them off basically want to engage on that issue. Otherwise they would be adult and control their own instinct to read and comment. The Web site here provides aids in just filtering out what you don't want to see if you can't control yourself.

(And controlling yourself is hard--I admit I can't do that myself often. I don't blame anyone else but myself for that, though.)

~smile~

I've been dealing with trolls for a very long time.

Something about novel ideas seems to bring them out of the woodwork.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Yep. Folks who can't resist reading and commenting on threads that tick them off basically want to engage on that issue. Otherwise they would be adult and control their own instinct to read and comment. The Web site here provides aids in just filtering out what you don't want to see if you can't control yourself.

(And controlling yourself is hard--I admit I can't do that myself often. I don't blame anyone else but myself for that, though.)

Ditto

I don't choose to make bloved invisible because he amuses me.

~smile~

I've been dealing with trolls for a very long time.

you've been a troll for a very long time.

Something about novel ideas seems to bring them out of the woodwork.

Regurgitated Hallmark cards are hardly novel ideas.

~smile~

 

[BLoved]

I don't choose to make bloved invisible because he amuses me.

Stella, I have no difficulty acknowledging that you and your friends are excellent examples of what one can expect from the casual community.

I am sure we all appreciate the raw footage of how casual 'players' actually behave when they're not trying to convince people otherwise.

It will, no doubt, impress millions and I am sure every casual community has it's hands full with new applicants ... from every abusive personality who wants to hang out with you guys and exploit anyone they can get their hands on.

You are the star in a three-ring circus. We should all applaud.

However, I doubt you've impressed many novices who are nervous enough about this lifestyle as it is without worrying about obsessive/compulsives such as yourself trying to make their lives miserable because it "amuses" them.

Aside from pointing out your misanthropic tendencies you are irrelevant to the topic of BDSM.

 

[sr71plt]

Ditto

I don't choose to make bloved invisible because he amuses me.you've been a troll for a very long time.

Exactly. And it's your right to play with him if you like.

Different principle than the one I've pursued here, of course. I didn't even know he existed until somebody used a thread I read as their trash can.

 

[sr71plt]

If nothing else they are on-topic.

You are not.

Zinggggg.

So, I guess then Epmd607's postings should be moved to the General Board?

I'll stop posting on this here now unless someone wants to address one of the arguments they just let slide by. I'm satisfied with the state of the opinions expressed--and (so far) with the result--the thread being back where it was originally posted.

What I see in the OP is a wish to discuss context--posed as BDSM--rather than the story as a story. So, I think it was posted to the right forum to begin with. If the OP had chosen to post it to Story Feedback, that would be fine with me too (he didn't)--and I posted to the context of the thread once before even knowing it had been moved from somewhere else. If lots of folks in BDSM don't like the context or don't think it's really BDSM or don't like the OP, they have ignore buttons.

Beyond that, Story Feedback isn't BDSM's trash can.

(All just my opinion, of course. You can have yours and express them as well. That's covered in the forum rules.)

 

[Epmd607]

Ah, I'll grant you the one on the revenue generators. So, not fully parasitic (which isn't bad in itself as long as the site owners are content with it). It's a chicken and egg sort of thing, though. The site's here for the stories. The discussion board is here to draw potential readers to the story file, with a higher volume of readers of stories being what lifts this story file above the rest. If you say the story file is here to serve the discussion board, I laugh, and say bullshit.

So, you're dropping this "identical" crap on the thread that's now in Story Feedback and the one that was moved back to BDSM? It's good that you move that much closer to reality and not posting (purposely) misleading statements to try to bolster a nowhere argument.

I'm definitely not dropping my word choice. This thread is identical to the one that currently sits in the SF, after it was moved from BDSM Talk. You want to get into math, here's your definition of Identity.

Identity Equation: An equation which is true for every value of the variable is called an identity equation.

Here's my definition of identity:

Similar or alike in every way: The two cars are identical except for their license plates.

But you knew that.

 

[Epmd607]

Thank you for the admission.

Would that more would admit they sign on simply to "disrupt Bloved's posting".

Actually, if you have any reading comprehension skills you'd notice that you come second to arguing with Sr71Plt, in terms of my reasoning for signing on this afternoon.

 

[Epmd607]

I actually take it a step farther in my head, BLoved. I'm not only disrupting your posting, but your life, your reason for being in this world.

 

[Epmd607]

Zinggggg.

So, I guess then Epmd607's postings should be moved to the General Board?

I'll stop posting on this here now unless someone wants to address one of the arguments they just let slide by. I'm satisfied with the state of the opinions expressed--and (so far) with the result--the thread being back where it was originally posted.

What I see in the OP is a wish to discuss context--posed as BDSM--rather than the story as a story. So, I think it was posted to the right forum to begin with. If the OP had chosen to post it to Story Feedback, that would be fine with me too (he didn't)--and I posted to the context of the thread once before even knowing it had been moved from somewhere else. If lots of folks in BDSM don't like the context or don't think it's really BDSM or don't like the OP, they have ignore buttons.

Beyond that, Story Feedback isn't BDSM's trash can.

(All just my opinion, of course. You can have yours and express them as well. That's covered in the forum rules.)

Haha, as if this post right here, and every post you've made in this thread and the identical thread sitting in the SF, is on topic and not worthy of deletion.

 

[sr71plt]

Haha, as if this post right here, and every post you've made in this thread and the identical thread sitting in the SF is on topic and not worthy of deletion.

I think you missed the irony.

Of course my postings would be moved too by the (false) standard on which you supported the first one to be moved.

But I think you've been blind as a bat about most of the argumentation.

Carry on.

 

[Epmd607]

...

Aside from pointing out your misanthropic tendencies you are irrelevant to the topic of BDSM.

Everything I've seen you post is irrelevant to the topic of BDSM. You don't seem to want to deal with anything but pair bond relationships vs. casual sexual encounters. None of your posts really belong in this portion of the message board, as you don't 'talk' about BDSM, just repeat the four letters in all your posts within the context of talking about run of the mill mating strategies.

 

[Epmd607]

I think you missed the irony.

Of course my postings would be moved too by the (false) standard on which you supported the first one to be moved.

But I think you've been blind as a bat about most of the argumentation.

Carry on.

Oh, I guess we've come to agreement that every forum's function is in supporting Lit story discussion. Wait, that never happened. There are places in this forum where stories are not welcome, and Mods with the authority to move those story discussion/feedback threads to their proper place. This thread and its identical cousin should be merged and placed in Story Discussion Circle.

 

[sr71plt]

Oh, I guess we've come to agreement that every forum's function is in supporting Lit story discussion. Wait, that never happened. There are places in this forum where stories are not welcome, and Mods with the authority to move those story discussion/feedback threads to their proper place. This thread and its identical cousin should be merged and placed in Story Discussion Circle.

I guess you can try to start at square one again, if you're that much of a sore loser. If it doesn't happen, though, you just lost and will have to pout about it. Tough.

 

[Epmd607]

I guess you can try to start at square one again, if you're that much of a sore loser. If it doesn't happen, though, you just lost and will have to pout about it. Tough.

Okay, for me to win this competition the criteria is: This thread has to be merged with the other thread and moved to Story Discussion Circle?

But then that means the only way for you to win is if both this thread and its companion in SF don't get merged and both end up here in BDSM Talk. As they are two distinct threads and not identical according to you.

 

[BLoved]

I actually take it a step farther in my head, BLoved. I'm not only disrupting your posting, but your life, your reason for being in this world.

~smile~

Thank you for the admission.

 

[Daddy2mylilgirl]

Love and Honor

A Master's Slef-credo

Author: Robert "Bo" Golden © 9/18/85

revision: 4/30/02

Used With Permission Of The Author



I love and honor her
for all that she gives me.
Her gifts, too fruitful to count.
Too precious to ignore,
Too rare to take for granted.

I love and honor her,
For her tender selfless heart.
Her deep and quiet soul.
The adoration in her eyes,
That she sees reflected in mine.

I love and honor her
For her strength of character.
Her complete sense of self.
Her keen and agile mind.
That strengthens me.
And keeps me on my toes.

I love and honor her
For the gift of her submission.
So complete, and without restraint.
given with such total love, and trust.
Because she knows,
She is submitting to her masters heart.
And Not his hand.

I love and honor her
Because there is nothing
she would not give, or do for me
Because I will never have to demand.
She will give unbidden.
Without rancor or remorse.
Without fear or trepidation.

I love and honor her
And I will give her my protection
My strong arms, my lifes wisdom.
I will give her the fullness of my heart.
The breath from my soul.
The touch of my empathetic hands.
The passion that is body.
And the song, that is our voice.

I love and honor her,
Because She is a women, a little girl.
One Who could stand on her own.
who has chosen to belong to me.
To something greater then us alone.
Knowing we fill,
Each others empty spaces.
Knowing,
That without love
There is no honor
Without honor,
How could there be love?
This is what makes us whole.

http://www.leathernroses.com/domination/goldencredo.htm

 

[Daddy2mylilgirl]

Yours Till The End

Author: Cheryl © 1999



As i kneel before you in the light
In front of friends to our delight

Your voice and touch make me calm
Your hands on my neck, my soothing balm

i rub my cheek on your leg, hoping to please
Your stress and hurts i hope to ease

You make me do what no man has done
You take me where i have never gone

i love your feel and your sweet caress
The power you hold is nothing less

Your cuffs and collars delight me
Will ever hold and command me

i am yours to command
Yours till the end.

http://www.leathernroses.com/poems/yourstillend.htm

 

[Stella_Omega]

Whip me, beat me, make me write bad poetry!

 

[sr71plt]

Whip me, beat me, make me write bad poetry!

I'm surprised the poetry is still here and hasn't been banished to the poetry board yet.