The Isolated Blurt BDSM Thread

[the captians wench]

Yah, it's WORK getting to that point. The payoff is that the people you do have around you are gold. Maybe some of the others might have a light bulb at some point. Maybe you might feel comfortable giving them a long kind explanation at some point and the light goes off. Maybe not - and you don't owe that.

That last bolded bit has been the hardest for me to accept.

I've receintly decided to just stop comunication with my dad. He's just toxic, loads of drama. It was very hard for me to get to that point, and to do it with out feeling guilty. My mom had to point out to me that I just because he's my dad doesn't mean that I owe him anything. I don't owe anyone anything, and if they are a toxic force, I owe it to myself to remove them. It was very hard to get to that point, but I'm better off for it.

Bunny, when I was dating a couple (well technecly I was dating him and his wife just was involved from time to time, but we kind of functioned like one family) I was very tempted to bring them to family gatherings just so people would fuck off. My aunt likes to start rumors about me, I think to detract from the failures of her kids and herself. She had my family convinced I was secretly dating women. She once told my mom, "if you only knew what your daughter really does, it would just kill you". My mom brought it up to me, laughing, saying "if she only knew what I know you do, it would blow what she thinks is going on out of the water". *giggles*

My mom isn't the most openminded person, but she's always suported me. Well except when I decided to run off and spend 9 days in another country with a man I'd never seen face to face before. She still throws that in my face as the craziest thing I've ever done. But then she admits that I don't give her much else to work with. She's also not very suportive of the idea of me moving to Ireland, but she would also be the first one to help me fill out the paperwork if I needed it. She's just good people.

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

You might be kinky when you're browsing at big lots, and see a cutting board and think 'ow, those things hurt'. LOL

Hehehe. Wooden spoons, too. At closeout prices.

 

[graceanne]

Hehehe. Wooden spoons, too. At closeout prices.

I don't see wooden spoons.Nope, not ever.

 

[chy_girl]

Sometime I hate being a responsible grown up

QFT(x97^3)

Hehehe. Wooden spoons, too. At closeout prices.

I found one at Bi-Mart that I picked up for Mistress. Dumbest thing I ever found for her. Fucker is made in France, the curve is carved just so, and the fucker hurts worse than the crop.

I've gotten a bit smarter about the toys I pick up.

 

[Keroin]

Well, blurg, it seems either the endomitriosis has returned or I have another cyst brewing in me nethers.

Poo, poo, poo.

 

[minx1]

what "outlandish" behaviour

 

[FloggingMolly]

It all comes back to the infertility. I'd never dream of having kids for the sake of sibling rivalry. Its just one more painful facet of the effect this has had on my life, my 'femininity', my marriage, my family. There isn't much more I can say that hasn't already been well expressed by others

 

[neci]

Well, blurg, it seems either the endomitriosis has returned or I have another cyst brewing in me nethers.

Poo, poo, poo.

 

[Keroin]

Thanks Neci.


Boy, suddenly I wish I could sew! I need an outfit like this for our "retro" tennis tournament next week:

http://ny-image2.etsy.com/il_430xN.88595498.jpg

 

[rida]

Boy, suddenly I wish I could sew! I need an outfit like this for our "retro" tennis tournament next week:

http://ny-image2.etsy.com/il_430xN.88595498.jpg

I wonder if my mom still has some of her outfits ... she surely still has her wooden racket! (.... I think ....)

 

[Keroin]

I wonder if my mom still has some of her outfits ... she surely still has her wooden racket! (.... I think ....)

I've got the wooden racquet - garage sale 50 cents!

 

[rida]

I've got the wooden racquet - garage sale 50 cents!

You know right that now we want to see a picture of your retro tennis tournament self?



(she took the bait! she took the bait! she took the bait! )

 

[Sir_Winston54]

I want to be the official photographer of the tournament. Might not get any pics of any guys involved, but I'd guarantee tons of good upskirt shots

 

[Stella_Omega]

I've got the wooden racquet - garage sale 50 cents!

Annnd... the winner/loser scenario is suddenly very clear.

 

[chy_girl]

I may show him your pics on FetLife and whine a little to see what happens. He doesn't even do needle play on me, though, so I'm not holding my breath.

Finally got the double boob pic up on my Fet profile. For those curious about how it looks two days afterward you can see one boobie here and the other boobie here!

My Mistress and Sir won't have anything to do with needle play either - way hard limit - but this doesn't really break the skin. Not like that anyways. Just kind of toasts the top layer so it scabs over.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Finally got the double boob pic up on my Fet profile. For those curious about how it looks two days afterward you can see one boobie here and the other boobie here!

My Mistress and Sir won't have anything to do with needle play either - way hard limit - but this doesn't really break the skin. Not like that anyways. Just kind of toasts the top layer so it scabs over.

That is awesome

 

[BiBunny]

That is awesome

I agree!

 

[CutieMouse]

Apparently a co-worker who I once was a friend thinks she has dirt on me that can get me fired.

The amusing as hell thing about it is that A) the only thing I can think of that counts as "dirt" are my kinks, B) I'm not exactly ashamed of them, and C) how exactly is being a service oriented submissive a negative when you work in a service oriented customer service position?

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

Happiness is a warm hand and a hot ass....

 

[chy_girl]

That is awesome

I agree!

Thank you! I'm hoping it'll scar enough to stay forever.

 

[ImOnIt]

Apparently a co-worker who I once was a friend thinks she has dirt on me that can get me fired.

The amusing as hell thing about it is that A) the only thing I can think of that counts as "dirt" are my kinks, B) I'm not exactly ashamed of them, and C) how exactly is being a service oriented submissive a negative when you work in a service oriented customer service position?

In this case, if I was you, I would disregard everything I know about people, rile her up, imply she wouldnt do it, criticise her on something personal, and wait for fireworks.

When people get so petty over work its like... well, we're trying to row a boat in one direction (whatever the company wants), she is thrashing her oars and telling the First Mate you should walk the plank... see what the first mate will order then.

Arrr! Me mouse wouldna done a thing like that!! To the brig with YOU, ye scurvy scheming wench!

 

[Essene]

This is ridiculous. I need to stop feeling so sorry for myself. I'm done crying like riiiiiight...NOW.

 

[chy_girl]

This is ridiculous. I need to stop feeling so sorry for myself. I'm done crying like riiiiiight...NOW.

Have you tried watching comedy clips on YouTube? Sometimes it helps with just enough lift to get me back to dry land.

 

[minx1]

I hate that the facebook page has gone. It troubles me. But thats all. Its not an obstacle and more fool her if she thinks it is. Hell it was my job for a long time.

if I want to pursue it I could.

Some people have no scruples or concept of doing the right thing.

 

[Essene]

Have you tried watching comedy clips on YouTube? Sometimes it helps with just enough lift to get me back to dry land.

That sounds like a good idea. Thanks Chy. Any particular search words I should try?