The Isolated Blurt BDSM Thread

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In this, people who want children and are having a tough time and people who desperately do not want them can relate.

The assumption is that everyone can pump out offspring to the tune of however many everyone else thinks is ideal.

And it never stops. "Only one?" "She's got 6??? WTH?"

I know. Can't we all have our privacy? I have never understood the urge on the part of parents to get everyone else to procreate. Seriously, the human race will go on.
 
Ok, isolated blurt: Dark chocolate with a touch of sea salt? Heaven! The Vosge chocolate bar with bacon bits? Ehhhh, it's kind of yuppie foodie indulgence gone very wrong.
 
I know. Can't we all have our privacy? I have never understood the urge on the part of parents to get everyone else to procreate. Seriously, the human race will go on.

It's the communal womb property BS - it's pretty ingrained.

Well I'll never be that person. I'm happy when people who want babies get them one way or another as long as it's not black market or kidnapping but I forget to ask things like that even if I'm supposed to.
 
Sorry, this isn't isolated blurt, but boundaries judo has been my life's work more or less - I throw this out in the hopes that maybe there's something useful in it.

Oh yeah and amen.

It's tough as hell, yes, but soooooooo worth it. And the great thing is that it gets easier and easier with practice.

I love my boundaries.
 
I don't even want kids, but it bugs me when my family harps on "When are you getting married and having kids?" and other BS like that. At my cousin's wedding, it was "You're going to be next." When I said no, it was like, "Oh, well, you'll find someone who'll sweep you off your feet, and you'll fall in love with him and get married."

Look, assholes, I've already found him. But until they make polygamy legal, I reckon I'm just fucked. But you can't say that, you know. :rolleyes:

Oh, c'mon. I bet they'd never ask you again. It might be TOTALLY worth it.

I have several cousins who have no intention of having children and one who got preggers once (on accident) and doesn't want any others and our family constantly is on their behinds about having children.

A quote, for those of you who don't want one at all.

My cousin Katie said, when my mom was preggers with my littlest sister (Katie was 17). "I can't imagine having something living in you, feeding off you like a parasite."
 
Reasons why it's good to be the submissive #758213305

When you want to take a step back for a while because you think it will be easier on him, and he says no.
 
*pout* actually, I'd really rather you don't have kids before me. Yes, I know its childish, but I was the firstborn ffs! not my fault its taking so long :(


I just found out my friend is having another...her second. She was saying how hard it is at this age...she's only two months older than me. and me having one isnt even in sight yet!
Its horrible but I admit I felt kinda jealous when I heard her news. I mean I'm glad for her, but I think it made me really aware of my own situation and that I am no where near having one.
Infact I am maybe having to face up to the fact I may never have one. And I really want to be a mum.
 
I just found out my friend is having another...her second. She was saying how hard it is at this age...she's only two months older than me. and me having one isnt even in sight yet!
Its horrible but I admit I felt kinda jealous when I heard her news. I mean I'm glad for her, but I think it made me really aware of my own situation and that I am no where near having one.
Infact I am maybe having to face up to the fact I may never have one. And I really want to be a mum.

*hugs*

Don't give up hope until it really is physically too late. Hell, John Travolta's wife just got pregnant again at 47. It's doable.

And I know the jealousy. My brother and his wife are expecting their second. It makes me wish I was in the right place in life. Emotionally, I'm ready. Even someone at work noticed the other day, when I was holding a co worker's baby, and called me 'a natural mother.'

There's nothing I want more, than to be a wife and mother. I get scared though, that it won't happen.
 
You might be kinky when you're browsing at big lots, and see a cutting board and think 'ow, those things hurt'. LOL
 
*hugs*

Don't give up hope until it really is physically too late. Hell, John Travolta's wife just got pregnant again at 47. It's doable.

And I know the jealousy. My brother and his wife are expecting their second. It makes me wish I was in the right place in life. Emotionally, I'm ready. Even someone at work noticed the other day, when I was holding a co worker's baby, and called me 'a natural mother.'

There's nothing I want more, than to be a wife and mother. I get scared though, that it won't happen.

Yeah me too. I did the wife bit once...just with the wrong person lol.
He has gone of to have two kids with his new partner. Sometimes I regret giving him the 6 years I did....only because it was possibly a crucial time in terms of me having my own family. Still, shit happens.

I keep looking at all these celebs who have them really late, but i'm 41 in a few months and to be honest if i dont physically have one in the next 3/4, I doubt I will. I dont want to be a really old mum...I want to have a chance at being around whilst they grow up.
I feel the same as you....emotionally I'm ready, financially I'm not lol but i will be in a better situation 12 months from now in that respect. Besides Id somehow pull a rabbit out of a hat if it happened lol.
Otherwise my options are to revisit adoption and fostering at some point before I'm 45:rolleyes:
 
Well if practically every single person you encounter asks whether you're pregnant on a daily basis...

Have you tried wearing a printed tee-shirt that reads something like:

"Please don't ask me if I'm pregnant, as a punch in the eye often offends."
 
*snip*
Look, assholes, I've already found him. But until they make polygamy legal, I reckon I'm just fucked. But you can't say that, you know. :rolleyes:
I would. Deadpan it enough with an open expression and follow it with some bit of family gossip... preferably related to their family unit.

"Oh! I've already found him. But until they make polygamy legal, I reckon I'm just fucked. So how's John doing with round three of rehab?"

"Oh! I've already found him. But until they make polygamy legal, I reckon I'm just fucked. Have you decided which diet you're going to try next to lose that last 20 pounds of baby fat?(when the child is well into childhood)."

"Oh! I've already found him. But until they make polygamy legal, I reckon I'm just fucked. Speaking of marriage, is Jane going to be next? Or is she going to wait till after high school graduation and the birth?"

"Oh! I've already found him. But until they make polygamy legal, I reckon I'm just fucked. By the way, did you ever figure out where Joe was going when he wasn't at the bowling alley?"

*shrugs*
I'm kind of a bitch like that though. And it's helpful that I dislike most of my family.
 
*pokes around in the fridge and seriously considers putting in an order for Mao Goo Gai Pan with double the veggies.*
 
Arg! I took some of my good cough medicine so I could sleep and while I'm not coughing now I can't sleep! *headdesk*

It used to be that vicodin put me out like a light. Not anymore. *sigh*

*note to self* Next dr visit, switch pain meds.
 
For some reason, this made me think of Mr Rosco.


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I just found out my friend is having another...her second. She was saying how hard it is at this age...she's only two months older than me. and me having one isnt even in sight yet!
Its horrible but I admit I felt kinda jealous when I heard her news. I mean I'm glad for her, but I think it made me really aware of my own situation and that I am no where near having one.
Infact I am maybe having to face up to the fact I may never have one. And I really want to be a mum.

If I could, I'll make you a mom!

Life is often unpredictable, so I'll keep sending good vibes that you get your heart desires!

:rose:
 
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