How much is enough?

[the captians wench]

In the ideal conditions, no kids, no work, no stressers, you do still have to eat and sleep and all normal hygiene applies, but other than that nothing to worry about but you and your lover.

So in the ideal conditions, how much sex (ie how often) would be the perfect amount?

Are you a once-a-dayer? one a month? twice a year? 8 times a week?

Spill.

 

[Cattypuss]

I think three times a day - on waking, mid-afternoon, and at bed-time.

 

[kimuk]

sleepy early morning sex. a lunch time quickie and slow dirty dirty stuff at the end of the day

 

[george51]

Every day, plus the odd bit of masturbation to keep me going.

If I was behind you, it would be non stop.,Captain's Wench, it would be non stop..

That quote is excellent. Very true.

 

[MisterSir]

I'm going to go with once a day, but with frequent exceptions for beatings or other dirtiness throughout. I sense the actual figure would be closer to thrice daily and about nine times total every weekend. This is, of course, one of the few areas youth is on my side.

 

[FurryFury]

3 X @ day has always been my preference.

 

[FloggingMolly]

oooh toughie. I think I'd probably say once a day, because I've no doubt we'd spend the rest of the time going out and doing stuff, and just enjoying time together.

 

[Essene]

Three-four times/day. Twice in a row in the morning, maybe once in the afternoon, and definitely again before bed.


I've had a few, but very awesome days like this.

 

[Netzach]

Like hold you down and frustrate you or make you lick me sex or in and out of orifices sex?

The latter, God, I can go a week just FINE.
The former, for sure once, even twice a day would be super.

 

[00Syd]

One to two times a day. With Seb being out of work now, and my being in NYC the majority of the time, we get pretty close to that.

 

[Keroin]

Hm. "Enough" varies widely for me - even in ideal conditions. Sometimes three times a day, sometimes once a week. There's no set number.

In RL, we probably average some kind of activity 5-6 times per week.

But L read me some shocking stats a few days ago, about how infrequently married people our age have sex. Apparently we fall well outside of normal...whew.

 

[midwestyankee]

The most recent times that I've had such a set of ideal conditions, they lasted for only a few days. The count was generally around three times per day. One weekend like this, though, saw a count of more like 12 or 14 times between Friday evening and Sunday morning. Note that I'm counting episodes involving insertion of some kind. The count on orgasms is a whole 'nother thing; I'd estimate an average of 6 to 8 per episode (for her).

Now I will return to my veggie burger lunch and to plan my afternoon exercise. Must keep up the stamina when you're old enough to have cheered Lincoln's election, you know.

 

[unsettled]

I don't think I have ever had enough, so I am not sure what is enough for me, but I assume it would vary from day to day.

 

[graceanne]

Hm. "Enough" varies widely for me - even in ideal conditions. Sometimes three times a day, sometimes once a week. There's no set number.

In RL, we probably average some kind of activity 5-6 times per week.

But L read me some shocking stats a few days ago, about how infrequently married people our age have sex. Apparently we fall well outside of normal...whew.

Us, too. With the kids and everything we average probably twice a week; in other words sometimes we have sex more often and sometimes less. This is evidently almost unheard of in the married with children set.

Without kids? I dunno. I guess three days a week, four? would be about how often. I guess.

 

[the captians wench]

Okay, I'll admit that I'm a shameless slut.

When I was married, I just wasn't happy with less than once a day. I would have been happier to have twice a day, and weekends be spent almost solely in bed.

My ideal would be full romps thrice a day, with opportunities to blow him and/or get a spanking imbetween.

Weekends would be spent in various states of throws of passion.

and the longer I can keep his cock in my mouth the better.

 

[Keroin]

Us, too. With the kids and everything we average probably twice a week; in other words sometimes we have sex more often and sometimes less. This is evidently almost unheard of in the married with children set.

Without kids? I dunno. I guess three days a week, four? would be about how often. I guess.

Oh yeah, the kid thing would change frequency in a big way. We're dog sitting right now, and even that is putting a dent in the sexy time, lol. Hard to get your freak on in the morning when those big eyes show up at the side of the bed, begging you for a walk.

 

[satindesire]

I used to have a blistering libido, literally couldn't get enough sex. But when it comes to ORGASMS, I'm cool with once a day, or every other day, no matter how I get them.

With a nine month old, we're lucky to squeeze in once a week.

 

[kaycee217]

I am in awe of this thread.

About 3 times every two days is my estimate for "enough" .

 

[graceanne]

Oh yeah, the kid thing would change frequency in a big way. We're dog sitting right now, and even that is putting a dent in the sexy time, lol. Hard to get your freak on in the morning when those big eyes show up at the side of the bed, begging you for a walk.

Not to mention I can guarantee that the kids will KNOW when we're horny and that's the night they'll give us crap about going to bed. Monsters.

 

[kittyn_]

Enough? This term does not exist.

As is I manage about once a day, but I'd like at least twice. I have a 4 year old who has recently become obsessed with transferring himself from his bed to ours about an hour after mommy and daddy lay down though, so... That kills any morning possibilities

Pre-child, or when child is at grandmas (yay for grandparents!) we're 2-4 times daily, I'd wear him out with anything more than that.

 

[2likis2luv]

3 times a day, but with the evening being multi orgasmic

 

[TypicalDeviant]

In a perfect world, 7 to 21 times/sessions per week (however it falls). Realistically, 4 to 7 times per week would keep me fucking thrilled.

 

[SirLeo]

Too much fun is never enough.......

 

[BiBunny]

I'd like to say twice a day, but, truthfully, knowing how rough we tend to play and fuck, after two or three days, we'd have to tone it down. So maybe every other day or every 2-3 days would be more feasible to keep up over extended periods of time.

 

[Homburg]

1-3/day, roughly.

When MIS was still in NY, the weekend visits were essentially "ideal conditions", and we managed 20-30 incidents over the course of the weekend on average.

God, I was sore afterwards.