For The Men - Kissing another man-Yes or No?

[LatinoBill]

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[Gowindown]

I enjoy being bi because sex is so many things. It'smore than just a man and a woman. Men can have beautiful sex with other men but when it comes to kissing: the females have us guys beat hands down. I think it's because women are softer. Kissing a man seems like kissing sandpaper. Personally I think it's humorous to kiss a man but I do it anyhow.

 

[Bicuriousone]

I would

I am very bicurious and have had just limited experience with my bi side. I have shared a kiss with just one other male but that was years ago. When he kissed me i was taken a little aback but found that I really enjoyed it. If I am ever able to fulfill my bisexual desires with another man, I would not hesitate to enjoy everything that two men can share, including kissing.

 

[lagunabi]

Just one

I have been fucked in the ass by 7 guys but I have only kissed one. He was the guy with the 8 inch cock and he took me to places I had never been before and I think that is why I wanted to kiss him. We did have an emotional connnection.

 

[haurni]

If you look at all the "I'm not gay but I like cock" threads, you'll note the disconnect between sex and intimacy (a big problem for men in general, IMO). I consider myself a bi guy and would like more experience with men - I could see myself kissing a man or even having a boyfriend, but I'd have to be very comfortable with him. Going beyond the sex to kissing is a qualitatively different step - one which requires you to admit to having feelings for another guy as opposed to just being horny.

Intimacy is also (I think, anyway) the reason many men get so turned on by lesbians. Men are socialized to be impassive on the outside but need intimacy on the inside. Women are socialized to express intimacy. Seeing two women together is a double dose of what we all really want in life. (Of course, by the same logic, seeing the entire Swedish volleyball team in bed together would cause our heads to explode... )

 

[Chrissi]

The other day I hooked up with this guy who let me fuck his ass and mouth a few times roughly(I'm multi-orgasmic & that is not the issue for this thread), but would not kiss me. I being the very passionate homosexual Latino that I am, asked him why he did not kiss and he told me that he felt that it was not masculine and you should only do it with a woman. I just had finished breeding him like the last pussy-boy that he is and kissing is not masculine?!?Personally I think it is a fear of intimacy & the truth, that if you kiss another man you are truly homosexual. That the physical connection is safe, but God forbid you make an emotional connection with another man. Any thoughts on this guys?

I somewhat agree with this. Kissing is very important for me. And many guys are very sensual kissers. I have mentioned this before, that if I had to choose between kissing and sex and could only choose one and would have to give up the other which would I choose: Without a doubt nor hesitation, kissing.

I expect an emotional connection with other men, I need this to be comfortable and eventually sexual with them. Kissing is such and intimate and soul baring activity, especially when deep and passionate.

Those are my thoughts.

 

[infinity706]

I have no problem kissing guys.

 

[LatinoBill]

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[Cabeza]

I've kissed a few men, some of whom i also had sex with and some just for fun, and I can't say I've ever really enjoyed it. It was always too aggressive or too unshaven or whatever. I would do it with a guy I was particularly attracted to but I'd be much more picky about that than I would about what cocks I'd suck.

 

[kingkhan1]

I have kissed one man and I loved it a lot!

 

[little cletus]

I would rather suck a cock than kiss another man. That being said, if I were able to fuck another woman besides my wife, I don't think I would kiss her either.

 

[flasubm]

During my one and only man on man experience, I refused to kiss. I sucked his cock and took his load on my chest but would not allow a kiss. If I had this to do over again, it would go much differently.

 

[Christina_Lynn]

YES! I enjoy kissing other men especially when I am all dressed up for them.
I enjoy being held in there arms and taking there tongue into my mouth and sucking on it while they rub and play with my panty covered ass. It always ends up leading to more fun.

 

[meflash]

most of the time i have no interest in kissing men, but i did have a long makeout session with a guy who meet with me to CD. After we dressed & did a model show for each other we sat down on the couch together & he hugged me & started to kiss me. He did look fem dressed & I went with it & then really got into it. I really enjoyed it, & had a repeat with another CD with the same feelings. But when not dressed or with a guy so far none wanted to kiss & I didn't even think about it. I don't mind his cock on my lips but not his lips on mine, funny isn't it.

 

[bissguy]

I've never kissed a guy or had a guy try to kiss me. I don't know how i'd react if they did. I guess it will happen when it happens and then I'll know.

 

[eddie03]

before i was fully comfortable with my bisexuality i had no interest in kissing a guy, i just wanted to suck/get fucked and get done with it. after i came to terms with it, though, the idea of kissing a guy is much more attractive. (however, i have done none of those things, just fantasized about it)

I couldn't have said it better myself.

 

[Hitchiker69]

At first I didn't kiss guys, I just wanted to get my rocks off, then leave. But as may gay career progressed, and I let a guy fuck me it seemed silly to hold back from kissing him. Since I had his cock in my ass, taking his tongue seemed like a minor thing. I knew he'd wanted to kiss earlier, and he seemed disappointed that I wouldn't. As he was humping me (he on top, face to face) I kissed him on the cheek, and he got the idea. We french kissed and it added a lot to the experience. I felt like I let down all my inhibitions, and completely enjoyed him, his kisses, his cock, his muscles, his hairy legs, his fucking...the whole deal. That night was complete man to man sex, with no holds barred. It was great. Definitely different from straight sex. I felt we celebrated every bit of each other's manhood, and fully enjoyed and satisfied each other, in ways no woman ever could.

 

[LatinoBill]

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[srlmort]

Uh is it okay if a woman gives her point

Hello, I am not a man but damnit, I think it is the HOTTEST thing to see men kiss. It gets me excited and seeing it in person would be a great turn on for me. (I'm a bisexual married woman)

I think it's great when men can admit their bi or gay sexual side without embarrassment. This thread is quite a pleasure to look at!

Kissing is a great part of intimacy and just because men are not as soft as we are doesn't mean that the two of you cannot enjoy it.

Sorry to disrupt. As a writer, I always feel as though I need to state my opinion.

To Latino bill, your poems were AMAZINGLY hot. I felt a tingle, DEFINITELY!

 

[HarlotMinx]

I don't play with men unless I'm in my trans-girl mode, and when I kiss a man and I'm en femme, I don't feel like I'm a man kissing a man.

Trans-girl mode? I've got this image of optimus prime suddenly transforming into a transsexual.

 

[Gowindown]

Kissing is a great part of intimacy and just because men are not as soft as we are doesn't mean that the two of you cannot enjoy it.

I'm trying to absorb any knowledge I can in this thread but I gotta disagree here. You gals are like the SuperWalmarts of the kissing business. It's all yalls fault. You just kiss too good. But don't worry I'm not telling you gals to stop it. Heck I hope you don't stop. I like the little stores but I need the SuperWalmarts too.

 

[in4more]

Sometimes kissing is good, others bad. I made out a coouple of times with a friend but never got any further and found it highly erotic. He was gay and kept telling me what he wanted to do to me. Told him I was up for it but his boyfriend got jealous and they left the bar. Another time I was just letting someone suck me off and had no desire to kiss him at all. Guess it's just like anything else. If it's purely physical, the kissing seems like a pain in the ass. If you've got some emotional tie there, it's good.

 

[PolyLvr]

Hello, I am not a man but damnit, I think it is the HOTTEST thing to see men kiss. It gets me excited and seeing it in person would be a great turn on for me. (I'm a bisexual married woman)

I think it's great when men can admit their bi or gay sexual side without embarrassment. This thread is quite a pleasure to look at!

Kissing is a great part of intimacy and just because men are not as soft as we are doesn't mean that the two of you cannot enjoy it.

Sorry to disrupt. As a writer, I always feel as though I need to state my opinion.

To Latino bill, your poems were AMAZINGLY hot. I felt a tingle, DEFINITELY!

I've only ever kissed one guy. My wife seems to like watching us do that as we both please her.

 

[Bill3250]

The first time I was kissed by a man was a bit unnerving, but he was really into kissing as part of sex and as we continued kissing, I became comfortable with his tongue in my mouth and gave him mind. I think being naked together and feeling his hard cock against me helped. I now love kissing a man during sex, but I am rarely the one to make the first move.

Bill

 

[ignorantslut69]

I was dating this girl, she knew I was bi. We talked about fucking and blowing and she asked if I ever kissed a guy, and I had never done it.

I never liked the idea to me it was the time that I had to admit that I had to be gay if I ever kissed a guy. She assured me I was not if I kissed a guy as I loved fucking her way too much for me to be gay.

She however urged me to kiss the next guy that I hooked up with and fucked.

A week later, I did just that. It was mind blowingly great. He and I made out for an hour naked on my hotel bed before we ever touched the others cock.

I am still bi, not gay married to someone else, that was probably my mistake

Joe