serving from the Top-if that's the right term

[emme]

I have almost always been on the submissive side. For years I have been in a relationship with someone who enjoys milder play and who is less dominant. I have "submitted" by being happy with what I have and not asking for more.

However recently, my partner has expressed some interest in me taking some control and topping him. Although it isn't easy for me, I want to.

I was curious of others experiences

 

[00Syd]

You were close! The correct term is 'service top.'

 

[CutieMouse]

The Good Girl's Guide to Female Domination might be a helpful thing to read. It's a pretty quick book and might help you get into the right head space.

 

[emme]

thanks

I need a little help so thanks

 

[Stella_Omega]

The Good Girl's Guide to Female Domination might be a helpful thing to read. It's a pretty quick book and might help you get into the right head space.

I second that-- good for any service top, or bottom learning to switch, no matter which sex they are.