The How-To's of Humiliation

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OK, so my current play thing and I are both exploring and learning what each other likes. He has mentioned I should tell him how worthless he is and how worthless his balls and cock are. Wonderful! How do I develop this sort of humiliation? Right now I'm worn out from a long day, but will be back to see what you have to say and what I can learn from all of you.

I am SO loving this!
 
OK, so my current play thing and I are both exploring and learning what each other likes. He has mentioned I should tell him how worthless he is and how worthless his balls and cock are. Wonderful! How do I develop this sort of humiliation? Right now I'm worn out from a long day, but will be back to see what you have to say and what I can learn from all of you.

I am SO loving this!


Humiliation ideas are a hard thing to gather on the internet. Humiliation is a deeply personal thing, that best works between 2 people who know each other well, and know what buttons, deep inside the other's brain, to push.

Though, if he's asked for that... well... I dunno, maybe you can compare his to others? Especially previous partners. Especially while he's tied to a chair and is watching you masturbate.

*shrugs*
 
OK, so my current play thing and I are both exploring and learning what each other likes. He has mentioned ... Wonderful! How do I develop this sort of humiliation?
In answer to the above
Humiliation is a deeply personal thing, that best works between 2 people who know each other well, and know what buttons, deep inside the other's brain, to push.
pretty much parked this one with the tailgaters. i'd only add two thoughts. If you're easy going, cautious, or don't know each other well; follow the bouncing ball with his suggestion.

If you're a little more creative and know your partner, twist it and "slip it between the ribs" when least expected. He'll get more of a charge from the experience. If you nail the desire, your partner will be sitting in a puddle of goo with a dazed expression whispering "i can't believe i did that."
I am SO loving this!
As long as you're prepared for the results, whatever they may be, more power to you. Might also want to PM Netzach directly referencing this thread. She's one of the few on the board known for practicing this with a male partner on a regular basis. Otherwise, you'll be stuck with suggestions of a cock cage, huge strap-on, and what to do with them.
 
perhaps he'd like you to take full control. whilst advancing verbal dominance and humiliation, put some physical action into play, but tell him what you're goimg to do first.

e.g. i'm gona spank your cock now - right into submission. would you like that? followed by a swift slap...if it works, gets you both hotter, the opportunities will mushroom.

enjoy. and keep us posted
 
I called him my bitch the other day and he really seemed to like this. I have a hard time finding examples of humiliated speech. Maybe I could have him recite to me what his jobs are: cum whore, my bitch, my hole, existing only to pleasure me, etc. Yahthink? I don't know why this is so hard for me, but it is.
 
perhaps he'd like you to take full control. whilst advancing verbal dominance and humiliation, put some physical action into play, but tell him what you're goimg to do first.

e.g. i'm gona spank your cock now - right into submission. would you like that? followed by a swift slap...if it works, gets you both hotter, the opportunities will mushroom.

enjoy. and keep us posted

He very much likes his hard cock to be slapped, particularly when he gets punished for pulling away.
 
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