Women who LOVE gay porn...

[cyravance]

Ok, I'm one of them. I don't know why, but for whatever reason seeing two hot guys kissing each other and then getting into some hot and heavy action is just SUCH a turn-on!
A lot of guys seem to be scared to death of guy/guy contact and get upset at gay porn. Why? I mean, a lot of men are very turned on by girl/girl stuff, so why not the other way around?
And I read somewhere that the majority of good gay written porn is written by middle-aged women. What do some of you gay guys think of that?
I think it's because women are better at the 'romance' aspect, which is what seems to be missing from guy-written stuff. Maybe gay men are starved for real erotica, instead of the hard-core fuck and suck stuff. (although that has it's place, too.)
I'd like to ask gay men if they care whether a story is written by a woman. Most of the women writers use a male psuedonym when writing for that market. Would it be a turn-off if you found a good story was written by a woman? If so, why?

 

[Fatemaster]

Hey Cyra,

Thanks for your post...I think there are a lot of women out there who share your interest, just based on conversations I've had...

It wouldn't bother me at all if a woman wrote good male-male erotica, any more than if a guy wrote good lesbian erotica or directed a great lesbian porn movie. The fantasy is what I find so exciting...

I'm bisexual though so I might not have the opinion you're looking for...I'm not really looking for romance in the erotica I read, whether straight, gay, or bi. I'm looking for great, descriptive, fast-paced, creatively hot writing.

Hopefully that makes sense...

 

[Esperanza_Hidalgo]

Ok, I'm one of them. I don't know why, but for whatever reason seeing two hot guys kissing each other and then getting into some hot and heavy action is just SUCH a turn-on!
A lot of guys seem to be scared to death of guy/guy contact and get upset at gay porn. Why? I mean, a lot of men are very turned on by girl/girl stuff, so why not the other way around?
And I read somewhere that the majority of good gay written porn is written by middle-aged women. What do some of you gay guys think of that?
I think it's because women are better at the 'romance' aspect, which is what seems to be missing from guy-written stuff. Maybe gay men are starved for real erotica, instead of the hard-core fuck and suck stuff. (although that has it's place, too.)
I'd like to ask gay men if they care whether a story is written by a woman. Most of the women writers use a male psuedonym when writing for that market. Would it be a turn-off if you found a good story was written by a woman? If so, why?

Gay yes, men no (nothing against ya guys, but that just isn't my thing). I do enjoy some occasion porn with the wife, but prefer the realistic, where the girls aren't silicone induced freakazoids. I enjoy abbywinters.com. Aussie lesbians in the natural and at their finest.

 

[nitoc88]

it is my biggest fantasy to try bi with a woman watching, directing or joining, nothing turns me on like this. Hard to find a woman who is into it.

 

[srlmort]

Count me in

Hello,

Right now I am totally into writing M/M that I have sort of abandoned m/f sex. I love gay porn a well but mostly if it has a plot. (I know I'm reachin there) I'm signed up for gaydemon.com just so I can feed my brain with sights of m/m kissing and/or fucking.

Not to mention, some of the authors on their writing site are awesome. Very well written and hot.

I actually belong to a site called the erotica readers association and we had a discussion about women writing m/m.

Our conclusion was that women can be just a qualified as a gay man to do so and that perhaps what draws us to the genre is the unknown because we'll never know what it's like to be a gay man.

At the moment, I only have two m/m romps on the site but someday I plan to post more. A lot of the stories I have I want published so these I have here are just screenshots of what I'm capable of. =)

 

[infinity706]

I don't have any problem with women writing gay porn. Besides, I know plenty of women that love gay porn. Of course, the more homophobic ones still tend to like it as long as there's a woman there. I still haven't figured out why the presence of a woman makes so much difference to many people, though.

 

[srlmort]

Men's issues w/gay erotica

Seemingly, hetero men have such an issue with it and I really don't understand why. I mean if you're not doing it what is the issue?

My husband won't even read my gay erotica because he's like oh that's so gross but the 1 lesbian story I read he loved.

If only hetero men where more open...It's only a story after all.

 

[cyravance]

Thanks for your responses!
I don't know if this link will work, but let's try...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zGtggAA2cEY
It's a short little video of two nice looking guys kissing...VERY hot! I wish I could see more of it...*sigh*
It is really funny how incredibly aroused this stuff is making me! I guess I never really looked at it before, although I have always enjoyed the company of gay men. All right, here's another question...Do you gay men mind if a woman enjoys watching your fun? (Not that I'll stop...lol!)

Oh dear...what we may be witnessing here is the birth of a fetish...

 

[Cabeza]

As a bi guy, I'm all for women liking gay porn! I don't care who writes it... I will say I've found more hetero and lesbian porn stories that I thought were "good" than gay male. I think that's partly due to the size of the market and partly that gay male stories get stuck off in a corner and the label doesn't always fit. There are MMF stories, fem dom stories, TS stories, that often just get lumped in with gay male so you often have to wade through lots of "suck and fuck" MM stories to find more diversity.

And I'd love to have a woman watch me with a man. ;-)

 

[steffy]

For need of a label I am a bi woman. I really hate to categorize or to be categorized, because I think anyone sexually into and connecting with another person (or people), as long as all are consenting, is wonderful. So, two guys having a go, I'm in the front row!!!
S

 

[Frostfallen]

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[eddie03]

I don't have any problem with women writing gay porn. Besides, I know plenty of women that love gay porn. Of course, the more homophobic ones still tend to like it as long as there's a woman there. I still haven't figured out why the presence of a woman makes so much difference to many people, though.

Speaking as a bi male I think the reason I like a woman present in mmf bi porn is its like having your cake and eating too. I am enjoy seeing both sexes so it in some ways seems more natural. The fantasy of a Threesome is very hot no matter if its mff, fmm, or mmm (sorry ladies as a male a fff doesn't do a whole lot for me). So a woman doesn't have to be present for it to be hot. What I don't enjoy is seeing bi porn in which the woman is completely ignored and treated like a prop which happens quite often.

But to answer cyravance's question it doesn't bother me who writes the porn as long as I can make a connection with a least one of the characters. I think women writting gay porn is interesting and would shed a unique perspective to it. I agree that stories written by males focus on the hardcore aspect of sex. Which is fine sometimes but can also lack the passion to make a story hot. For me there needs to be a balance of romance and good ole hardcore sex. But I would read a woman author, a hot story is a hot story.

To the comment from Esperanza_Hidalgo I love the gals from Abby Winters too, they seem more real and more natural. I mostly look at the solo stills as lesbian sex does little for me (although the kissing is major turn on), but I have seen some lesbian stuff there that I enjoyed. I guess lesbian sex doesn't do much for me because I can't connect with anyone in the scene. In real life witnessing lesbian sex was much more a turn on but a frustrating one to be that arroused and realizing that no one in the room is wanting you except to be an audience. It was a great experience don't get me wrong, but not one that I would ever seek out again.

 

[Experiencedguy]

I have always been very bi, adn quite open about it. Several years ago, a gay friend and I were approached by a large number of lesbians that we both knew, and asked to put on a show for them. When we finally all met, we guys found they had also invited several of their curious straight girl friends as well. That was some of the best sex I ever had, and it certainly turned on a large numbers of the girls. Moral of the story: All sex, no matter what kind, is a large turnon to somebody at any time. And yes, woman authors do write some of the best gay stories.

 

[cyravance]

I'm glad I started this thread! Good to hear that others are as aroused as I am by it. I was starting to think I was a little weird...
An image I especially love is a pretty type of guy on his back, getting fucked, with his legs up. Even better if he has an 'eyes closed, mouth half-open' expression like he's really enjoying it. I've been checking out some of those free "tube" things, and I've seen too many where the guys are just kinda laying there, glancing nervously over at the camera, like they're thinking, "When are they gonna pay me so I can get the fuck outta here?"
And kissing. There HAS to be kissing! Real nice, deep and slow kissing, like in that link I posted. It seems that the guys aren't as comfortable with kissing as women are, too many clips just have the guys going at it with their genitals, with the usual gynecological close-ups, I like more of a complete package with my porn.
And, no stupid 'porn soundtrack music' please, you know, that zippy 70's shit! I want to hear the "yummy noises", and the sighs, and the little murmurred comments they make to each other, even the sound of the bed squeaking...it all adds to the experience for me.

 

[jetman2008]

I wish my wife thought like you..mmmm if you like we can chat sometime...i am alone now.bored..51 married male here...love to watch good porn also.

 

[SophieUK]

I'm glad I started this thread! Good to hear that others are as aroused as I am by it. I was starting to think I was a little weird...
An image I especially love is a pretty type of guy on his back, getting fucked, with his legs up. Even better if he has an 'eyes closed, mouth half-open' expression like he's really enjoying it. I've been checking out some of those free "tube" things, and I've seen too many where the guys are just kinda laying there, glancing nervously over at the camera, like they're thinking, "When are they gonna pay me so I can get the fuck outta here?"
And kissing. There HAS to be kissing! Real nice, deep and slow kissing, like in that link I posted. It seems that the guys aren't as comfortable with kissing as women are, too many clips just have the guys going at it with their genitals, with the usual gynecological close-ups, I like more of a complete package with my porn.
And, no stupid 'porn soundtrack music' please, you know, that zippy 70's shit! I want to hear the "yummy noises", and the sighs, and the little murmurred comments they make to each other, even the sound of the bed squeaking...it all adds to the experience for me.

Right with you there.. nice kissing.. ,,,

 

[george51]

I'm glad I started this thread! Good to hear that others are as aroused as I am by it. I was starting to think I was a little weird...
An image I especially love is a pretty type of guy on his back, getting fucked, with his legs up. Even better if he has an 'eyes closed, mouth half-open' expression like he's really enjoying it. I've been checking out some of those free "tube" things, and I've seen too many where the guys are just kinda laying there, glancing nervously over at the camera, like they're thinking, "When are they gonna pay me so I can get the fuck outta here?"
And kissing. There HAS to be kissing! Real nice, deep and slow kissing, like in that link I posted. It seems that the guys aren't as comfortable with kissing as women are, too many clips just have the guys going at it with their genitals, with the usual gynecological close-ups, I like more of a complete package with my porn.
And, no stupid 'porn soundtrack music' please, you know, that zippy 70's shit! I want to hear the "yummy noises", and the sighs, and the little murmurred comments they make to each other, even the sound of the bed squeaking...it all adds to the experience for me.

So well said. Forget the music. I want to hear the moaning..

 

[srlmort]

You're not wierd

I'm glad I started this thread! Good to hear that others are as aroused as I am by it.
An image I especially love is a pretty type of guy on his back, getting fucked, with his legs up. Even better if he has an 'eyes closed, mouth half-open' expression like he's really enjoying it.
And kissing. There HAS to be kissing! Real nice, deep and slow kissing, like in that link I posted. It seems that the guys aren't as comfortable with kissing as women are, too many clips just have the guys going at it with their genitals, with the usual gynecological close-ups, I like more of a complete package with my porn.


Everything you said is right on but I kept the parts I really agreed with! I love gay male movies where kissing is involved. Intimacy is very important to me. Not only that I love seeing good looking men fuck!

In my stories, I have images in mind that I'd like to see as a voyeur. Gorgeous, beautiful men with six packs, nice biceps and oh yes I love men with tats and piercings especially cock and nipple!!!

Whew!

 

[firew0man]

Oh I love gay porn. Totally. Of course I love porn in general, and have watched so many in the past, different kinds for different moods, but the one interest that stayed was gay porn. I'm a straight woman, but get off on gay porn. Sometimes it's the only thing that will get me off, that I wonder if there's something wrong with me. I have fantasized in the past of what it's like to be a gay man, and I know that if there's a chance to turn into one, I would take the opportunity in a heartbeat.

But more so of my love for gay men and gay porn and gay erotica stories - sometimes I feel like what I really wanted in life -- and I have been thinking about this lately -- is to be in a relationship with two men at the same time. All three of us. And these two men will not only love me, but they'll love each other, too. We can have sex, all three of us, or just the two of them, or me with either one of them or both at the same time. And it will be perfect.

 

[george51]

That second paragraph was well put. Good luck. I hope it works for you.

 

[amysboytoy]

"But more so of my love for gay men and gay porn and gay erotica stories - sometimes I feel like what I really wanted in life -- and I have been thinking about this lately -- is to be in a relationship with two men at the same time. All three of us. And these two men will not only love me, but they'll love each other, too. We can have sex, all three of us, or just the two of them, or me with either one of them or both at the same time. And it will be perfect."

That sounds like a fantasy/wish I have...a man and a woman to love, have sex with, and all get along great.

 

[Lolita30]

Gee, and I thought I was the only one who likes that! Now I don't have anything to be ashamed of!

 

[srlmort]

Awesome

But more so of my love for gay men and gay porn and gay erotica stories - sometimes I feel like what I really wanted in life -- and I have been thinking about this lately -- is to be in a relationship with two men at the same time. All three of us. And these two men will not only love me, but they'll love each other, too. We can have sex, all three of us, or just the two of them, or me with either one of them or both at the same time. And it will be perfect.[/QUOTE]

I too wanted that before I got married...LOL

I think a relationship with an M/M/F where all three had intimacy is completely awesome... That is a fantasy I have had for a LONG time.

Watching gay porn gets me hot too. I love the more intimate ones where there is more kissing, groping etc. Most times that doesn't exist but when it does it gets me hotter.

BTW on the GLBT part of this forum there is a thread for Women who like bi men. There are tons of men there that say they wish they knew a woman who would be into that. I have already talked to several guys over there telling me their fantasies off list.

Are any of you ladies writers btw? I am and are using some of their ideas, without names of course, as topics or plots.

I would also like to openly extend my hand to women who would LOVE to have a relationship with a bi man or actually do it.

I am thinking of creating a BLOG just for that because it is truly a fantasy for me, something I will never experience. LOL

Please PM me if you'd like to chat and be email pals.

 

[haremfaery]

I'm on a few literary sites and RPing on some. I recently found myself in the midst of writing gay porn with another woman. It was pretty hot. The RP had multiple authors and multiple characters and the story just took our two characters there. It was awesome to me because it fit and it worked.

I found out later that word was getting around and we had lurkers coming by just to read out stuff, then I started getting people I didn't know asking me for the PMs of what happened after we faded to black--the site won't let you go past PG in the threads.

I had to laugh, my favorite girl RP character fell in love with two RP boys, she actually helped get them together because the one was totally dense that the other liked him. One is gay and the other discovered he is bi. Someday we plan to turn the RP into a novel.

Yeah, I think bi men are sexy.

 

[firew0man]

I too wanted that before I got married...LOL

I think a relationship with an M/M/F where all three had intimacy is completely awesome... That is a fantasy I have had for a LONG time.

Watching gay porn gets me hot too. I love the more intimate ones where there is more kissing, groping etc. Most times that doesn't exist but when it does it gets me hotter.

BTW on the GLBT part of this forum there is a thread for Women who like bi men. There are tons of men there that say they wish they knew a woman who would be into that. I have already talked to several guys over there telling me their fantasies off list.

Are any of you ladies writers btw? I am and are using some of their ideas, without names of course, as topics or plots.

I would also like to openly extend my hand to women who would LOVE to have a relationship with a bi man or actually do it.

I am thinking of creating a BLOG just for that because it is truly a fantasy for me, something I will never experience. LOL

Please PM me if you'd like to chat and be email pals.

Hey dear PM me, we can swap stories or something like that. I have a lot of erotica that are either gay or MMF, and I think you would enjoy reading them.

Yeah I was lurking on that other thread but don't know what to say yet. I am very happy though that there are lots of men who love women like us.

Do you think it will really work, a relationship that I was thinking of? It makes me wonder sometimes.