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She's got that "desperate to look like a model/actress/rich california chick" appearance that brings out the disinterest in me.
 
subish2009 said:
You know, RR, I can a little bit get why you would (not that it matters if I do or not, your kinks are your own, just my two cents)... I VERY MUCH find arrogance hot in a male, so I'm thinking a Dom finding insecurity hot in a female is just the flip side of that same coin, right?
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ahhhhh yes... yin and yang
 
subish2009 said:
You know, RR, I can a little bit get why you would (not that it matters if I do or not, your kinks are your own, just my two cents)... I VERY MUCH find arrogance hot in a male, so I'm thinking a Dom finding insecurity hot in a female is just the flip side of that same coin, right?
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Arrogance is just insecurity with a mask on. They're not opposites at all.
 
JMohegan said:
Arrogance is just insecurity with a mask on. They're not opposites at all.
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I think I may disagree. I think arrogance with a fragile ego is "just insecurity with a mask on." Arrogance without the fragility, though, is just a TON of confidence, and that's the manifestation I find hot. To be fair, I've only met one man with the latter kind of arrogance, so it may be pretty rare. I've met a ton with the former and find it annoying as hell.
 
subish2009 said:
I think I may disagree. I think arrogance with a fragile ego is "just insecurity with a mask on." Arrogance without the fragility, though, is just a TON of confidence, and that's the manifestation I find hot. To be fair, I've only met one man with the latter kind of arrogance, so it may be pretty rare. I've met a ton with the former and find it annoying as hell.
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The difference between confidence and arrogance is that the latter clearly reflects a desire to put others down in an effort to prop oneself up, whereas the former finds this entirely unnecessary.

"A TON of confidence" without the smug attitude and overbearing manner is just a ton of confidence, period.
 
Something about insecurity stimulates my predatory, bullying side; which I'm not proud of, but which is totally connected to my balls.
 
rosco rathbone said:
Something about insecurity stimulates my predatory, bullying side; which I'm not proud of, but which is totally connected to my balls.
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I'd say - Something about vulnerability stimulates my predatory side; which I'm not proud of, but which it totally connected to my balls.

Vulnerability also stimulates my protective side, though. For a long time, I found this very confusing.
 
I was going to say that authenticity makes me hot, but that's not really true; some people are authentic jerks. More accurate is that authentic vulnerability arouses my protective and dominant feelings. For one thing, it takes a certain confidence to be truly vulnerable.

And while we're grabbing the wheel of the Oral Servitude thread and jerking it across two lanes of traffic, I find submission hot that comes from a place of curiosity. Curiosity is an underrated aphrodisiac! :devil:
 
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JMohegan said:
The difference between confidence and arrogance is that the latter clearly reflects a desire to put others down in an effort to prop oneself up, whereas the former finds this entirely unnecessary.

"A TON of confidence" without the smug attitude and overbearing manner is just a ton of confidence, period.
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I guess it depends how you define arrogance. Must it include putting others down? I don't think so. I think it's an excessive sense of one's own worth and superiority, which doesn't necessarily imply putting others down, just putting one's self up. By that definition, it's all very relative. One person's arrogance is another person's confidence.

I'd agree with you that it's the insecure people who put on a mask of arrogance and are also the one's who need to put others down. Where my perception differs from yours, I think, is that there are also men who have an extremely inflated view of themselves that is not dependent on what anyone else thinks of them and therefore don't need to put others down. I still call that arrogance, but affectionately so. I think the latter is a strength and the former is a weakness.

Meh, semantics. I think otherwise we're saying the same thing.
 
JMohegan said:
I'd say - Something about vulnerability stimulates my predatory side; which I'm not proud of, but which it totally connected to my balls.

Vulnerability also stimulates my protective side, though. For a long time, I found this very confusing.
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DeepGreenEyes said:
I was going to say that authenticity makes me hot, but that's not really true; some people are authentic jerks. More accurate is that authentic vulnerability arouses my protective and dominant feelings. For one thing, it takes a certain confidence to be truly vulnerable.

And while we're grabbing the wheel of the Oral Servitude thread and jerking it across two lanes of traffic, I find submission hot that comes from a place of curiosity. Curiosity is the an underrated aphrodisiac! :devil:

If that barmaid/California model only knew what she had started with one look at a cock.
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I've been on the receiving end of the tendencies that I think both of you are describing. I see those as extremely male instincts, and all that pure maleness makes me hotter than anything else!

</hijack> (from my end, at least)
 
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