What's your safe word?

[Loradai]

Ok I may just be too nosy but, What is your safe word?

hubbies and mine is Purple.

 

[ZRT]

'Safeword'.

I'm creative that way.

 

[ecstaticsub]

I don't have one anymore. If I have a serious cramp, or need water I say "ouch, I have a serious cramp" or "Please Daddy may I have a drink of water" etc

 

[Wife of Bath]

Campari.

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

"OhGod."

This has proven really problematic.

 

[sb2009]

i should come up with one. Right now i use "mother fucker you need to stop" but that probably won't work forever.

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

i should come up with one. Right now i use "mother fucker you need to stop" but that probably won't work forever.

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[Keroin]

Curling.

 

[Vixandra]

Colors-
Green means go!
Yellow means slow down or shift course.
Red means stop.

Simple, multi-leveled and easy to remember.

 

[graceanne]

"Ow! That fucking hurts! Stop it!"

When we first started this we had 'red' for a safeword, but I don't say 'stop it' if I don't mean it so we don't use a safeword.

 

[ZRT]

"OhGod."

This has proven really problematic.

Yeah, I had to stop using that one myself. Every time I'd make an off-the-wall comment, I'd end up wondering what hard limit I'd just stepped over THIS TIME.

...oh, wait, you meant in a sexual context.

 

[FurryFury]

Yep, we don't have one either. If I say to stop it, I mean it. He expects me to say if it hurts in a way I don't like or can't stand.

 

[Xelebes]

I don't really have a safeword, mostly due to lack of use but also due to the problems posed by my shutdown over the last year and due to increased vocal tics, I have a problem of becoming mute when too stressed. There is other signs I can give, hopefully.

 

[Sweetdaisymae]

Amber for slow it down, red for stop.
Although, owowowow not so hard! works ok!

 

[neci]

"OhGod."

This has proven really problematic.

this whole time, i just thought you were into severe and sadistic orgasm control.

 

[midwestyankee]

Hyperpolysyllabicsesquipedalianism. This has limited my choice of play partners somewhat.

 

[00Syd]

We go with the stoplight system (red, yellow, green) because we play a lot in public and it's easily recognizable to everyone, and easy for us to remember.

 

[Cattypuss]

I've used "helicopter" in the past.

 

[Sayyid]

"Abraham Lincoln."

 

[UKGuy85]

Ok I may just be too nosy but, What is your safe word?

hubbies and mine is Purple.

"Please put the staple-gun down"

 

[graceanne]

I don't really have a safeword, mostly due to lack of use but also due to the problems posed by my shutdown over the last year and due to increased vocal tics, I have a problem of becoming mute when too stressed. There is other signs I can give, hopefully.

You could snap your fingers.

"Please put the staple-gun down"

LOL!!

 

[myinnerslut]

i should come up with one. Right now i use "mother fucker you need to stop" but that probably won't work forever.

I only got laughed at the time i screamed out "MOTHERFUCKER". It was for this evil little blue singletail, and I swear he hit harder after that.

 

[Keroin]

Hyperpolysyllabicsesquipedalianism. This has limited my choice of play partners somewhat.

I dropped hemidemisemiquaver for the same reason.

 

[WriterDom]

Red and yellow. Simple

 

[DeepGreenEyes]

this whole time, i just thought you were into severe and sadistic orgasm control.

If you want, we can change it to "yesyesyes..."--