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"so hard 2 find pics of bbw's" oh really? you must be blind or not opening any of the threads on here.. a good 80% of the pic posting threads on this site are BBW's so I dont know what you are talking about.
There are two problems with this thread. Number one is you don't classify what you may consider to be a BBW. The second is that the darkroom lounge is a forum without pictures...they're not supposed to appear here. I've also always found the term BBW to be a bit offensive not only to women but also to myself. Women are beautiful...all of them.Y is it so hard 2 find pics of bbw's wen theres so much of them and alot of admirers also. So this is for all of u to show us what ur made of...
You'd better remove your signature because it surely contradicts with what you're saying here. You "seriously need a woman"? Well good luck with that. I'm not that big but I found your post very offensive.why does that feel like it was pointed at me? sorry, heavy family members that treat me like shit, an ex that was 5'2 and close to 280 or more that turned into a real bad experience, and alot of other negatives with heavy women just make me not into them.. now dont get me wrong, I dont like skin and bone girls that look like if I touhed them they be in traction for a year or dead, but women that their stomachs stick out farther than their breasts are gross.. I know theres a few of you on here that aarent that big but as I said, past wrongs are hard to move past.. oh and women that are what Id consider thick but not fat I like, thick meaning a little wider than some, tummy as wide as their ribs, but still a nice shape and somewhat toned...
I know I opened a can of worms with this post, not the first time.. none of us are perfect and I know Im out of shape but I cant help what I like and dont.. and when it comes to women, the ok by mess far outway the no can dos... I know IM not perfect I dont portray myself as such and dont hide that IM pretty fucked up in the head..
why does that feel like it was pointed at me? sorry, heavy family members that treat me like shit, an ex that was 5'2 and close to 280 or more that turned into a real bad experience, and alot of other negatives with heavy women just make me not into them.. now dont get me wrong, I dont like skin and bone girls that look like if I touhed them they be in traction for a year or dead, but women that their stomachs stick out farther than their breasts are gross.. I know theres a few of you on here that aarent that big but as I said, past wrongs are hard to move past.. oh and women that are what Id consider thick but not fat I like, thick meaning a little wider than some, tummy as wide as their ribs, but still a nice shape and somewhat toned...
I know I opened a can of worms with this post, not the first time.. none of us are perfect and I know Im out of shape but I cant help what I like and dont.. and when it comes to women, the ok by mess far outway the no can dos... I know IM not perfect I dont portray myself as such and dont hide that IM pretty fucked up in the head..
Do I really need to quote it?? Don't make me feel dirty...
Lex, I've been seeing you float in and out since I joined this board and I just can't bite my tongue anymore.
For the most part, you seem fairly benign. You post here and there. You don't say much, people don't really care, and the cycle goes on. But every so often you seem to get a bit of a callous streak in you and it's very annoying when it comes out. This is mainly because you seem to do it in the most unwelcome places. You know what? If you have a problem with larger women, why the hell would you even bother responding to a thread specifically referring to photos of them? And if so, why do it in such a catty and immature manner? Why not just say, "Perhaps you should check the (insert link here) thread," or something along those lines? It seems to me that if you make a comment such as yours in a thread such as this you are doing it with no other intent than to stir the chamber pot and raise a stink.
I also don't appreciate the way that you tend to act on others photo threads. I've seen it many times, but in particular I'll bring up a thread posted last May by a user called "Shybutcurious". She left after about a month, and it's no secret to through the correspondence that we shared that comments like yours are part of the reason that she took her photos down. Let's look, shall we?
"sorry to say but the first one is just gross lookin to me"
Ok, that seems slightly abrasive. I mean, criticism is one thing, but I don't think it's cool to tell someone who's posting photos to boost confidence (particularly someone whom you claimed to be so beautiful) their photos are "gross". Everyone is entitled to their opinion, of course, but your opinion is a little more valid when you present it in a more tactful way.
Follow up to that being...
"IM sorry hun.. do want you want then, I will leave you alone and you can enjoy your thread without my input. Im sorry for fuckin it up for you just because Im weird. take care"
So, you get offended because you hurt her feelings. And your response is, fine, I'll take my toys and go home. But you did stop back in to defend her, and add a little hypocrisy to the mix as well.
"dude shut up dickhead.. thats not helping any"
Apparently you missed everything she said to you about how the comments you had made had affected her confidence. But, you stood up for her- to tear her down again with this little number...
"its so funny how supposedly shy or heavy girls can still have some really slutty underwear lol.. they are shy about showing, but have it just in case.. boggles the mind"
That's all I'm doing, but suffice to say she took her photos down a short time later and related to me that people like yourself (in particular, you) were a primary reason.
I've seen your sob stories about loneliness and virginity, and so on. I've seen how pissy you get when you post a few cock shots and get no response. You know what? Maybe your problem is a "weird sense of humor" or a "crooked spine" or anything like that. I've know many people a lot more disfigured than you claim to me (and no, I do not make light of any medical condition that you may have)., and all of them have healthy relationship and active sex lives. The reason? They're not assholes. Let me tell you, friend, women really do care about personality, and when they see a grown man putting down a girl on her own pic thread or weeping like a toddler with a skinned knee when no one takes the time to tell him how pretty his self-nudes-ala bathroom mirror photos are they tune out. Maybe if you just act like a decent human people, take your foot from your mouth, and think before you speak you'd have a little bit better luck. But until then, save the bitchcraft for a livejournal.com page. And, as Ima commented, I can't even begin to fathom the hypocrisy evident in your signature line. Practice what you preach.
I'm sorry for this long post, and I'm sorry to have hijacked a thread. I promise to report back with a few photo threads linked that I think the original poster will appreciate. I just couldn't hold my tongue any longer. Now, if you'll excuse me, my soapbox and I are off to find a bite to eat for lunch...
Don't apologize. Thanks for showing us how much Lex really is a horrible excuse for humanity. Absolutely shameful. Please tell shybutcurious not to let one asshole keep her away. Even if she doesn't put up any more pics.Lex, I've been seeing you float in and out since I joined this board and I just can't bite my tongue anymore.
For the most part, you seem fairly benign. You post here and there. You don't say much, people don't really care, and the cycle goes on. But every so often you seem to get a bit of a callous streak in you and it's very annoying when it comes out. This is mainly because you seem to do it in the most unwelcome places. You know what? If you have a problem with larger women, why the hell would you even bother responding to a thread specifically referring to photos of them? And if so, why do it in such a catty and immature manner? Why not just say, "Perhaps you should check the (insert link here) thread," or something along those lines? It seems to me that if you make a comment such as yours in a thread such as this you are doing it with no other intent than to stir the chamber pot and raise a stink.
I also don't appreciate the way that you tend to act on others photo threads. I've seen it many times, but in particular I'll bring up a thread posted last May by a user called "Shybutcurious". She left after about a month, and it's no secret through the correspondence that we shared that comments like yours are part of the reason that she took her photos down. Let's look, shall we?
"sorry to say but the first one is just gross lookin to me"
Ok, that seems slightly abrasive. I mean, criticism is one thing, but I don't think it's cool to tell someone who's posting photos to boost confidence (particularly someone whom you claimed to be so beautiful) their photos are "gross". Everyone is entitled to their opinion, of course, but your opinion is a little more valid when you present it in a more tactful way.
Follow up to that being...
"IM sorry hun.. do want you want then, I will leave you alone and you can enjoy your thread without my input. Im sorry for fuckin it up for you just because Im weird. take care"
So, you get offended because you hurt her feelings. And your response is, fine, I'll take my toys and go home. But you did stop back in to defend her, and add a little hypocrisy to the mix as well.
"dude shut up dickhead.. thats not helping any"
Apparently you missed everything she said to you about how the comments you had made had affected her confidence. But, you stood up for her- to tear her down again with this little number...
"its so funny how supposedly shy or heavy girls can still have some really slutty underwear lol.. they are shy about showing, but have it just in case.. boggles the mind"
That's all I'm doing, but suffice to say she took her photos down a short time later and related to me that people like yourself (in particular, you) were a primary reason.
I've seen your sob stories about loneliness and virginity, and so on. I've seen how pissy you get when you post a few cock shots and get no response. You know what? Maybe your problem is a "weird sense of humor" or a "crooked spine" or anything like that. I've know many people a lot more disfigured than you claim to me (and no, I do not make light of any medical condition that you may have)., and all of them have healthy relationship and active sex lives. The reason? They're not assholes. Let me tell you, friend, women really do care about personality, and when they see a grown man putting down a girl on her own pic thread or weeping like a toddler with a skinned knee when no one takes the time to tell him how pretty his self-nudes-ala bathroom mirror photos are they tune out. Maybe if you just act like a decent human people, take your foot from your mouth, and think before you speak you'd have a little bit better luck. But until then, save the bitchcraft for a livejournal.com page. And, as Ima commented, I can't even begin to fathom the hypocrisy evident in your signature line. Practice what you preach.
I'm sorry for this long post, and I'm sorry to have hijacked a thread. I promise to report back with a few photo threads linked that I think the original poster will appreciate. I just couldn't hold my tongue any longer. Now, if you'll excuse me, my soapbox and I are off to find a bite to eat for lunch...
Not too fukkin bright, are ya?why does that feel like it was pointed at me? sorry, heavy family members that treat me like shit, an ex that was 5'2 and close to 280 or more that turned into a real bad experience, and alot of other negatives with heavy women just make me not into them.. now dont get me wrong, I dont like skin and bone girls that look like if I touhed them they be in traction for a year or dead, but women that their stomachs stick out farther than their breasts are gross.. I know theres a few of you on here that aarent that big but as I said, past wrongs are hard to move past.. oh and women that are what Id consider thick but not fat I like, thick meaning a little wider than some, tummy as wide as their ribs, but still a nice shape and somewhat toned...
I know I opened a can of worms with this post, not the first time.. none of us are perfect and I know Im out of shape but I cant help what I like and dont.. and when it comes to women, the ok by mess far outway the no can dos... I know IM not perfect I dont portray myself as such and dont hide that IM pretty fucked up in the head..
Not too fukkin bright, are ya?
No wonder yer still a virgin.
I know a guy IRL like you. He's 50 now and still a virgin, I think At least he was at 47, the last time I could stand being in the same room as him.
Sorry Lex, but you're your own worst enemy.
Women are beautiful...all of them.
all I have to say is read the top thing on any of the pages on this site, what does it say? "- Free Speech, No Spam! -" Ive said time and time again that my mind is fucked up and Im not in control of my emotions and say shit that doesnt quite come out right alot thanks to alot of social issues and lack of knowhow of how to say what I mean.. case in point right there.. Ive been used and abused by everyone Ive ever trusted and sit alone locked inside my own head alot so go figure I dont know how to talk.. as for what I said, as per usual it was sort of tongue in cheek.. as for the looking gross for the one comment for that pic, yeah it did, if I remember right she had something leaking out of her or in her that just looked gross.. and yes sometimes I turn into a cynical asshole, other times Im really down, others Im the most upbeat guy ever and can make people laugh.. others Im a really caring sensitive hopeless romantic.. sorry if you cant ahndle it, believe me its much harder for me to handle it myself and thats why I have no firends or a gf or job.. if you dont like what I have to say, look elsewhere, you dont ahve to read it.. and yes last night I was in a shit mood and in the mood to stir shit up ok.. ppl are fucked up.. get over it.. Fuck you and have a nice day.
Ima I have to disagree with you on that. For some reason it seems most women get some sort of title anywhere from BBW to anorexic to slut and on to bitch.C'mon lets just all get along.You'd better remove your signature because it surely contradicts with what you're saying here. You "seriously need a woman"? Well good luck with that. I'm not that big but I found your post very offensive.
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Jeep: I've never liked the term, either. Skinny chicks don't have a certain name, why do the bigger women have to have one?
GP great post and with Eagles lyrics no less...You know what? I honestly do feel sorry if you've had a bad life. I mean, really, if you have had enough bad things happen to make you react this way that's awful. However, it is not an excuse. You need to grow the hell up and take responsibility for your actions. And yes, I understand "free speech, no spam" but belligerence and lashing out against people for no good reason is hardly speech. They are the acts of an immature child who is sorry because he always got picked last at dodgeball and only got pity Valentines during the school party. If you recognize these problems, don't just write them off- get help and pull your life together, man! But if you're not doing anything to change it and just using it as an excuse, then they're even more pathetic than I'd originally thought. I really doubt that people would have accepted "Oh, I'm sorry, I had a bad childhood" from Charles Whitman, and it's not going to work for you either.
So, my friend, I'll leave you with a special dedication, just for you...
Get Over It ~ The Eagles (Listen Here- Get the FULL effect)
I turn on the tube and what do I see?
A whole lot of people cryin' "Don't blame me,"
They point their crooked little fingers at everybody else,
And spend all their time feelin' sorry for themselves,
A victim of this,
A victim of that,
Your mama's too thin,
Your daddy's too fat,
Get over it!
Get over it!
All this whinin', cryin' and pitchin' a fit,
Get over it!
You say you haven't been the same,
Since you had your little crash,
But you might feel better if I give you some cash?
The more I think about it, ole Billy was right-
Let's kill all the lawyers, kill 'em tonight!
You don't wanna work,
You wanna live like a king,
But the Big Bad World doesn't owe you a thing!
Get over it!
Get over it!
If you don't wanna play, then you might as well split,
Get over it!
It's like going to confession every time I hear you speak,
You're making the most of a losing streak,
Some call it sick,
But I call it weak,
So you drag it around like a ball and chain,
You wallow in the guilt,
You wallow in the pain,
You wear it like a flag,
You wear it like a crown,
Got your mind in the gutter bringin' everybody down,
Complain about the present,
And blame it on the past,
I wanna find your inner-child
AND KICK IT'S LITTLE ASS!
Get over it!
Get over it!
All this bitchin', moaning, and pitchin' a fit,
Get over it!
Get over it!
Get over it!
It's gotta stop sometime, so why don't you quit?
Get over it!
GET OVER IT!
I thought I was pretty good about what I said and trying to elaborate so.. get over it